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a listener production.

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I'm Bec Judd.

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And I'm Jess Roberts.

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And we're done with the smoke and mirrors.

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Fainish shares honest stories about what it takes to look amazing because we did not wake up like this.

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And you should know the stuff that we chat about on this podcast is based on our personal experiences.

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We're sharing it for your entertainment.

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It's definitely not medical advice.

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And we'll always be clear with you when something is a paid endorsement.

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Please always chat with your qualified healthcare team before making any decisions about your health.

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Hi, it's Bec Judd.

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And Jess Robertson.

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Welcome to Maynish.

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OMG.

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OMG.

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OMG.

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I'm so excited for this interview.

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Wow.

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I mean, we're always excited about this one, this girl.

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We followed this along.

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I think the whole country's followed this one along.

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It's Ruby, Tuesday, Matthews.

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We've wanted to get her in for so long.

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And we've wanted to get her in before she went to bloody career and got a facelift.

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Right?

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And then she went and did that.

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And now it's like...

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You are definitely coming in.

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Hi, Ruby.

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Welcome to Vaynish.

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I think we booked you in before Korea.

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No, most definitely.

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I think we all just wanted a good excuse to catch up, really, and just call it a day.

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Yeah, exactly.

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I think that's what it is.

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It is.

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I've been trying to catch up with you for so long, so...

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Thank you for coming on and coming all the way down here.

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I'm so excited, guys.

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So for those who don't know Ruby, you've been living under a rock, but Ruby Tuesday Matthews is a mum of three, entrepreneur, content creator.

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We followed so many chapters of her life over many years.

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But recently, Ruby packed her bags and headed to Korea for facial surgery.

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And we have so many questions.

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So many questions.

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I feel like, Ruby, you did cover a lot of it on your stories in real time as it was happening, unfolding, and it was so cool to be on that journey with you because you did not hold back.

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Like, you shared it all, warts and all.

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Yeah, I think I didn't really think I was going to share that much, but I also kind of always overshare.

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So I'm like, it's your purse.

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My purse for me.

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But yeah, no, I definitely shared it in real time and it was something that I guess, like I've had cosmetic procedures before.

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I've had, you know, a breast lift and then I went and had after my last child a breast augmentation and implants.

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And then, so I've gone and I felt kind of the waves of what happens when you do have cosmetic surgery, you know.

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The preparation, choosing your surgeon, all those little things.

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But this was completely different going to a different country.

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I was like... Man, you've got some balls.

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I didn't realise how big my balls were until I was above a coffee bean restaurant going, what the fuck?

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am I actually doing this?

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So how long had you planned doing surgery in Korea for or was it one of those ADHD moments that Jess gets where she's like, I'm just going to do this, I'm going to make this really big life decision just today just because I feel like doing it and I've got a big dopamine hit.

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It was a bit like that.

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I knew that I'd kind of like narrowed it down to three surgeons that I really liked and I was like, I don't know when I'm going to get this done kind of thing.

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And, you know, when you start like looking, everything starts popping up on your algorithm.

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Mm-hmm.

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And I kept like, it kept popping up, popping up, popping up.

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And I was like, and then finally I was like, no, that's it.

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I'm going to book it within like, I think it was within 12 days.

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And then I went, I'm going to go to Korea.

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Like, that's where I'm going.

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And it's going to be the surgeon in Korea.

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Because it was like either LA or Korea.

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And I'm like, I can't fly that long.

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You know, like.

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But also LA is like 10 times more expensive.

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And then also the time difference is horrendous.

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Well, at least with Korea, it's only a two hour time difference.

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An hour.

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It's like an hour or something.

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Like, we're at the same time.

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It's nothing.

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Did you fly direct there?

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You're from Byron.

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I had to go Brisbane.

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Brisbane to Hong Kong.

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Oh, schlep.

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And I went with my sister, which was like.

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Great support person.

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I was like, she won't watch this.

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When I get my face lifted, I'm going to bring my daughter within me.

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So that's going to be amazing.

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She's going to be the best support person ever.

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When you say you share everything online, do you think that helps you deal with what you're going through better by having online support?

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I find it's not so much online support.

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I feel like I've shared so much of my life online, I'm sure, as you both do, you know, and when you are going through something, whether it's good, bad, or whatever it is, sometimes when you say anything out loud, whether it's online or actually in real life, it always feels better to actually let that out and be like, oh, I did this or I did this or, you know, or I'm going through this or whatever.

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It's always, you know.

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It's almost like therapy.

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Yeah, and it's like a bit hard to hide your face for this long and, like, I still come on.

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Don't make her laugh.

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I'm like, I laugh.

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Just this one side still.

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But yeah, so it kind of, it helps me be able to, number one, continue to share online in real time and day to day and not try to hide under a rock for, you know, definitely easily three and a half to four weeks because that's...

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Everyone's like, oh, two weeks.

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I'm like, two weeks, bullshit.

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What did you have done?

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I had an endoscopic forehead lift and I had what I guess you'd call a ponytail lift with endotine tape or endotine ribbon.

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which is similar to you had, what was it called, the little endotine BEC?

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Devices.

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Devices.

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They're like little squares.

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So where are they?

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So endotine tape is kind of the same, but they use it and they run it along down the inside of like wherever they want it, here or here or here or like wherever.

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And then it grows everything.

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So where's your endotine tape exactly?

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I feel like it's...

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Well, I can't feel it, but I feel like it's here.

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You are pointing to like your... Temple.

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Temple to... Down to the side of my lip.

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So they put the tape in there.

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And then read, oh, that is different.

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And so it runs back up.

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And then they attach it through the incision in your hairline.

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Yeah, but they also go down and they do it through, like, I don't think I had tape here, but he said, because I was like, what did I actually have done?

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Asking for a friend who has ADHD and just went to go to procedure overseas.

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I was like, what did I actually have done?

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No, I was actually booked in for a heap more.

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Like, I was booked in for a two-point lift, which is where they go also, I think, just where the ear is, like, as well.

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And I was going to get the under chin one.

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And then he's like, you don't need to do under your chin.

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Is that the witch chin?

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Yeah, they call it witch chin.

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I was like, that's so rude.

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What's a witch chin?

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Witch chin is where...

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They go through one point.

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Just one little thing and then they tighten all the ligaments and your neck all at once through one little point.

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Through one point.

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So you know how like in Australia we have the old school goes around the ear or behind the hairline?

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They just do a little incision up here.

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Oh, I've been deep diving, guys.

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So if you do that before...

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I find that hard to believe how that would hold for more than, like, 12 months, though, with one incision point.

