WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.670 --> 00:00:04.031 a listener production. 2 00:00:05.132 --> 00:00:05.812 I'm Bec Judd. 3 00:00:06.052 --> 00:00:06.993 And I'm Jess Roberts. 4 00:00:07.233 --> 00:00:09.135 And we're done with the smoke and mirrors. 5 00:00:09.435 --> 00:00:15.559 Fainish shares honest stories about what it takes to look amazing because we did not wake up like this. 6 00:00:15.799 --> 00:00:20.823 And you should know the stuff that we chat about on this podcast is based on our personal experiences. 7 00:00:21.163 --> 00:00:23.086 We're sharing it for your entertainment. 8 00:00:23.266 --> 00:00:25.909 It's definitely not medical advice. 9 00:00:26.109 --> 00:00:29.353 And we'll always be clear with you when something is a paid endorsement. 10 00:00:29.574 --> 00:00:34.540 Please always chat with your qualified healthcare team before making any decisions about your health. 11 00:00:50.038 --> 00:00:53.040 Hi guys, it's Bec Judd and Jess Roberts and welcome to Vanish. 12 00:00:53.140 --> 00:00:54.501 Welcome to Vanish. 13 00:00:55.262 --> 00:01:00.226 Okay, there's a trend going around social media at the moment and it's five things that are worth the money. 14 00:01:00.646 --> 00:01:00.886 Yes. 15 00:01:01.126 --> 00:01:01.486 Yes. 16 00:01:01.587 --> 00:01:02.027 All right. 17 00:01:02.207 --> 00:01:03.228 So we wanted to do it. 18 00:01:03.268 --> 00:01:04.108 Yeah. 19 00:01:04.529 --> 00:01:06.010 But I've got way more than five. 20 00:01:06.030 --> 00:01:06.850 I do? 21 00:01:06.910 --> 00:01:07.551 I was struggling. 22 00:01:08.031 --> 00:01:08.392 Really? 23 00:01:08.412 --> 00:01:08.892 Yeah. 24 00:01:09.112 --> 00:01:12.294 My ADHD doesn't lock into anything too long, so I'm constantly swapping around. 25 00:01:12.314 --> 00:01:12.415 Yeah. 26 00:01:13.135 --> 00:01:19.804 But I have to say, mine would have to be InShot, which is a editing video. 27 00:01:19.864 --> 00:01:28.334 So when we're doing Instagram Reels, we'll throw it into InShot where we can cut and it's almost like your TikToks and your Instagram Reels, but we do it in a... 28 00:01:29.234 --> 00:01:33.217 simpler way because I don't understand how to do... Oh, like edits and cap cuts and stuff like that. 29 00:01:33.237 --> 00:01:34.298 Yeah, yeah, I don't know how to do it. 30 00:01:34.378 --> 00:01:39.202 I will say I feel like InShot is more user-friendly. 31 00:01:39.282 --> 00:01:42.785 Yeah, it's more, yeah, for us that are just tech, not tech savvy. 32 00:01:42.805 --> 00:01:46.949 Yeah, and maybe that's because we got on InShot before the cap cuts and the edits became a thing. 33 00:01:47.369 --> 00:01:49.571 So our brains just trained to use InShot. 34 00:01:49.911 --> 00:01:54.435 But I think what you're talking about is you can't get the free InShot is you pay for the professional one. 35 00:01:54.495 --> 00:01:55.156 How much is it? 36 00:01:55.900 --> 00:01:57.241 A couple hundred bucks a year or something. 37 00:01:57.261 --> 00:01:57.622 Yeah. 38 00:01:57.642 --> 00:01:58.242 But it is worth it. 39 00:01:58.262 --> 00:01:58.903 It's good. 40 00:01:58.923 --> 00:01:59.564 It's so worth it. 41 00:01:59.584 --> 00:02:04.048 And I don't even think we use half of the features that we could use to make our stuff look really good. 42 00:02:04.068 --> 00:02:05.870 Because it's just way too tech for us. 43 00:02:05.970 --> 00:02:06.710 Yeah. 44 00:02:06.811 --> 00:02:08.532 Other one is the Canon G7X. 45 00:02:08.552 --> 00:02:09.013 GX7. 46 00:02:09.813 --> 00:02:10.494 GX7. 47 00:02:10.634 --> 00:02:12.236 That's on mine as well. 48 00:02:12.296 --> 00:02:12.656 Yeah. 49 00:02:12.676 --> 00:02:12.936 Yeah. 50 00:02:12.956 --> 00:02:13.197 Love that. 51 00:02:13.217 --> 00:02:14.198 But you've got to have the settings. 52 00:02:14.638 --> 00:02:14.878 Yes. 53 00:02:15.038 --> 00:02:15.619 Yes. 54 00:02:15.639 --> 00:02:19.601 So the settings for the, like this Canon GX7 camera, everyone wants. 55 00:02:20.081 --> 00:02:21.822 And it's so bloody hard to get, right? 56 00:02:21.862 --> 00:02:23.883 Like I was on a wait list for like a year and never got it. 57 00:02:23.903 --> 00:02:25.084 Well, I just walked in and got it. 58 00:02:25.104 --> 00:02:25.744 It was great. 59 00:02:25.944 --> 00:02:28.265 Oh, yeah, because you walked in and they were like, we've just had a delivery. 60 00:02:28.305 --> 00:02:31.067 Yeah, and I just flexed it for about 12 months while you were waiting for yours. 61 00:02:31.107 --> 00:02:33.008 I was like, no, I got mine in a second. 62 00:02:33.980 --> 00:02:35.641 He's such a great friend to have around. 63 00:02:35.822 --> 00:02:38.023 Like, honestly, this shit every day. 64 00:02:38.043 --> 00:02:40.706 Mine's better than yours. 65 00:02:40.726 --> 00:02:42.207 Oh, that only took me that long. 66 00:02:42.287 --> 00:02:43.048 Oh, no, no, no, no, no. 67 00:02:43.068 --> 00:02:44.849 No, because she's always good at everything. 68 00:02:44.889 --> 00:02:47.071 So it's like I've just got to, like, beat her up on something. 69 00:02:47.091 --> 00:02:48.392 So that was my fault. 70 00:02:48.412 --> 00:02:51.975 So she miraculously walked into JB Hi-Fi and they had a camera for her. 71 00:02:51.995 --> 00:02:53.096 I know, and I was like, boom. 72 00:02:53.116 --> 00:02:54.097 So happy for you, babe. 73 00:02:54.117 --> 00:02:54.817 Yeah, yeah. 74 00:02:54.977 --> 00:02:55.518 Anyway... 