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Do they put tape there?

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You do the incision behind the ear as well.

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They also do a tiny... Like, it's about the size of a nail, and it's, like, just behind your ear, and they pull it there too.

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So you didn't do that.

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I went in and he was like, you don't need to get that done.

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Because my main concern was like my eyelids were folding over.

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I always wear a winged eye.

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And I was like, guys, this is like happening to me all the time.

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And he's like, I would not get your upper bleft yet.

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Because I feel like an upper bleft...

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is a more socially acceptable thing in Australia, people go, I got an upper bleph.

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And everyone's like, of course, it's fine.

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Like there's not as much stigma to it compared to a ponytail or whatever else.

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An endoscopic fall.

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And maybe because blephs can be done by...

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Lots of different doctors.

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Yes, optometrists.

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So it hasn't gone there.

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There is less of a social stigma around a blepharoplasty, which is eyelid surgery, I think maybe because, yeah, so many different doctors can do it maybe.

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So it's not –

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So I ended up going in and... You didn't do a bluff?

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No, I didn't.

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I was like, are you sure?

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Are you sure?

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And he's like, I am sure.

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And I was like, I don't believe you.

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Anyway, I'm so glad I didn't because I'd be like, oh, like after the recovery.

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But so yeah, went and got an endoscopic forehead lift and a one point, I guess it's ponytail lift.

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They usually do it at two points, but he only did it at one point.

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So what does that mean?

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One point versus two points.

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It just depends, I guess, well, I wish.

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Does it mean one fixation point?

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Yeah, like one fixation point.

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And where's the second fixation point in a two-point?

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So, no, it's through the same area.

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They just tighten.

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Pull it more.

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Just tighten.

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Yeah, they pull it more into different areas.

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internally because you end up getting stitches like all internally.

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I had them all through here.

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All through your jaw.

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So to keep the tape in place.

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No, to keep like ligaments, he said.

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Like we cut here, we tighten like your ligaments naturally and then we pull the stuff up.

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That is actually insane that he's managed to get as far down as your jaw with an incision in your hairline without going all around your ear or under your chin.

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There's only four tiny incisions and like they're,

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literally tiny, the ones here are slightly bigger, but it took four hours.

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Like, that's a long time.

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That's a long time.

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Like, I was like, are you sure?

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Like, am I going to die on the table above coffee?

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That's the longest sleep you've had in weeks.

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I was trying.

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I was like, when I went in, I was like, are you sure about this?

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I was talking to them and no one could speak English.

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I was like, to the Ukrainian girl, are you sure about this?

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And I'm like, have you had a surgery?

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And she's like, no.

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She hadn't had a surgery quite clearly.

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And I'm like, have you done anything like this?

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And she's like, I think so, once.

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I was like.

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Bullshit.

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I was like, are you... How much commission did you get here?

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Who's the Ukrainian girl and where does she come into the story?

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Oh, she was like the translator I hired.

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I was like, I fucking hate you.

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I love that it's a Ukrainian girl that can speak Korean.

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I was like...

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So as you're getting wheeled in, you're having like the full like... No, I was walking in.

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I was walking in and I was like panicking at this.

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I was like, oh, fuck, I've done something.

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I'm doing something stupid again, aren't I?

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I was like... ADHD groupies here.

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Ning, ning, ning, ning, ning, ning.

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I was like, I've done a lot of, like, I say a lot of things without thinking.

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I do a lot of shit without thinking, you know, and I'm like, am I doing this?

245
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Like, am I...

246
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I haven't even told my mum.

247
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Like, don't think Shannon knows.

248
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Like, Shannon was like, what the fuck did you get done singing news article?

249
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I was like, I told you, babe.

250
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And he's like, no, you didn't.

251
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I just went, I was just threading.

252
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I was just going for threading.

253
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I was literally laughing.

254
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I was talking to a girlfriend the other day.

255
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She said that she was getting her boobs done to her husband.

256
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And then she goes and gets her boobs done.

257
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And then he goes and picks up and she had her whole face done.

258
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Hey, actually, to this point, to this point.

259
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I was like, this is amazing.

260
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Okay.

261
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We want to know, what have you lied to your partner about having done and were you caught out?

262
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And if you have done anything.

263
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Oh, my God.

264
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Like Ruby going to Korea and then coming back with a facelift and her partner finding out about it in the newspaper or our other friend who was going in for boobs and came out with a nose job and a full brown lift.

265
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and taped up and got in trouble.

266
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Is there anything you've done similar?

267
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Please slide into our DMs and let us know.

268
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Okay, back to you, Ruby.

269
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This is gold.

270
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There was like a multiple questionable, like because it was a beautiful clinic and I was like, okay, I've done all my research.

271
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Like I really, you know, you go through chat to me too and you're like, what questions do you ask to make sure I'm not going to die here?

272
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And so, like, I've asked every question.

273
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I'm going, okay, I feel like, you know, and I've seen multiple other people go there.

274
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I know two people have gone there.

275
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So let's take it back a step.

276
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We want to know why you decided to do it in the first place.

277
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Oh, yeah.

278
00:12:02.878 --> 00:12:05.061
So in the first place, I guess I...

279
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You see these huge transformations of these women getting these crazy deep plain facelifts at 40.

280
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And for me, I was like, that's not something I really... Not ready for.

281
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Well, I'm not 40.

282
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I'm getting there.

283
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But like also I wasn't really loving the results, to tell you the truth.

284
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They were so drastic.

285
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And I feel like sometimes if you, and this is just my own personal opinion, if you do a smaller procedure, you know, or you do things,

286
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to prevent in the long term, you don't end up having and you can actually kind of age.

287
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That's like I'm not trying to stop aging.

288
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I'm not trying to completely freeze myself like this forever because that's not going to happen.

289
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We all need to kind of... Why not?

290
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I'm not going to look like this when I'm 100.

291
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I'll have it known.

292
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When I'm 100, I'm going to look exactly like this.

293
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I don't think I'm going to be here when I'm 100.

294
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I've done way too many questions.

295
00:13:03.541 --> 00:13:08.243
But no, I know that there isn't, like I still need to age, you know, to some degree.

296
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Like it's what happens.

297
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And I just felt like it was a more gentle approach to aging and to buy a bit more time without having to go and have the facelift when you're 40.

298
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Yeah.

299
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And to have a smaller procedure now without cutting any of my skin.

300
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Yep.

301
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Apart from a few things in my head.

302
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I did that with my eyes and fat transfer and so forth earlier just to do little bits so I'm not waiting for everything to sag and be completely noticeable and then to have to have a fully drastic everything done at once.

303
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I just do little things along the way, kind of in –

304
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The Ruby Tuesday approach.

305
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It's just the approach of like subtle gradual things where you're like, did they have something done?

306
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And I think that's the procedure, the ones that you still look like yourself and you look refreshed and you feel great.

307
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Without waiting until you're 60 and needing your face pulled off the floor.

308
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Yeah, and I feel like I guess a lot of those results that I was seeing, I was going like, I don't really want that look.

309
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Yeah.

310
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You know, because it is a...

311
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It's 100% like what she had done.

312
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Yeah.

313
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Yeah.

314
00:14:09.456 --> 00:14:10.877
Instead of, God, she's looking really fresh.

315
00:14:11.157 --> 00:14:11.557
Yeah, yeah.

316
00:14:11.617 --> 00:14:13.478
It's like, oh, yeah, the anti-wrinkle just kicked in.

317
00:14:13.518 --> 00:14:16.279
You know, when it kicks in, it's like... Yeah.

318
00:14:16.679 --> 00:14:21.260
So, Ruby, your main concerns going in, am I right, was your eyelids and brow?

319
00:14:21.620 --> 00:14:29.903
It was like overall, like, kind of like this sagging of my eye and I was getting anti-wrinkle if I was lucky every...

320
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five weeks to six weeks.

321
00:14:32.197 --> 00:14:34.118
Like it's so... Oh, you metabolized it.

322
00:14:34.138 --> 00:14:37.340
So quickly between having saunas and then, you know, just...

323
00:14:37.360 --> 00:14:38.260
I mean, your fast metabolism.

324
00:14:38.280 --> 00:14:43.443
Yeah, it would literally break down and I'd be like, what the hell, like I'm spending, you know, you end up spending...

325
00:14:43.583 --> 00:14:44.043
So much money.

326
00:14:44.063 --> 00:14:45.204
So much, but also time.

327
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Like I have to drive to the Gold Coast from Byron.

328
00:14:47.485 --> 00:14:48.166
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

329
00:14:48.186 --> 00:14:50.087
It's like a two-hour trip because, you know, when you find your lady.

330
00:14:50.487 --> 00:14:51.007
Yeah, yeah.

331
00:14:51.147 --> 00:14:51.908
You can't go.

332
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Yeah.

333
00:14:52.768 --> 00:14:54.589
And so I'm like, oh, my God, what the hell?

334
00:14:54.989 --> 00:14:57.050
And I was just like, I need to find a different solution

335
00:15:01.128 --> 00:15:04.570
That's how I kind of came to the decision of this would be a really good procedure for me.

336
00:15:04.790 --> 00:15:11.132
But when you say you also did the lifting, so we know about the eyelids, and were you not happy with it?

337
00:15:11.153 --> 00:15:11.713
Oh, no, I was here.

338
00:15:11.733 --> 00:15:13.273
What was happening around your jaw and your nose?

339
00:15:13.293 --> 00:15:14.694
I had a huge, like, what's it called?

340
00:15:14.734 --> 00:15:15.274
Nasal labial.

341
00:15:15.294 --> 00:15:16.355
Nasal labial.

342
00:15:16.375 --> 00:15:16.795
Labial?

343
00:15:16.935 --> 00:15:17.335
Labial?

344
00:15:17.455 --> 00:15:17.896
Labial?

345
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Flaps.

346
00:15:19.336 --> 00:15:20.076
Fanny flat face?

347
00:15:20.217 --> 00:15:21.997
I had a funny flat face.

348
00:15:22.197 --> 00:15:27.800
The nasolabial fold, which is the line from the corner of your nostrils to the edge of corners of your mouth.

349
00:15:27.980 --> 00:15:33.146
Yeah, and I was like, I'm not going to, you know, I wasn't getting filler and that's kind of where I was at.

350
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You know, I wasn't going to go fill my face because I feel like as soon as you start filling your face and trying to create, you know,

351
00:15:39.198 --> 00:15:44.160
whether you have bags under your eyes and you start feeling it, everyone starts to look very like… They get puffy face.

352
00:15:44.180 --> 00:15:44.621
They get like that.

353
00:15:44.641 --> 00:15:45.281
You get puffed face.

354
00:15:45.301 --> 00:15:45.841
Yeah, puffed face.

355
00:15:45.861 --> 00:15:49.463
And it's like you get bloating and it's a lot of water retention.

356
00:15:49.483 --> 00:15:54.025
So your procedure lifted up all of your mid face as well.

357
00:15:54.105 --> 00:16:02.129
Yeah, all the muscles in my face were going down naturally, you know, from screaming and crying and laughing.

358
00:16:02.669 --> 00:16:05.050
So this is why you kind of laugh because it's still super tight.

359
00:16:05.070 --> 00:16:09.012
So like it feels like I have a really tight ponytail all the time.

360
00:16:09.625 --> 00:16:11.626
Which I guess is why it gets the name.

361
00:16:11.826 --> 00:16:12.646
Ponytail lip.

362
00:16:12.666 --> 00:16:13.307
Ponytail lip.

363
00:16:13.327 --> 00:16:14.787
So how long ago was this?

364
00:16:15.227 --> 00:16:15.888
I don't know.

365
00:16:16.008 --> 00:16:17.468
I think it's like three weeks now.

366
00:16:17.488 --> 00:16:18.509
It's like three weeks now.

367
00:16:18.589 --> 00:16:19.249
Over three weeks.

368
00:16:19.269 --> 00:16:20.469
We are looking fresh.

369
00:16:20.529 --> 00:16:24.551
Do you think it was like two weeks, like, you just don't look normal?

370
00:16:24.571 --> 00:16:26.432
You're asking for a friendie for yourself.

371
00:16:26.852 --> 00:16:28.933
Yeah, yeah.

372
00:16:28.953 --> 00:16:31.354
Because I felt like when we looked at you on day nine,

373
00:16:32.240 --> 00:16:34.261
I felt like you weren't as swollen as you felt.

374
00:16:34.281 --> 00:16:35.021
Yeah, you looked pretty good.

375
00:16:35.041 --> 00:16:37.562
You just had the big bruise, but you looked pretty good.

376
00:16:37.582 --> 00:16:38.342
No, no, no.

377
00:16:38.382 --> 00:16:49.825
Like, every morning I would wake up and my face and eyes would be like... And then I'd be like slowly as the day and everything kind of like started moving and your lymphatic drainage started, you know, doing its thing.