75 00:02:55.898 --> 00:03:00.099 This pleb had to call around off the Canon stocker site. 76 00:03:00.259 --> 00:03:03.059 Michelle Green did actually, she found us some that were coming in. 77 00:03:03.119 --> 00:03:04.060 So it's a good one. 78 00:03:04.080 --> 00:03:10.361 But the settings are you need to have it on scene and then you need to put it in portrait mode and flash on. 79 00:03:10.421 --> 00:03:18.322 And they're like the three things that give you that Canon GX7 look, like that high flash, really pretty skin. 80 00:03:18.802 --> 00:03:20.243 However, I saw this on the other day. 81 00:03:20.263 --> 00:03:21.043 This will blow your mind. 82 00:03:21.063 --> 00:03:21.723 I saw it on Insta. 83 00:03:22.838 --> 00:03:38.167 There's now a Chatty G prompt you can put in and you can upload any crap photo and say, edit this photo for me as if it was taken on the Canon camera GX7 Mark III in scene with portrait mode on and flash. 84 00:03:38.767 --> 00:03:46.149 And then it edits your photo and delivers you an image that could have been shot on the bloody Canon camera and save you the $1,200 or whatever it is. 85 00:03:46.169 --> 00:03:46.510 Yes. 86 00:03:47.030 --> 00:03:47.450 What? 87 00:03:47.490 --> 00:03:48.490 Oh my gosh, that is crazy. 88 00:03:48.510 --> 00:03:51.011 Maybe this is don't spend your money on the Canon GX7. 89 00:03:51.051 --> 00:03:51.731 Yeah, yeah. 90 00:03:51.831 --> 00:03:53.932 Because you can do it on Chatty G. There you go. 91 00:03:53.952 --> 00:03:54.932 What else you got for me? 92 00:03:55.132 --> 00:03:57.933 Chatty G. Chatty G. Do you pay for your Chatty G? 93 00:03:57.993 --> 00:03:58.233 I do. 94 00:03:58.273 --> 00:03:58.493 Yeah. 95 00:03:58.693 --> 00:03:59.494 Yeah, I pay. 96 00:03:59.534 --> 00:04:01.554 I've got all my settings open and everything. 97 00:04:01.574 --> 00:04:03.415 So it just literally knows me so well. 98 00:04:03.435 --> 00:04:04.235 It's kind of scary. 99 00:04:04.455 --> 00:04:04.795 Yeah. 100 00:04:04.815 --> 00:04:05.095 Yeah. 101 00:04:05.256 --> 00:04:06.516 It's like, Jessica, don't do that. 102 00:04:06.836 --> 00:04:08.078 You shouldn't do that. 103 00:04:08.839 --> 00:04:17.370 I use perplexity AI and I went in today and I asked a question and it was like, oh, based on that you're working on this project from six months ago, we can link it back to that. 104 00:04:17.390 --> 00:04:19.292 And I was like, yeah, that's why I was asking the question. 105 00:04:19.512 --> 00:04:20.093 It was for that. 106 00:04:20.113 --> 00:04:21.435 But the fact it remembered it, I was like, whoa. 107 00:04:21.455 --> 00:04:21.555 Yeah. 108 00:04:21.915 --> 00:04:24.557 I spent, I was like $300 or something on Claude. 109 00:04:24.937 --> 00:04:25.737 Everyone's on Claude. 110 00:04:26.258 --> 00:04:37.245 But I need to go, if you're listening, I want to do a Claude camp because I feel like I've missed the boat a bit and the algorithm serves me all these Claude prompts and I don't know where to begin because everyone's on a desktop and I just want to use Claude. 111 00:04:37.645 --> 00:04:39.066 Just basic bitch on my phone. 112 00:04:39.286 --> 00:04:43.849 I need to go to Claude camp and be able to just put in the basic prompts and get myself started. 113 00:04:44.129 --> 00:04:48.531 But I have not got the time to teach myself a third AI app and they're like, Claude will change your life. 114 00:04:48.572 --> 00:04:50.813 And I know all my friends use it and it has changed their life. 115 00:04:51.033 --> 00:04:52.302 It's not good for social media though. 116 00:04:53.230 --> 00:04:57.973 I heard that it's like some ideas, but like I think it's kind of a little bit. 117 00:04:58.313 --> 00:05:09.100 I just got a bit excited when it said you can literally upload like a whole folder of content and say, edit me, spurt out a real carousel of this, that, da-da-da-da-da, with these prompts and it does it. 118 00:05:09.500 --> 00:05:17.405 Then they said, you do have to finesse it a bit, but I mean just to get the basics of those bits and then for you to go in and edit, like that would save me a week of work. 119 00:05:17.525 --> 00:05:21.848 There's actually an app that's just, I mean, ad-targeted on Instagram that does that. 120 00:05:21.868 --> 00:05:22.709 Yeah, I get ad-targeted. 121 00:05:23.149 --> 00:05:24.410 those all the time as well. 122 00:05:24.450 --> 00:05:26.872 But it's like it's another thing to teach yourself. 123 00:05:26.932 --> 00:05:27.152 Yeah. 124 00:05:27.452 --> 00:05:28.053 Yeah. 125 00:05:28.253 --> 00:05:30.775 Anyway, maybe Instagram could just add it as a feature. 126 00:05:30.855 --> 00:05:31.275 As a feature, yes. 127 00:05:31.295 --> 00:05:39.441 Like Instagram AI, you just upload the whole bloody 10-minute video and say edit into a 30-second and make it viral and hit these key brand notes. 128 00:05:39.481 --> 00:05:39.881 Thank you. 129 00:05:39.901 --> 00:05:40.702 You make it sound like me. 130 00:05:40.722 --> 00:05:41.002 Thanks. 131 00:05:43.097 --> 00:05:43.397 So true. 132 00:05:43.797 --> 00:05:45.178 Another one, hair extensions. 133 00:05:45.498 --> 00:05:46.018 Oh, yeah. 134 00:05:46.358 --> 00:05:46.738 Oh, yeah. 135 00:05:47.058 --> 00:05:47.558 Life changing. 136 00:05:47.578 --> 00:05:48.519 Yeah, life changing. 137 00:05:48.579 --> 00:05:49.819 Life changing. 138 00:05:49.919 --> 00:05:50.599 Feel so pretty. 139 00:05:50.679 --> 00:05:51.799 Feel so feminine. 140 00:05:52.119 --> 00:05:55.140 They're expensive, but they will actually change your bloody life. 141 00:05:55.160 --> 00:05:56.480 And they just make you feel confident. 142 00:05:56.721 --> 00:05:59.121 I just feel like when we're getting older, our hair's just falling out. 143 00:06:00.141 --> 00:06:00.501 What else? 144 00:06:00.521 --> 00:06:02.042 I just feel a cleaner. 145 00:06:03.282 --> 00:06:04.003 A cleaner. 146 00:06:04.023 --> 00:06:05.184 Yeah, my cleaner. 