378
00:16:50.485 --> 00:16:56.287
I would go down and then I'd like wake back up and I'd be like...

379
00:16:56.327 --> 00:16:58.648
So, like, yeah, everyone who says it's...

380
00:16:59.318 --> 00:17:03.083
you know, two weeks and you're dinner ready, I'm like, that is a bullshit.

381
00:17:03.103 --> 00:17:03.363
Yeah.

382
00:17:03.383 --> 00:17:08.289
Like, it's like three weeks and you start to resemble who you were again.

383
00:17:08.650 --> 00:17:09.391
Yeah, yeah.

384
00:17:09.651 --> 00:17:14.958
I feel like everyone says, you look like really young or like people who don't know, like my local bartender.

385
00:17:15.078 --> 00:17:15.258
Yeah.

386
00:17:17.018 --> 00:17:18.539
He's like, whoa, what happened to you?

387
00:17:18.599 --> 00:17:19.219
Yeah, you're looking.

388
00:17:19.399 --> 00:17:21.060
I was like, I went and got a facelift.

389
00:17:21.080 --> 00:17:22.421
He's like, oh.

390
00:17:22.601 --> 00:17:24.982
Savage.

391
00:17:25.142 --> 00:17:30.465
I don't know if it is like such a hectic thing as a facelift, but it is technically a facelift.

392
00:17:30.485 --> 00:17:32.826
Did you have to go in to get stitches taken out or did they just dissolve?

393
00:17:32.846 --> 00:17:34.307
No, I had to get stitches taken out.

394
00:17:34.347 --> 00:17:34.987
Yeah.

395
00:17:35.028 --> 00:17:35.828
Before you came home?

396
00:17:36.088 --> 00:17:36.688
Yeah, yeah.

397
00:17:37.149 --> 00:17:38.589
I had to get stitches taken out.

398
00:17:38.629 --> 00:17:42.031
You're meant to stay for at least like 14 days after it.

399
00:17:44.155 --> 00:18:03.695
procedure and I highly recommend to anyone that they should listen to the doctors but I can't like I get very like I need to go I need to go now I like I was starting to like not wig out but my sister was wigging me out a little bit dude mum's so pissed off you didn't tell her I was like fucking

400
00:18:04.916 --> 00:18:06.618
Shannon's just found out on the stage.

401
00:18:06.738 --> 00:18:07.338
I'm so male.

402
00:18:07.418 --> 00:18:10.461
And I am dealing with myself looking like a stingray.

403
00:18:10.481 --> 00:18:11.823
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

404
00:18:11.843 --> 00:18:12.904
I just can't do that.

405
00:18:12.944 --> 00:18:13.184
Yeah.

406
00:18:13.524 --> 00:18:15.025
Oh, yeah, I left a lot earlier.

407
00:18:15.046 --> 00:18:16.107
So I was pushing it.

408
00:18:16.147 --> 00:18:18.849
I was like maybe six days post-op and I was like, take my stitches out.

409
00:18:18.889 --> 00:18:19.790
I'm getting on the next flight.

410
00:18:20.010 --> 00:18:20.150
Yeah.

411
00:18:20.170 --> 00:18:21.091
And they're like, please don't.

412
00:18:21.151 --> 00:18:22.933
I was like, I have a family emergency.

413
00:18:23.253 --> 00:18:26.316
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

414
00:18:26.636 --> 00:18:27.437
I'm the emergency.

415
00:18:27.477 --> 00:18:29.119
I need to get out of here because I'm losing my mind.

416
00:18:29.299 --> 00:18:29.759
Do you know what?

417
00:18:29.779 --> 00:18:30.700
Becky's exactly the same.

418
00:18:30.740 --> 00:18:32.201
She cannot stick to a flight.

419
00:18:32.261 --> 00:18:32.402
No.

420
00:18:32.542 --> 00:18:38.107
She has to always book Flexi because she's like, we'll be in New York and then she'll wake up one morning and she goes,

421
00:18:38.347 --> 00:18:39.488
I'm going home in three hours.

422
00:18:39.668 --> 00:18:41.470
And I'm like in New York.

423
00:18:41.510 --> 00:18:42.731
But I'm like, hang on.

424
00:18:42.791 --> 00:18:44.573
We're leaving in like 24 hours.

425
00:18:44.633 --> 00:18:46.975
Why don't we just go in 24 hours on our normal flight?

426
00:18:46.995 --> 00:18:48.596
She's like, no, I'm going now.

427
00:18:48.877 --> 00:18:50.879
She'll just book something and off she goes.

428
00:18:51.219 --> 00:18:54.702
And then I'm in the room spiraling, hungover, going, where did Beth just go?

429
00:18:54.782 --> 00:18:55.623
I was still going.

430
00:18:55.923 --> 00:19:04.109
No, actually, the actual story is Jess and I had the best night of our lives.

431
00:19:04.149 --> 00:19:05.470
Best night of our lives.

432
00:19:05.490 --> 00:19:06.171
We have video evidence.

433
00:19:06.211 --> 00:19:08.253
We'll show you offline so we don't get cancelled.

434
00:19:08.293 --> 00:19:09.554
It was the best night ever.

435
00:19:10.274 --> 00:19:13.817
Let's just say it was Bec naked in a suitcase talking to me.

436
00:19:14.017 --> 00:19:18.618
with her socks on and nipple guards on her.

437
00:19:18.638 --> 00:19:19.738
She's just chatting.

438
00:19:19.798 --> 00:19:21.258
And I'm like going, what?

439
00:19:21.379 --> 00:19:23.759
And we put on a show for a taxi driver.

440
00:19:23.779 --> 00:19:27.020
And then we gave him our phone and made him film us.

441
00:19:27.060 --> 00:19:29.720
And we paid him all this money to pull over and film us.

442
00:19:29.740 --> 00:19:32.821
We put on a show and you're paying her for the only fans.

443
00:19:32.881 --> 00:19:35.061
And as we get home, all of our phones light up.

444
00:19:38.482 --> 00:19:39.363
Snow emergency.

445
00:19:39.724 --> 00:19:42.548
All public buildings, all schools closed tomorrow in New York.

446
00:19:42.929 --> 00:19:44.331
Incoming snowstorm.

447
00:19:44.591 --> 00:19:47.335
Get out now if you've got an emergency flight.

448
00:19:47.355 --> 00:19:48.637
And I had a, sorry, if you've got a flight.

449
00:19:48.657 --> 00:19:54.225
I had a message from, I think I was flying Qantas, but they were like, if you don't get out now, you're going to have to reschedule your flight.

450
00:19:54.425 --> 00:19:55.445
So that was the background.

451
00:19:55.505 --> 00:19:57.066
It wasn't just leaving.

452
00:19:57.086 --> 00:19:58.486
But no, I am not.

453
00:19:58.526 --> 00:19:59.747
But it was like two weeks.

454
00:19:59.767 --> 00:20:02.068
They said it was like, I think it was like a 10-day like lock-in.

455
00:20:02.088 --> 00:20:03.908
They said it was going to be the biggest blizzard ever.

456
00:20:03.928 --> 00:20:08.690
And it came and it was like five seconds.

457
00:20:08.750 --> 00:20:13.232
I'm sitting, I'm like at the Baccarat, which is so expensive, like living my dream life.

458
00:20:13.292 --> 00:20:15.613
I was like, well, I'm called Val, my husband.

459
00:20:15.633 --> 00:20:17.153
I'm like, so there's a blizzard.

460
00:20:17.173 --> 00:20:18.153
I might have to come.

461
00:20:18.173 --> 00:20:18.914
We're getting snowed in.

462
00:20:19.094 --> 00:20:21.515
I think I might have to stay at the Baccarat for like another 10 days.

463
00:20:21.675 --> 00:20:22.335
And he's like...

464
00:20:22.875 --> 00:20:23.716
Well, how much is that?

465
00:20:23.736 --> 00:20:25.477
I'm like... Two grand US a night.

466
00:20:25.798 --> 00:20:27.359
It's like it's on Michelle Green's credit card.

467
00:20:27.379 --> 00:20:28.320
So I don't know.

468
00:20:28.420 --> 00:20:30.902
It's on the jagged credit card.

469
00:20:31.102 --> 00:20:33.484
I was like pissing myself laughing.

470
00:20:33.645 --> 00:20:36.827
For me, in that moment, I'm like, get out, get out, get out, get out.

471
00:20:36.847 --> 00:20:37.828
So I always flee.

472
00:20:37.868 --> 00:20:41.071
Whenever there's like a curveball, instead of like, let's just see what happens.

473
00:20:41.091 --> 00:20:42.512
I'm like, nah, I'm getting home.

474
00:20:42.572 --> 00:20:43.533
I do it all the time.

475
00:20:43.693 --> 00:20:44.214
I do it too.

476
00:20:44.434 --> 00:20:45.595
I just enjoy the journey.

477
00:20:45.815 --> 00:20:46.496
I'm like, let's...

478
00:20:47.196 --> 00:20:48.837
But I do that and then I'll be at the airport.

479
00:20:48.877 --> 00:20:52.797
I've literally actually been on a plane and then I'll be like, oh, oh, oh, oh, changed my mind.

480
00:20:53.018 --> 00:20:54.398
No joke, plane doors closing.

481
00:20:54.418 --> 00:20:55.758
I'm like, I've got to go, I've got to go.

482
00:20:55.778 --> 00:20:57.439
And I stay back in the place.

483
00:20:57.519 --> 00:20:59.059
I got off a virgin flight.

484
00:20:59.079 --> 00:20:59.659
You're kidding.

485
00:20:59.679 --> 00:21:01.780
You're one of those people who holds up the whole flight.

486
00:21:01.800 --> 00:21:02.520
No, no, I was sitting down.

487
00:21:02.540 --> 00:21:04.320
Don't tell me you checked in luggage and they had to even bring up.

488
00:21:04.360 --> 00:21:05.921
Don't even bring that up.

489
00:21:06.021 --> 00:21:06.701
Oh, my God.

490
00:21:06.861 --> 00:21:13.103
I often think when I'm sitting on a flight and they're like, oh, sorry, we've had a notion of someone, we need to unload their suitcase now.

491
00:21:13.123 --> 00:21:14.923
And I'm always sitting there going, who's...

492
00:21:15.303 --> 00:21:15.644
fuck.

493
00:21:15.764 --> 00:21:16.344
No, they didn't unload it.

494
00:21:16.364 --> 00:21:17.285
They checked in their shit.

495
00:21:17.386 --> 00:21:18.427
I wouldn't check it in.

496
00:21:18.607 --> 00:21:19.868
I had carry on.

497
00:21:20.349 --> 00:21:30.280
I was like, I was in a, it's like when I first started seeing Dodsy, I was in a romance and I was like, oh, I don't have to be home right now but I really felt like I should have been home and I was like getting like, yeah, yeah, but I'm in love so I'm going to stay.

498
00:21:30.340 --> 00:21:30.701
And I was like,

499
00:21:31.745 --> 00:21:32.746
I'm like, I'm going to stay.

500
00:21:33.887 --> 00:21:34.647
I'm like, goodbye.

501
00:21:36.289 --> 00:21:36.729
But you know what?

502
00:21:36.749 --> 00:21:38.010
And you get off the aeroplane.

503
00:21:38.430 --> 00:21:39.231
Oh, my God.

504
00:21:39.251 --> 00:21:39.671
Do you know what?

505
00:21:39.691 --> 00:21:41.473
How good's the story of our lives, though?

506
00:21:41.573 --> 00:21:43.475
I'm like, there's always fun.

507
00:21:43.635 --> 00:21:44.695
How fun's having fun.

508
00:21:44.716 --> 00:21:48.979
So you're telling me that all the people, all these planes you're on that get held, are they all ADHD people?

509
00:21:48.999 --> 00:21:49.760
Yes, I've done it.

510
00:21:49.780 --> 00:21:51.141
I did it in Sydney.

511
00:21:51.781 --> 00:21:52.942
I had to get off the plane.

512
00:21:53.082 --> 00:21:54.463
Do you know what my other theory is?

513
00:21:54.483 --> 00:21:55.124
Get off.

514
00:21:55.304 --> 00:22:03.687
People who have like really bad IBS and they're like having, they're like really sick and they're vomiting or diarrhea in the toilet or something.

515
00:22:04.027 --> 00:22:04.648
It's that.

516
00:22:04.768 --> 00:22:05.248
It is that.

517
00:22:05.288 --> 00:22:08.269
Or like their celiac and they accidentally got glutened in the lounge.

518
00:22:08.289 --> 00:22:09.029
In the lounge, yes.

519
00:22:09.129 --> 00:22:10.430
And then they've got to make the flight.

520
00:22:10.550 --> 00:22:10.890
Yes.

521
00:22:10.911 --> 00:22:11.111
You know?

522
00:22:11.171 --> 00:22:13.634
I think it's illness and ADHD.

523
00:22:13.674 --> 00:22:15.296
Mine is checking my passport.