147 00:06:05.404 --> 00:06:06.444 I love her so much. 148 00:06:06.485 --> 00:06:07.105 Yeah, same. 149 00:06:07.125 --> 00:06:10.007 I've had her for like maybe 13 or 14 years. 150 00:06:10.047 --> 00:06:10.848 Oh, that's so sweet. 151 00:06:11.208 --> 00:06:13.009 Yeah, and I clean with her and I love it. 152 00:06:13.489 --> 00:06:15.731 What do you mean you clean with your cleaner? 153 00:06:15.871 --> 00:06:17.172 I clean before she arrives. 154 00:06:17.192 --> 00:06:18.293 Same, same, same, same. 155 00:06:18.453 --> 00:06:19.354 Always clean before she arrives. 156 00:06:19.374 --> 00:06:20.434 Gotta put all the dirty clothes away. 157 00:06:20.454 --> 00:06:20.875 Yeah, no. 158 00:06:21.055 --> 00:06:21.955 And the dirty dishes. 159 00:06:22.035 --> 00:06:23.336 I clean bathrooms. 160 00:06:23.356 --> 00:06:24.157 Like I go nuts. 161 00:06:24.217 --> 00:06:24.297 Why? 162 00:06:24.317 --> 00:06:25.438 Because I'm a clean freak. 163 00:06:25.938 --> 00:06:30.121 And then she comes in and then I start cleaning with her and it's like, I just love her. 164 00:06:30.161 --> 00:06:31.001 She must love you. 165 00:06:31.121 --> 00:06:31.321 Yeah. 166 00:06:31.401 --> 00:06:36.245 Or she thinks like, fuck, this strainer just, it's just always moping around and like cleaning. 167 00:06:36.265 --> 00:06:37.025 You make her job easy. 168 00:06:37.185 --> 00:06:37.425 Yeah. 169 00:06:38.686 --> 00:06:40.207 No, she's like, she's the best. 170 00:06:40.407 --> 00:06:44.350 So having her is just, that's probably my number one is having her. 171 00:06:45.030 --> 00:06:45.370 Great. 172 00:06:45.510 --> 00:06:45.711 Yep. 173 00:06:46.111 --> 00:06:46.431 Agree. 174 00:06:46.671 --> 00:06:47.272 First one for me. 175 00:06:48.012 --> 00:06:49.754 All mine are just so wanker, but whatever. 176 00:06:49.774 --> 00:06:50.955 Whatever. 177 00:06:50.975 --> 00:06:53.398 I'm just being my true authentic self. 178 00:06:54.093 --> 00:06:55.074 You're not away and conveyed. 179 00:06:55.114 --> 00:06:55.754 Business class. 180 00:06:55.954 --> 00:06:57.595 Once you go business class, you can't go back. 181 00:06:57.975 --> 00:06:59.996 International can't do it without a bed. 182 00:07:00.236 --> 00:07:02.037 Have you seen me do economy? 183 00:07:02.258 --> 00:07:03.318 I lie across the kids. 184 00:07:04.819 --> 00:07:06.380 I have all three seats taken up. 185 00:07:06.580 --> 00:07:08.081 I lie across all their laps. 186 00:07:09.482 --> 00:07:09.722 I know. 187 00:07:09.762 --> 00:07:10.322 I wish that was... 188 00:07:10.342 --> 00:07:12.843 I would love just to fly business all the time. 189 00:07:12.903 --> 00:07:13.784 I just can't not now. 190 00:07:14.124 --> 00:07:14.284 Yeah. 191 00:07:14.384 --> 00:07:15.265 Otherwise, I'm not going. 192 00:07:15.285 --> 00:07:16.906 If I can't fly business class, I'm not going. 193 00:07:18.026 --> 00:07:19.767 Well, I just... We flew private jet last year. 194 00:07:19.787 --> 00:07:20.608 No, this year. 195 00:07:20.648 --> 00:07:22.749 And I'm like, I think that's where I should be at. 196 00:07:23.109 --> 00:07:23.529 Yeah. 197 00:07:23.549 --> 00:07:24.990 A PJ. 198 00:07:26.130 --> 00:07:27.210 Anti-wrinkle injections. 199 00:07:27.410 --> 00:07:28.111 Oh, of course. 200 00:07:28.131 --> 00:07:28.371 Yeah. 201 00:07:28.851 --> 00:07:29.711 Anti-wrinkle injections. 202 00:07:29.731 --> 00:07:31.832 Or braces, like orthodontic work. 203 00:07:32.192 --> 00:07:33.132 Like good smile. 204 00:07:33.192 --> 00:07:33.412 Yeah. 205 00:07:33.732 --> 00:07:34.713 Wrinkle-free, yes. 206 00:07:35.273 --> 00:07:38.534 Also, like fat transfer for me, facial fat transfer. 207 00:07:38.554 --> 00:07:38.914 Yeah. 208 00:07:38.994 --> 00:07:39.874 Like gold standard. 209 00:07:40.034 --> 00:07:42.535 Don't forget your fillers and your tightens and all your other stuff. 210 00:07:42.575 --> 00:07:45.476 Like for me, fat transfer is the holy grail. 211 00:07:46.036 --> 00:07:46.576 This is niche. 212 00:07:47.017 --> 00:07:47.817 Impul cleaners. 213 00:07:48.517 --> 00:08:03.971 So when we were building our pool, they said, the pool builder's like, do you want to add in-pool cleaning, which is like these little suckers at the bottom that get built into your pool system and they suck all the dirt and all the leaves and put it in its own basket so you don't ever need to clean your pool. 214 00:08:04.071 --> 00:08:04.791 It's amazing. 215 00:08:05.212 --> 00:08:07.654 But they're really expensive, I think, when we did it at the time. 216 00:08:08.935 --> 00:08:10.656 I think they're about 11 or 12 grand. 217 00:08:10.676 --> 00:08:11.877 They're probably way more now. 218 00:08:12.438 --> 00:08:17.802 And it was such, you know, when you're building and everything goes over and over and over budget, and then this is like another thing. 219 00:08:18.542 --> 00:08:21.825 And I just thought, I think this could be actually life-changing. 220 00:08:21.845 --> 00:08:31.211 Because I get really funny about looking out to a vista in my house, and if there's piles of clutter or like leaves or the pool's dirty, like it really annoys me. 221 00:08:31.311 --> 00:08:31.852 I'm a bit... 222 00:08:32.132 --> 00:08:33.192 Can you come to my house? 223 00:08:33.232 --> 00:08:33.872 Just go crazy. 224 00:08:33.892 --> 00:08:36.373 So we invested in the in-pool cleaning system. 225 00:08:36.473 --> 00:08:40.194 It cost a lot of money, but every time I look at my pool, there is not a single leaf in it. 226 00:08:40.234 --> 00:08:41.274 It is sparkling clean. 227 00:08:41.354 --> 00:08:42.014 It is perfect. 228 00:08:42.054 --> 00:08:46.555 And it means I don't have to get a physical like pool cleaner, like a human. 