524
00:22:15.376 --> 00:22:18.199
No, the illness, people stay and then they're like, ugh.

525
00:22:18.219 --> 00:22:19.180
And you're like, ugh.

526
00:22:19.281 --> 00:22:20.922
And they have a medical emergency on the fly.

527
00:22:20.983 --> 00:22:21.343
On the fly.

528
00:22:21.363 --> 00:22:23.305
And you've got to turn around and end up in Adelaide.

529
00:22:23.325 --> 00:22:23.445
Yes.

530
00:22:23.466 --> 00:22:25.127
And you're meant to be going Melbourne to Sydney.

531
00:22:25.288 --> 00:22:25.948
Yes.

532
00:22:25.968 --> 00:22:26.409
Yes.

533
00:22:26.469 --> 00:22:26.970
Yes.

534
00:22:36.595 --> 00:22:41.578
So afterwards, because I've had this experience, I wanted to know if you had it as well.

535
00:22:42.639 --> 00:22:46.581
When you're in that post-surgery kind of, it's almost like baby blues.

536
00:22:46.621 --> 00:22:51.024
Did you get that where you have regrets, you feel depressed, you question your life choices?

537
00:22:51.044 --> 00:22:55.907
Because apparently it's a thing after a general anaesthetic and that's been my experience when I've had a general.

538
00:22:55.987 --> 00:23:02.871
I always have a couple of days of depression afterwards and they, yeah, they say it's the general anaesthetic post-surgery blues.

539
00:23:03.251 --> 00:23:06.373
Yeah, well, I definitely got it when I had my last,

540
00:23:07.148 --> 00:23:08.109
like, boob job.

541
00:23:08.549 --> 00:23:12.473
Because I have friends, I know the surgeon, and I have his number in his phone and his wife's number in my phone.

542
00:23:12.974 --> 00:23:13.514
I love that.

543
00:23:13.554 --> 00:23:14.295
And they're like,

544
00:23:14.725 --> 00:23:16.046
you're only for your three days post-off.

545
00:23:16.066 --> 00:23:17.347
And I was like, you've botched me.

546
00:23:17.787 --> 00:23:20.088
I was like, you've botched, like you've fully botched me, dude.

547
00:23:20.549 --> 00:23:22.270
Because I was like, these aren't 20 cent nipples.

548
00:23:22.290 --> 00:23:25.212
I was like, one is looking this way and one is looking this way.

549
00:23:25.232 --> 00:23:26.172
And I was like, duh.

550
00:23:26.452 --> 00:23:27.573
I was like, what the hell?

551
00:23:27.933 --> 00:23:29.074
And he's like, no, no, no, no.

552
00:23:29.114 --> 00:23:29.814
Just like, wait.

553
00:23:30.115 --> 00:23:31.155
Let it calm down.

554
00:23:31.215 --> 00:23:33.777
Like three days, like let it calm down, you know?

555
00:23:33.817 --> 00:23:35.818
And I was like, no, dude.

556
00:23:36.238 --> 00:23:36.679
Calling him up.

557
00:23:36.699 --> 00:23:37.379
I was like, no.

558
00:23:37.479 --> 00:23:39.261
You have botched me.

559
00:23:39.601 --> 00:23:40.782
And he's like, I haven't bought.

560
00:23:40.802 --> 00:23:42.324
I was like, I'm blocking.

561
00:23:42.344 --> 00:23:44.166
I, like, blocked his number.

562
00:23:44.466 --> 00:23:45.968
Didn't go to any more post-ops.

563
00:23:46.648 --> 00:23:48.790
Three years later, I go, oh, I think I want to go up a size.

564
00:23:48.810 --> 00:23:51.093
I was like, oh, hello, blah, blah.

565
00:23:51.113 --> 00:23:52.995
Could I please book a consultation again?

566
00:23:53.015 --> 00:23:55.938
And he's like, you are, like, banned from my clinics.

567
00:23:56.558 --> 00:24:00.222
We tried to call you, like, for a year straight to see if you're okay.

568
00:24:02.595 --> 00:24:03.496
I was like, they're great.

569
00:24:04.076 --> 00:24:07.837
But yeah, I was really, that was really hard after that surgery.

570
00:24:07.897 --> 00:24:15.200
This time, I think because I had actually had also other surgeries as well for personal reasons, I think it was like a build up.

571
00:24:15.800 --> 00:24:20.302
But I really, I feel like this facial surgery is so different to anything else.

572
00:24:20.722 --> 00:24:22.763
And maybe you know, when it's like a toothache.

573
00:24:23.383 --> 00:24:28.886
or it's in your face or it's in your ear, it's a feeling in your head that you can't actually detach.

574
00:24:29.366 --> 00:24:31.207
Like it's not like, oh, I've hurt my leg.

575
00:24:31.427 --> 00:24:31.587
Ow.

576
00:24:31.967 --> 00:24:33.348
It's like this is in my face.

577
00:24:33.368 --> 00:24:33.908
It's in my face.

578
00:24:33.928 --> 00:24:34.788
My head's pulsating.

579
00:24:34.828 --> 00:24:36.089
Yeah, it's all encompassing.

580
00:24:36.189 --> 00:24:39.510
I have to say that my worst pain I've ever had has been a toothache.

581
00:24:39.570 --> 00:24:42.632
Like I'd rather give birth than a toothache.

582
00:24:42.692 --> 00:24:44.933
That's what it feels like.

583
00:24:44.953 --> 00:24:49.435
Because in Korea, you weren't allowed to have pain medication.

584
00:24:49.896 --> 00:24:51.699
No, well, they give it to you when you're in...

585
00:24:51.859 --> 00:24:52.340
Surgery.

586
00:24:52.821 --> 00:24:53.983
Or you're in the hospital.

587
00:24:54.384 --> 00:24:56.267
But they're really, really strict.

588
00:24:56.287 --> 00:24:59.111
They sent me home with the equivalent... Like a paracetamol.

589
00:24:59.132 --> 00:24:59.632
I was like...

590
00:25:00.326 --> 00:25:02.326
I was like, these tablets aren't working.

591
00:25:02.346 --> 00:25:05.327
The little lollypockets in all the sachets you see each day.

592
00:25:05.347 --> 00:25:07.848
I'm like, these things aren't working.

593
00:25:08.268 --> 00:25:08.968
And I Googled it.

594
00:25:08.988 --> 00:25:10.188
I was like, none of this is working.

595
00:25:10.208 --> 00:25:11.388
What the hell is happening?