229 00:08:46.835 --> 00:08:49.396 I don't have to get a human in very often at all. 230 00:08:49.456 --> 00:08:52.196 And I don't need to put one of those, like the, what are they called? 231 00:08:52.236 --> 00:08:54.517 When your kids, you'd be scared of them and think it was going to eat you. 232 00:08:54.537 --> 00:08:55.237 A shark. 233 00:08:55.397 --> 00:08:56.017 Is that what they're called? 234 00:08:56.037 --> 00:08:56.457 A shark. 235 00:08:56.517 --> 00:08:58.077 Or like the robo things. 236 00:08:58.558 --> 00:08:59.138 Yeah. 237 00:08:59.218 --> 00:08:59.498 Yeah. 238 00:08:59.518 --> 00:08:59.758 Yeah. 239 00:08:59.818 --> 00:09:00.018 Yeah. 240 00:09:00.038 --> 00:09:00.558 So it's just like, 241 00:09:00.818 --> 00:09:03.145 clean and inbuilt in and integrated and I love it. 242 00:09:03.466 --> 00:09:08.579 Oh, the other one I'm going to say, honestly, Uber Eats. 243 00:09:09.869 --> 00:09:18.137 Because when I try and cook myself, it costs me way more when I try and buy all the stuff, takes me two hours to cook, tastes like shit. 244 00:09:18.497 --> 00:09:22.761 I could just get Thai from Uber Eats that costs, you know, $25, $30 a dish. 245 00:09:23.001 --> 00:09:27.906 For me to cook that dish, it'd be hundreds of dollars and it would taste bad and no one would eat it. 246 00:09:28.006 --> 00:09:31.449 So I think, yeah, like Uber Eats, all of those delivery apps, 247 00:09:32.510 --> 00:09:32.991 So good. 248 00:09:33.071 --> 00:09:33.711 Worth the money. 249 00:09:33.791 --> 00:09:34.551 Save me money. 250 00:09:35.052 --> 00:09:35.532 Winning. 251 00:09:35.552 --> 00:09:37.393 Can you please sponsor our podcast, Uber Eats? 252 00:09:37.513 --> 00:09:37.953 Winning. 253 00:09:38.073 --> 00:09:38.274 Or us. 254 00:09:38.294 --> 00:09:41.315 Because, man, I want to check out Uber Eats, Bill. 255 00:09:41.335 --> 00:09:42.476 Yeah, I think that's worth it. 256 00:09:42.516 --> 00:09:43.697 Honestly, it just is for me. 257 00:09:43.817 --> 00:09:43.997 Yeah. 258 00:09:44.037 --> 00:09:45.438 I've got way more on here as well. 259 00:09:45.478 --> 00:09:46.478 Slate roof tiles. 260 00:09:46.839 --> 00:09:47.419 Oh, fuck, mate. 261 00:09:47.459 --> 00:09:49.980 You're... Like, they're worth the money. 262 00:09:50.521 --> 00:09:54.363 Don't get, like, the normal tile that isn't slate. 263 00:09:54.383 --> 00:09:58.085 Like, if you're going to do a nice roof, like, make it actual slate. 264 00:09:58.205 --> 00:10:01.507 And do you know how to not get the grime and stuff done? 265 00:10:01.827 --> 00:10:02.467 No, I don't. 266 00:10:02.507 --> 00:10:04.248 Because I've got shit growing on mine. 267 00:10:04.388 --> 00:10:09.450 So you need to put copper string across it so when it rains. 268 00:10:09.650 --> 00:10:10.650 Oh, copper, the poison. 269 00:10:10.670 --> 00:10:12.351 The copper actually, yeah, kills it all. 270 00:10:12.771 --> 00:10:13.211 So good. 271 00:10:13.251 --> 00:10:15.832 And then can we inject that into our veins to make us look young? 272 00:10:15.872 --> 00:10:16.633 I know. 273 00:10:16.653 --> 00:10:17.413 Copper peptides. 274 00:10:17.833 --> 00:10:18.794 Don't try this at home. 275 00:10:18.894 --> 00:10:19.674 Yes, don't. 276 00:10:28.527 --> 00:10:29.107 Okay, Bec. 277 00:10:29.388 --> 00:10:37.192 So, we were chatting earlier and I'm not going to mention her name, but we're talking about her life at the moment. 278 00:10:37.252 --> 00:10:38.913 So, she is a mother. 279 00:10:39.013 --> 00:10:43.956 She's got three children, separated from her husband like probably about a decade ago now. 280 00:10:44.336 --> 00:10:45.597 And she's got a new man. 281 00:10:45.617 --> 00:10:47.538 So, she's born in 1987. 282 00:10:49.179 --> 00:10:50.341 maybe 86. 283 00:10:50.681 --> 00:10:51.802 She's like about to turn 40. 284 00:10:51.842 --> 00:10:52.823 She's about to turn 40, yeah. 285 00:10:52.843 --> 00:10:53.945 So we'll just say she's 40. 286 00:10:53.965 --> 00:10:54.766 She's 40, yep. 287 00:10:54.866 --> 00:10:56.207 She's 40 next year, I think. 288 00:10:57.168 --> 00:11:00.913 And she's got a man. 289 00:11:01.613 --> 00:11:02.815 And they're pretty, like they're serious. 290 00:11:02.835 --> 00:11:03.375 They live together. 291 00:11:03.395 --> 00:11:05.578 They've been together for like three years or two years. 292 00:11:06.319 --> 00:11:07.060 And he's born in 2003. 293 00:11:07.080 --> 00:11:07.220 Yeah. 294 00:11:09.615 --> 00:11:09.956 What? 295 00:11:10.116 --> 00:11:10.316 Yeah. 296 00:11:10.396 --> 00:11:14.178 And I just like, I knew they were together, but I never asked his age. 297 00:11:14.418 --> 00:11:14.838 Yeah. 298 00:11:14.858 --> 00:11:15.338 And then... 299 00:11:15.598 --> 00:11:15.998 So hang on. 300 00:11:16.018 --> 00:11:16.619 So, whoa, whoa. 301 00:11:16.819 --> 00:11:19.360 So when they met, he was 20. 302 00:11:19.380 --> 00:11:20.861 He was 20 or 21 or something. 303 00:11:20.901 --> 00:11:21.341 Yeah. 304 00:11:21.361 --> 00:11:22.021 Oh, I love that. 305 00:11:22.041 --> 00:11:24.823 And they lived together and they're really, really serious. 306 00:11:24.843 --> 00:11:25.383 Oh, sweet. 307 00:11:25.563 --> 00:11:27.764 And yeah, so she's like... Like, are they going to like get married? 308 00:11:27.784 --> 00:11:29.025 Yeah, I reckon they are. 309 00:11:29.105 --> 00:11:29.625 Oh, so sweet. 310 00:11:29.665 --> 00:11:31.126 Like, so in love and everything. 311 00:11:31.246 --> 00:11:32.426 And she got married really young. 312 00:11:32.446 --> 00:11:32.906 She was like me. 313 00:11:32.987 --> 00:11:35.548 She was like 19, 20 when she got married. 314 00:11:35.568 --> 00:11:35.968 Mm-hmm. 315 00:11:36.248 --> 00:11:43.692 Had three kids, separated, and then now she's obviously with this hot 23-year-old, like, good on it. 316 00:11:43.812 --> 00:11:44.252 How good is this? 317 00:11:44.632 --> 00:11:48.874 And it made me think, I've never been with a man in his 20s. 318 00:11:49.075 --> 00:11:49.855 No way. 319 00:11:50.155 --> 00:11:53.397 I was like, teenager, like, late teens. 320 00:11:53.477 --> 00:11:56.438 I was with a boyfriend that was in his late teens, like 19. 321 00:11:56.959 --> 00:11:58.920 I went straight from 19 to Val, who was 31. 322 00:11:58.940 --> 00:11:59.120 Wow. 323 00:12:00.562 --> 00:12:02.323 You went from a boy to an old man. 324 00:12:02.403 --> 00:12:04.704 I was thinking, anyone's not old. 325 00:12:04.744 --> 00:12:06.084 Even now, Val's a lot older. 326 00:12:06.945 --> 00:12:09.526 Your husband, Val, will never be an old man in my eyes. 327 00:12:09.566 --> 00:12:10.206 Never, ever, ever. 328 00:12:10.246 --> 00:12:13.367 He will always be like king of the kids, young activity dad. 329 00:12:13.587 --> 00:12:14.047 So much energy. 330 00:12:14.067 --> 00:12:14.708 He doesn't look old. 331 00:12:14.808 --> 00:12:15.628 He doesn't look old. 332 00:12:15.748 --> 00:12:16.228 So much energy. 333 00:12:16.248 --> 00:12:17.769 His face, his body, he doesn't look old. 334 00:12:17.789 --> 00:12:18.649 He doesn't act old. 335 00:12:18.689 --> 00:12:19.169 He's fun. 336 00:12:19.269 --> 00:12:19.709 He's fun. 337 00:12:19.729 --> 00:12:20.490 He keeps me young. 338 00:12:20.910 --> 00:12:25.612 But it was like, yeah, so I was just thinking, because she's obviously with his 20-year-old, I was like, oh, my God, I've never been old. 339 00:12:26.572 --> 00:12:29.315 with any guy in his 20s. 340 00:12:29.495 --> 00:12:32.418 I've missed out on a whole decade. 341 00:12:32.518 --> 00:12:33.980 A whole decade. 342 00:12:34.060 --> 00:12:39.846 When I say like a decade, not a decade of myself, but I've missed out on a whole decade from 20 to 29. 343 00:12:39.926 --> 00:12:41.328 What made you say that? 344 00:12:41.808 --> 00:12:42.608 Think of this. 345 00:12:42.709 --> 00:12:43.629 I don't even know. 346 00:12:44.570 --> 00:12:48.312 My brain goes into weird fucking places, let's be honest. 347 00:12:48.352 --> 00:12:52.914 And then I was thinking of like all our friends that are going through separations and stuff. 348 00:12:53.415 --> 00:12:57.477 And then or even my girlfriends and our girlfriends that are in their 30s. 349 00:12:58.077 --> 00:13:00.179 And I've gone, oh, you know, who are you dating? 350 00:13:00.199 --> 00:13:01.279 They're all dating these 20-year-olds. 351 00:13:01.739 --> 00:13:02.320 What is weird? 352 00:13:02.340 --> 00:13:03.080 It's a trend. 353 00:13:03.220 --> 00:13:04.141 Is it a trend? 354 00:13:04.261 --> 00:13:05.081 It's a trend. 355 00:13:05.121 --> 00:13:10.064 35 plus into 40s are all dating younger men, like really, really young. 356 00:13:10.084 --> 00:13:10.925 Really, really young. 357 00:13:10.985 --> 00:13:11.325 Yeah. 358 00:13:11.605 --> 00:13:12.325 Why is that? 359 00:13:12.645 --> 00:13:13.345 Oh, I know why. 360 00:13:13.465 --> 00:13:13.906 Yeah, tell me. 361 00:13:13.926 --> 00:13:17.246 Because I'm seeing, is it because the guys are like, sweet, this girl is set up. 362 00:13:17.806 --> 00:13:19.347 She's got a car. 363 00:13:19.367 --> 00:13:20.187 She's got a house. 364 00:13:20.307 --> 00:13:22.087 She's like successful. 365 00:13:22.268 --> 00:13:25.488 And now these boys are like, sweet, I can just, you know. 366 00:13:25.608 --> 00:13:27.069 Yeah, so like the sugar mama theory. 367 00:13:27.089 --> 00:13:28.149 Yeah, like the sugar mama theory. 368 00:13:28.209 --> 00:13:31.110 Because there's a few friends that I know that those guys are doing that. 369 00:13:31.250 --> 00:13:31.830 Yeah. 370 00:13:32.030 --> 00:13:32.290 You know? 371 00:13:32.310 --> 00:13:32.930 Yes, yes, she's set up. 372 00:13:33.170 --> 00:13:33.530 Do you know what? 373 00:13:33.550 --> 00:13:34.270 They have mummy issues. 374 00:13:34.470 --> 00:13:34.970 I don't know. 375 00:13:34.990 --> 00:13:35.671 You know what else? 376 00:13:36.091 --> 00:13:36.271 Great. 377 00:13:36.511 --> 00:13:38.951 Women in their 40s are experienced in bed. 378 00:13:39.372 --> 00:13:39.992 So they can do it all. 379 00:13:40.052 --> 00:13:41.212 They teach the 20-year-olds. 380 00:13:41.732 --> 00:13:42.052 Yeah. 381 00:13:42.212 --> 00:13:42.512 You know. 382 00:13:42.612 --> 00:13:51.875 But then I'm sitting there going like, but if you've been with the one dick for so long, I feel like you almost go back into being like, I'd be so scared today. 383 00:13:52.675 --> 00:13:56.636 I reckon it'd be like because they're with young people that feel like they're... 384 00:13:56.796 --> 00:13:57.516 They're empowered. 385 00:13:57.536 --> 00:13:58.017 Yeah. 386 00:13:58.377 --> 00:14:09.760 And also, I think with the 20-year-olds, with the older ladies, not only is she more confident and set up, but she's probably not wanting to get married and settle down and have babies and all of that. 387 00:14:09.800 --> 00:14:10.040 So... 388 00:14:11.050 --> 00:14:16.331 you know, when you're that age, do 40-year-olds really want to go through all of that again when they've already had kids? 389 00:14:16.371 --> 00:14:19.692 Are they really looking for a husband and to go through that whole thing? 390 00:14:19.712 --> 00:14:23.713 Like 40-year-olds, I think, are attracted to those young guys because they're like, maybe it's just a bit of fun. 391 00:14:23.733 --> 00:14:24.193 No strings attached. 392 00:14:24.233 --> 00:14:25.313 No strings attached, right? 