596
00:25:11.408 --> 00:25:12.709
I'm in major pain, dude.

597
00:25:13.189 --> 00:25:15.269
And he's like, oh, come in for a needle.

598
00:25:15.289 --> 00:25:16.089
I was like, what?

599
00:25:16.650 --> 00:25:17.070
And he came in.

600
00:25:17.090 --> 00:25:19.310
I went in for the needle the second day.

601
00:25:19.490 --> 00:25:21.311
That's the prescription stuff.

602
00:25:21.411 --> 00:25:22.611
And I was like, I hate needles.

603
00:25:22.851 --> 00:25:23.191
I was like, what?

604
00:25:23.801 --> 00:25:26.384
Oh, also in a lot of pain to get a needle.

605
00:25:26.864 --> 00:25:35.352
So in Korea, like you're walking around and you see people who are so socially widely accepted with their whole faces bandaged up.

606
00:25:35.372 --> 00:25:37.514
Like you're just walking down the street and there's people everywhere.

607
00:25:37.534 --> 00:25:42.158
You're at Louboutin Cafe and everyone's like wrapped up.

608
00:25:42.178 --> 00:25:42.518
Wrapped up.

609
00:25:42.899 --> 00:25:43.079
Tea.

610
00:25:43.459 --> 00:25:43.719
Tea.

611
00:25:44.600 --> 00:25:49.102
There's only paracetamol for pain relief unless you go back into the clinic.

612
00:25:49.182 --> 00:25:49.882
Or you're in hospital.

613
00:25:49.922 --> 00:25:50.603
Or you're in hospital.

614
00:25:50.623 --> 00:25:51.383
Doing a hospital stay.

615
00:25:51.403 --> 00:25:53.264
And I was like, post-surgical stuff, it hurts.

616
00:25:53.604 --> 00:25:54.625
It hurts so much.

617
00:25:54.745 --> 00:25:55.625
I could not believe that.

618
00:25:55.705 --> 00:25:56.586
I was like… That's crazy.

619
00:25:56.606 --> 00:25:58.106
Maybe they're really tough, these Koreans.

620
00:25:58.126 --> 00:25:59.427
They just… No, they have laws.

621
00:25:59.447 --> 00:26:00.207
They've got huge laws.

622
00:26:00.227 --> 00:26:03.529
I think it's like… Well, you're not allowed to take ADHD medication.

623
00:26:03.549 --> 00:26:04.429
You're not allowed to do all this.

624
00:26:04.469 --> 00:26:05.189
You know what I mean?

625
00:26:05.209 --> 00:26:06.370
Like, they're super strict.

626
00:26:06.390 --> 00:26:10.772
So, obviously, there's those rules in place for their reasons, and that's fine.

627
00:26:11.285 --> 00:26:14.607
But you have to stick by that because no one's going to prescribe you anything.

628
00:26:14.627 --> 00:26:17.249
Yeah, that's good to know if anyone's considering going there.

629
00:26:17.469 --> 00:26:18.109
No, 100%.

630
00:26:18.149 --> 00:26:20.631
You've got to have a high pain threshold.

631
00:26:20.911 --> 00:26:24.413
And I feel like I do have a pretty high pain threshold.

632
00:26:24.473 --> 00:26:28.856
Like every time I have a cesarean, I'm up walking as soon as I get my feeling back.

633
00:26:28.876 --> 00:26:29.516
I'm like, get me up.

634
00:26:29.776 --> 00:26:30.556
Yeah, yeah.

635
00:26:30.677 --> 00:26:32.077
Get the catheter out as well.

636
00:26:32.097 --> 00:26:32.958
Yeah, get the catheter out now.

637
00:26:32.978 --> 00:26:34.339
And they're like, it's been 12 hours.

638
00:26:34.359 --> 00:26:35.599
I'm like, get the catheter out.

639
00:26:35.639 --> 00:26:36.620
I'm pulling out myself.

640
00:26:36.720 --> 00:26:38.141
I want a shower now.

641
00:26:38.201 --> 00:26:39.842
I will walk around like this if you make me.

642
00:26:39.882 --> 00:26:41.222
Do you want any pain medication?

643
00:26:41.262 --> 00:26:41.703
I'm like, no.

644
00:26:42.143 --> 00:26:42.583
No, please.

645
00:26:42.623 --> 00:26:44.044
I do not want any because I want to be able to like...

646
00:26:44.564 --> 00:26:50.387
I felt like when I had my first cesarean, they gave me pain medication, but I just was so knocked out, like in the head.

647
00:26:50.407 --> 00:26:52.188
I just didn't know what was... Yeah, you're like, where's the baby?

648
00:26:52.208 --> 00:26:53.289
Did I have this baby?

649
00:26:53.449 --> 00:26:53.809
Yeah.

650
00:26:53.849 --> 00:26:56.951
And then by the second and third, I was like, I don't want any pain medication.

651
00:26:56.971 --> 00:26:57.271
I was like...

652
00:26:57.351 --> 00:26:58.692
Oh, well, you should go to Korea.

653
00:26:58.852 --> 00:26:59.072
I know.

654
00:26:59.112 --> 00:27:00.933
For all your children.

655
00:27:01.534 --> 00:27:03.695
I don't know what I'm going to get done, but anyway.

656
00:27:03.795 --> 00:27:06.417
So, yeah, so pain, so, yeah, so the pain was.

657
00:27:06.717 --> 00:27:07.198
In my face.

658
00:27:07.398 --> 00:27:09.660
In your face and horrible, but then you weren't allowed to sleep.

659
00:27:10.160 --> 00:27:12.441
I know, you have to sleep upright, which is pretty standard.

660
00:27:12.501 --> 00:27:13.462
I can't do that.

661
00:27:13.722 --> 00:27:16.965
I know, but I slept upright, like, up until just recently.

662
00:27:16.985 --> 00:27:20.447
I reckon it's only been the last five or four nights that I've been sleeping, like,

663
00:27:20.928 --> 00:27:21.569
On your side?

664
00:27:21.609 --> 00:27:22.110
Like down.

665
00:27:22.130 --> 00:27:22.630
No, down.

666
00:27:22.650 --> 00:27:23.271
Oh, down.

667
00:27:23.371 --> 00:27:23.612
Down.

668
00:27:23.632 --> 00:27:24.653
So you've got to sit up.

669
00:27:24.773 --> 00:27:29.319
Well, the more you sit up, because everything like sets in the same place.

670
00:27:29.339 --> 00:27:32.764
Like, so the longer you sit up, the more swelling will go down.

671
00:27:32.784 --> 00:27:34.205
And my swelling was so bad.