393 00:14:25.674 --> 00:14:33.936 And then the other thing is the 20-year-old looks at the 40-year-old and the 40-year-old has a face full of anti-wrinkle filler, laser, a bleph, a brow lift, a boob job. 394 00:14:33.956 --> 00:14:34.976 She probably had her tummy touch. 395 00:14:35.316 --> 00:14:39.497 She looks younger and more hot than the women who are in their 20s. 396 00:14:40.217 --> 00:14:43.201 The 40-year-olds look better than the 20-year-olds, right? 397 00:14:43.221 --> 00:14:44.724 Adult money is wild. 398 00:14:45.044 --> 00:14:51.273 I've just spent thousands of dollars to watch seven Korean men dance. 399 00:14:51.834 --> 00:14:52.575 Yeah, to BTS. 400 00:14:52.735 --> 00:14:52.936 BTS. 401 00:14:53.016 --> 00:14:54.318 I'm literally sitting there going like... 402 00:14:55.245 --> 00:14:56.145 Adult money is wild. 403 00:14:56.225 --> 00:14:56.565 It is. 404 00:14:56.585 --> 00:14:57.526 So you can buy anything. 405 00:14:57.706 --> 00:14:58.226 Anything, yeah. 406 00:14:58.246 --> 00:15:03.707 You can buy your, like, face, body, whatever, when you get to a certain age, right? 407 00:15:03.747 --> 00:15:04.028 Yeah. 408 00:15:04.328 --> 00:15:05.528 So I think it's that as well. 409 00:15:05.548 --> 00:15:06.808 Like, I think, yeah. 410 00:15:06.828 --> 00:15:07.749 We look at J-Lo. 411 00:15:07.769 --> 00:15:09.349 I think, yeah, you look at J-Lo. 412 00:15:09.549 --> 00:15:09.889 Yeah. 413 00:15:09.909 --> 00:15:10.729 She's 50. 414 00:15:10.749 --> 00:15:11.490 What is she? 415 00:15:11.510 --> 00:15:12.050 Four, five, six. 416 00:15:12.090 --> 00:15:12.310 Six. 417 00:15:12.930 --> 00:15:13.431 She looks amazing. 418 00:15:13.451 --> 00:15:14.131 She looks insane. 419 00:15:14.151 --> 00:15:15.633 So I think it's different. 420 00:15:15.853 --> 00:15:18.535 The older millennials and the older, what's the one before the millennials? 421 00:15:18.575 --> 00:15:20.317 Gen X. Gen X. Gen X. 422 00:15:20.337 --> 00:15:21.678 Like they look young now. 423 00:15:21.738 --> 00:15:23.340 These women, they take care of themselves. 424 00:15:23.360 --> 00:15:24.301 They're body confident. 425 00:15:24.321 --> 00:15:25.221 They're doing all the things. 426 00:15:25.582 --> 00:15:30.126 Also, they've got access to all the treatments and things that generations before didn't have. 427 00:15:30.206 --> 00:15:30.326 Yeah. 428 00:15:30.346 --> 00:15:35.291 There's like peptides, there's different lasers, like all the things, biostimulators. 429 00:15:35.311 --> 00:15:35.531 Yeah. 430 00:15:35.611 --> 00:15:36.692 I guess it's the financial thing. 431 00:15:36.712 --> 00:15:37.473 So we all look great. 432 00:15:38.597 --> 00:15:47.866 So I think it's that and when they're together, like just say they're out somewhere, the 20 and the 40-year-old together, the 40-year-old who's looking after herself, it doesn't look like it's a mum and a son. 433 00:15:47.906 --> 00:15:48.406 No, it doesn't. 434 00:15:48.426 --> 00:15:49.968 Which it could be, which is really weird. 435 00:15:50.048 --> 00:15:50.348 Yeah. 436 00:15:50.368 --> 00:15:52.050 They look like probably the same age. 437 00:15:52.110 --> 00:15:55.453 But also like I know some of these 20-year-olds want to get married to these older women. 438 00:15:55.533 --> 00:15:55.954 No. 439 00:15:56.474 --> 00:15:57.735 Or they just, what's it called? 440 00:15:57.955 --> 00:15:59.377 Oh, putting your dick in the till. 441 00:16:01.227 --> 00:16:02.007 I haven't heard of that. 442 00:16:02.507 --> 00:16:03.848 They want to put their dick in the till. 443 00:16:03.968 --> 00:16:04.608 Oh, yes. 444 00:16:04.648 --> 00:16:06.009 Ka-ching, ka-ching, ka-ching. 445 00:16:06.029 --> 00:16:06.129 Yeah. 446 00:16:06.429 --> 00:16:06.949 Yeah. 447 00:16:07.769 --> 00:16:09.030 I mean, that's what it is. 448 00:16:09.110 --> 00:16:10.310 Fucking smart, you mean. 449 00:16:10.330 --> 00:16:11.411 Dick in the hot till. 450 00:16:11.471 --> 00:16:12.731 Yeah, hot till. 451 00:16:12.751 --> 00:16:13.291 Hot till. 452 00:16:13.331 --> 00:16:16.493 Hot, financially stable, like... Yeah. 453 00:16:16.553 --> 00:16:16.893 And confident. 454 00:16:16.933 --> 00:16:18.133 And DTF. 455 00:16:18.193 --> 00:16:19.874 Yes, and great bed. 456 00:16:20.954 --> 00:16:21.854 That is so true. 457 00:16:21.894 --> 00:16:22.775 I just never... 458 00:16:23.615 --> 00:16:29.817 Yeah, I've just always thought like just talking to our friends who are just going, that's our pool of guys are all in their choice. 459 00:16:29.837 --> 00:16:32.518 But does the 40-year-old want to marry the 20-year-old? 460 00:16:32.538 --> 00:16:34.539 No, the 40-year-old doesn't want to marry the 20-year-old. 461 00:16:34.559 --> 00:16:34.619 No. 462 00:16:34.939 --> 00:16:35.179 No. 463 00:16:35.679 --> 00:16:36.519 Oh, well, my friend does. 464 00:16:36.739 --> 00:16:37.239 Your friend does. 465 00:16:37.259 --> 00:16:41.841 But I think like our girlfriends who are dating younger guys, they're just like… And actually, I have to say… 466 00:16:42.021 --> 00:16:46.123 need to get our friends on because we're, I'm just, I'm just thinking out loud. 467 00:16:46.244 --> 00:16:46.524 Yeah. 468 00:16:46.544 --> 00:16:55.949 We're obviously not experienced because we have happily married with like thousands of children and not, have not been in the dating pool for like 15, 20 years. 469 00:16:56.109 --> 00:16:56.610 Don't want to be. 470 00:16:56.630 --> 00:17:00.192 But like, it's like, it's just wild to hear all my friends' stories. 471 00:17:00.212 --> 00:17:01.673 I'm like living vicariously through them. 472 00:17:01.693 --> 00:17:05.255 They're like telling us these wild stories and I'm going, how old's that guy? 473 00:17:05.275 --> 00:17:06.095 Like 20. 474 00:17:06.376 --> 00:17:06.956 I'm like, what? 475 00:17:07.176 --> 00:17:07.336 How's 476 00:17:09.217 --> 00:17:10.638 Yeah, it's like 20 to 25. 477 00:17:10.838 --> 00:17:17.420 But the 30-year-old boys and the 35-year-old boys aren't interested in their own age either. 478 00:17:17.840 --> 00:17:18.880 Yeah, they want younger too. 479 00:17:19.401 --> 00:17:21.641 No, 30-year-old boys are wanting 40-year-olds. 480 00:17:21.882 --> 00:17:22.302 Oh, are they? 481 00:17:22.382 --> 00:17:22.722 Yeah. 482 00:17:22.782 --> 00:17:23.922 Oh, I thought they were wanting younger. 483 00:17:24.142 --> 00:17:25.043 No, no, no, no. 484 00:17:25.123 --> 00:17:29.884 And then it's like when they hit about 33, then they want like the 25 to 28-year-old, 29-year-old. 485 00:17:29.904 --> 00:17:31.985 Like then they go down like with the age bracket. 486 00:17:32.473 --> 00:17:33.454 So, yeah, wow. 487 00:17:33.734 --> 00:17:34.355 There you go. 488 00:17:34.375 --> 00:17:35.456 There you go. 489 00:17:35.616 --> 00:17:36.897 Let's get a friend on to talk about it. 490 00:17:36.937 --> 00:17:37.798 The dating scene. 491 00:17:37.878 --> 00:17:38.218 Yes. 492 00:17:38.338 --> 00:17:39.780 When you're 40 dating a 20-year-old. 493 00:17:39.800 --> 00:17:40.921 I want to know all the things. 494 00:17:41.101 --> 00:17:42.842 Because I've got plenty of friends dating 20-year-olds. 495 00:17:50.908 --> 00:17:51.428 Okay. 496 00:17:51.589 --> 00:17:52.209 Okay. 497 00:17:52.289 --> 00:17:52.649 All right. 498 00:17:52.869 --> 00:17:54.911 Let's slide into our Vanish DMs. 499 00:17:54.931 --> 00:17:56.412 We have a listener question. 500 00:17:56.792 --> 00:17:57.493 Hello, Bridie. 501 00:17:57.773 --> 00:17:58.294 Hi, Bec. 502 00:17:58.414 --> 00:17:58.994 Hi, Jess. 503 00:17:59.174 --> 00:18:00.155 This is Bridie here. 504 00:18:00.575 --> 00:18:07.500 Love the pod and listen to all your fun festival antics that you two get up to as millennial mums. 505 00:18:08.061 --> 00:18:09.342 Now, I just got a question for Jess. 506 00:18:09.722 --> 00:18:13.165 You've mentioned that you fake tan weekly and sometimes twice. 507 00:18:13.585 --> 00:18:18.549 Now, as a fellow weekly fake taner myself, I was just wondering, what is your routine? 508 00:18:18.569 --> 00:18:18.649 Yes. 509 00:18:19.169 --> 00:18:20.091 Thanks, girls. 510 00:18:20.672 --> 00:18:21.253 Okay. 511 00:18:21.734 --> 00:18:26.163 So for, so I tan probably, I used to tan once a week. 512 00:18:26.264 --> 00:18:28.027 Every Thursday was like my tanning day. 513 00:18:29.153 --> 00:18:33.554 In the winter months, I tan less because I'm so covered and so cold down in Melbourne. 514 00:18:34.135 --> 00:18:39.476 But I would say my go-to tan is the Deep Dark Spray Oz Express. 515 00:18:39.796 --> 00:18:43.277 I usually leave that on for like maybe two hours. 516 00:18:43.818 --> 00:18:44.598 I'll use that. 517 00:18:44.778 --> 00:18:51.120 Sometimes if I'm away on holidays because I don't like sitting in the sun and I'm always scared to bring my tan over. 518 00:18:51.756 --> 00:18:52.977 because it explodes. 519 00:18:53.197 --> 00:18:55.959 Yeah, I put it in a separate bag or wrapped up in separate plastic. 520 00:18:55.979 --> 00:18:56.380 I've done that. 521 00:18:56.420 --> 00:18:56.900 I've done that. 522 00:18:56.920 --> 00:18:57.941 I've even sticky taped it. 523 00:18:58.001 --> 00:18:58.421 I don't know why. 524 00:18:58.461 --> 00:18:59.542 It just happens to me. 525 00:18:59.582 --> 00:19:06.948 Anyway, and that's just even if I'm just doing domestic, I would just go to Chemist and I'll do a Bondi Sands and again Express. 526 00:19:07.328 --> 00:19:08.429 But they don't have a deep dark. 527 00:19:09.530 --> 00:19:12.392 They've got a dark, but the sprayer is like the one. 528 00:19:12.412 --> 00:19:13.693 What do you do for your face? 529 00:19:14.113 --> 00:19:15.295 So I don't do anything for my face. 530 00:19:15.335 --> 00:19:16.456 I don't put tan on my face at all. 531 00:19:16.476 --> 00:19:18.538 You don't use the face mist. 532 00:19:18.578 --> 00:19:21.762 There's a matching spray or face mist that you use and it's amazing. 533 00:19:21.942 --> 00:19:25.847 No, so I used to put tan on my face and I sometimes still do here and there. 534 00:19:25.867 --> 00:19:29.511 I go red around my side because I'm so blonde and I go red. 535 00:19:29.531 --> 00:19:31.373 So when I was away in Vietnam... 536 00:19:31.954 --> 00:19:36.477 I was putting tan on my face because I don't want to wear makeup because it just drops off you because it's so hot. 537 00:19:36.917 --> 00:19:38.758 So I was putting tan, but then it was going. 538 00:19:38.819 --> 00:19:39.999 Creeping in from the sweat. 539 00:19:40.019 --> 00:19:43.101 So even if you wore like a shower cap, it still seeps in. 540 00:19:43.141 --> 00:19:47.044 But then it's also putting your skincare routine on at night and then it seeps into your hair. 541 00:19:47.404 --> 00:19:47.784 Yeah. 542 00:19:47.804 --> 00:19:48.265 The tan. 543 00:19:48.285 --> 00:19:50.986 So I just can't put tan on my face, especially when you're a blonde. 544 00:19:51.307 --> 00:19:53.848 You, because you're dark, you can put tan on your face. 545 00:19:53.988 --> 00:19:54.409 It's fine. 546 00:19:54.429 --> 00:19:55.329 So I don't do any tan. 547 00:19:55.349 --> 00:19:57.090 But you know, I do run into problems with it. 548 00:19:57.110 --> 00:20:00.693 So I'll put tan on my face and then I'll go to bed and I kind of like sleep on my hands a little bit. 549 00:20:01.573 --> 00:20:02.133 It's weird. 550 00:20:02.253 --> 00:20:04.854 And I'll wake up in the morning and I'll have tan all over my hands. 551 00:20:04.874 --> 00:20:06.394 And it's from touching my face. 552 00:20:06.414 --> 00:20:09.315 My pillow's corked, but the tanning mist is good. 553 00:20:09.795 --> 00:20:21.877 Or when you actually got the mousse and you're doing your tan at home, one tip is to mix just your normal facial moisturizer and a tiny bit of tan so it doesn't get dark on the dry bits. 554 00:20:21.917 --> 00:20:24.918 So just chuck it on like a moisturizer with a tiny squirt of tan in it. 555 00:20:25.182 --> 00:20:28.664 And I know there's a brand that does a drop that you can put in with your… Yes, I've got that as well. 556 00:20:28.684 --> 00:20:30.346 It's called Isle of Something. 557 00:20:30.406 --> 00:20:31.266 It's from Mecca. 558 00:20:31.546 --> 00:20:32.607 But I don't like the color. 559 00:20:32.727 --> 00:20:33.688 It's not natural. 560 00:20:33.728 --> 00:20:34.548 It's very orange. 561 00:20:34.688 --> 00:20:35.269 Oh, is it? 562 00:20:35.309 --> 00:20:35.669 Yeah. 563 00:20:35.889 --> 00:20:37.650 I used to try one years ago. 564 00:20:37.670 --> 00:20:39.071 It was like a few drops I used to put in. 565 00:20:39.392 --> 00:20:42.774 But I don't do it anymore because as being a blonde, I just don't put tan on my face. 566 00:20:42.834 --> 00:20:44.495 I love when you go a little bit rang though, babe. 567 00:20:44.515 --> 00:20:45.476 You know I love rangas. 568 00:20:45.556 --> 00:20:45.976 She does. 569 00:20:46.056 --> 00:20:47.177 I know you do love a rangas. 570 00:20:47.577 --> 00:20:49.399 So, no, so that I don't do, but I tan. 571 00:20:49.479 --> 00:20:52.262 And for events, you get a proper tan sometimes, rarely. 572 00:20:52.482 --> 00:20:54.364 You go, oh, you got like your first one last year. 573 00:20:54.665 --> 00:20:55.245 That's right. 574 00:20:55.285 --> 00:20:56.627 You got the clear and you look so good. 575 00:20:56.647 --> 00:20:57.227 You see the doctor often. 576 00:20:57.267 --> 00:20:58.188 Yeah, but I just, I don't know. 577 00:20:58.589 --> 00:21:06.937 I feel like I'm, I never go get an actual spray tan in a salon or have someone come over and do like a mobile because I feel too wet all the time. 578 00:21:07.578 --> 00:21:10.078 Like when you spray it on, it's just... You've got to push through that, doll. 579 00:21:10.138 --> 00:21:10.999 You push through it. 580 00:21:11.039 --> 00:21:11.239 I can't. 581 00:21:11.259 --> 00:21:11.639 I like comfort. 582 00:21:11.659 --> 00:21:12.239 Stop being a pussy. 583 00:21:12.319 --> 00:21:13.279 No, I like comfort. 584 00:21:13.319 --> 00:21:18.940 I need to like, if I put it on myself with a glove, it's like put in, I feel dry. 585 00:21:18.960 --> 00:21:24.301 I just feel like when I have the spray, the actual spray tan done, I feel too wet. 586 00:21:24.321 --> 00:21:25.361 So I never do that. 587 00:21:25.821 --> 00:21:29.242 Also, when I have it in my hair and they do my face, it gets into my hair. 588 00:21:29.302 --> 00:21:29.762 I go red. 589 00:21:30.222 --> 00:21:31.942 So yeah, anyway, so I do that. 590 00:21:32.002 --> 00:21:35.783 And then for my, the remover that I do, it's called Cedivir. 591 00:21:36.942 --> 00:21:37.422 they say? 592 00:21:37.963 --> 00:21:38.423 CeraVe. 593 00:21:38.483 --> 00:21:38.963 CeraVe. 594 00:21:39.003 --> 00:21:39.524 That's it. 595 00:21:39.584 --> 00:21:40.164 CeraVe. 596 00:21:40.284 --> 00:21:41.004 CeraVe. 597 00:21:41.425 --> 00:21:48.129 So the tanning removal that I do, it's actually not, you can obviously buy tanning removal products, but I just use a pharmacy one. 598 00:21:48.969 --> 00:21:51.951 CeraVe, it is the SA smoothing cleanser. 599 00:21:52.871 --> 00:21:58.675 So what you do is you put it on your skin and it exfoliates your skin naturally without you having to scrub it. 600 00:21:59.455 --> 00:22:01.276 And so I put on my elbows and on my 601 00:22:04.839 --> 00:22:06.080 you do it over a couple of days. 602 00:22:06.120 --> 00:22:08.642 It's not like you do it while you take your tan off straight away. 603 00:22:09.122 --> 00:22:10.123 But it's like a subtle thing. 604 00:22:10.143 --> 00:22:12.465 And so when I have my tan, it starts to go a bit manky. 605 00:22:12.505 --> 00:22:17.450 I'll just do that and it will gradually take off the tan over two days, like evenly. 606 00:22:17.950 --> 00:22:18.491 Amazing. 607 00:22:18.551 --> 00:22:22.955 It does feel a bit itchy on your skin when you do it, but it's like almost bubbling. 608 00:22:22.975 --> 00:22:23.936 Interesting. 609 00:22:24.076 --> 00:22:26.138 So it's not like a tan remover per se. 610 00:22:26.178 --> 00:22:28.720 It's another product that you find works for you. 611 00:22:28.960 --> 00:22:29.120 Yeah. 612 00:22:29.320 --> 00:22:29.901 That's so good. 613 00:22:29.921 --> 00:22:34.323 And if you put it on your feet when you're washing your body, it actually takes all the dead skin off your feet as well. 614 00:22:34.383 --> 00:22:34.844 Love that. 615 00:22:35.144 --> 00:22:35.524 Love that. 616 00:22:35.624 --> 00:22:35.984 Great. 617 00:22:36.545 --> 00:22:47.451 Hey, guys, in anything we've spoken about, you can find in our highlights on Vanish Podcast, under Vanish Rex, all the things, all the products, because I know you guys slide into our DMs like, what was the cleanser you talked about or what was the tan? 618 00:22:47.471 --> 00:22:48.732 So you'll be able to find it there. 619 00:22:48.972 --> 00:22:50.133 You're welcome. 620 00:22:50.453 --> 00:22:51.254 See you next time. 621 00:22:51.374 --> 00:22:52.074 Thanks for listening. 622 00:22:52.094 --> 00:22:52.615 Bye for now. 623 00:22:52.715 --> 00:22:53.055 Bye. 624 00:23:00.014 --> 00:23:00.177 Faint.