672
00:27:34.265 --> 00:27:35.828
Like, every morning, like I said.

673
00:27:36.208 --> 00:27:37.570
So, yeah, I was trying to do everything I could.

674
00:27:38.305 --> 00:27:41.686
How many days did it take so you could walk around and feel like a round soul?

675
00:27:41.886 --> 00:27:43.447
Because I remember your Instagram stories.

676
00:27:43.467 --> 00:27:45.268
You put glasses and a hat on and you went shopping.

677
00:27:45.368 --> 00:27:45.708
Yeah, yeah.

678
00:27:45.808 --> 00:27:46.148
I went.

679
00:27:46.288 --> 00:27:48.409
I was like the first day after.

680
00:27:48.609 --> 00:27:49.729
I went back into the clinic.

681
00:27:49.749 --> 00:27:51.330
They check everything out.

682
00:27:51.670 --> 00:27:52.410
I got my jubby.

683
00:27:52.810 --> 00:27:53.551
And then I left.

684
00:27:53.951 --> 00:27:57.812
And I think I just went back home and I went to sleep.

685
00:27:58.232 --> 00:27:58.452
Yeah.

686
00:27:58.513 --> 00:28:00.953
And then I kind of like got up and down a little bit, whatever.

687
00:28:01.294 --> 00:28:01.614
Yeah.

688
00:28:01.754 --> 00:28:04.615
And then it was like the next day that I went out again.

689
00:28:04.635 --> 00:28:06.535
And I think I went back in to get another checkup.

690
00:28:06.716 --> 00:28:07.696
And I spent the whole day out.

691
00:28:08.036 --> 00:28:08.657
And I was fine.

692
00:28:08.837 --> 00:28:08.957
Yeah.

693
00:28:08.977 --> 00:28:11.639
But I also overdo things like, you know.

694
00:28:11.779 --> 00:28:12.180
Yeah.

695
00:28:12.420 --> 00:28:12.820
FOMO.

696
00:28:13.020 --> 00:28:13.260
Yeah.

697
00:28:13.321 --> 00:28:14.822
Like I'm like, I'll just keep walking.

698
00:28:14.842 --> 00:28:17.964
They're like, slow movements will help your flow of your lymphatic change.

699
00:28:18.024 --> 00:28:20.246
I'm like hiking six kilometers through salt.

700
00:28:20.427 --> 00:28:21.688
Yeah.

701
00:28:21.788 --> 00:28:27.773
I think everyone's obviously different, but I definitely probably pushed myself probably a bit too much.

702
00:28:28.193 --> 00:28:31.576
But yeah, by day, they call it three, but I would call it two.

703
00:28:32.483 --> 00:28:34.785
you are pretty good to walk around and do everything.

704
00:28:34.845 --> 00:28:36.587
It's just your face that's like.

705
00:28:36.728 --> 00:28:37.609
Blowing up.

706
00:28:37.649 --> 00:28:39.110
What was the worst day for swelling?

707
00:28:39.130 --> 00:28:40.592
Like when were you at your absolute worst?

708
00:28:40.612 --> 00:28:41.773
Oh, my God, like day three.

709
00:28:41.834 --> 00:28:44.537
I was like, I thought it was going to be bad like the day two.

710
00:28:44.557 --> 00:28:46.018
And I was like, and they're like, no, it's going to get worse.

711
00:28:46.038 --> 00:28:46.639
I was like, okay.

712
00:28:46.659 --> 00:28:47.320
So I knew that.

713
00:28:47.800 --> 00:28:53.846
It didn't really, none of that actually wigged me out because I kind of have had the worst boob experience where I never called the surgeon back.

714
00:28:53.886 --> 00:28:55.927
But I was like, at this point, I'm already here.

715
00:28:55.947 --> 00:28:57.189
I've already done this.

716
00:28:58.049 --> 00:29:02.253
If I'm botched and I look like Catwoman for the rest of my life, like, it's happened.

717
00:29:03.294 --> 00:29:05.256
I can't reverse the clock now.

718
00:29:05.376 --> 00:29:06.317
I just have to roll with this.

719
00:29:06.377 --> 00:29:07.318
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

720
00:29:07.378 --> 00:29:08.118
Hello, kids.

721
00:29:08.218 --> 00:29:08.899
It's me.

722
00:29:08.979 --> 00:29:10.260
It's self-acceptance.

723
00:29:10.400 --> 00:29:11.021
Yeah, yeah.

724
00:29:11.061 --> 00:29:12.002
I made the decision.

725
00:29:12.102 --> 00:29:13.323
I did it and this is me.

726
00:29:13.723 --> 00:29:15.806
Yeah, so that was kind of where I was at with that.

727
00:29:16.026 --> 00:29:24.178
I think it takes a few surgeries and I guess some big balls to get to that nine set because I know a lot of other people would not be able to.

728
00:29:24.909 --> 00:29:26.050
get into that zone in their head.

729
00:29:26.470 --> 00:29:33.415
Did he have any thoughts on like biostimulators and fillers and fat transfer and things like that in your discussions with him?

730
00:29:33.435 --> 00:29:40.540
I'm just interested, but with his approach to your face, a lot of surgeons will do other things as well, but you didn't.

731
00:29:40.560 --> 00:29:52.829
No, he definitely wanted to do a fat transfer and I have also been offered this when I've had my breasts done, fat transfers, and I know that at least 50% of the fat will be

732
00:29:54.177 --> 00:29:55.878
die, you know what I mean?

733
00:29:55.898 --> 00:30:06.786
And with me getting a surgery overseas where I'm not going to go fly back to Docton in three weeks' time or eight weeks, you know, or whatever it is, I'm not going back.

734
00:30:06.886 --> 00:30:14.212
So to have that where it could be one whole side of my face, it's not like it's a breast that you can, like, prop on up with, like, a brow or something.

735
00:30:14.592 --> 00:30:15.413
It's my face.

736
00:30:16.113 --> 00:30:23.939
And to have volume loss through one whole side or it be whatever was just not a risk I was willing to take realistically.

737
00:30:24.380 --> 00:30:29.323
So, yeah, they will generally want to offer a range of things.

738
00:30:29.523 --> 00:30:33.286
Most of the time, everyone wants to use over there a fat transfer as well.

739
00:30:34.106 --> 00:30:44.673
With certain areas of your face that are more vascular, Andrew Greensmith discussed this in our podcast with him, there's more areas, especially under the eye, are highly vascular, so they've got a better chance of taking it.

740
00:30:44.973 --> 00:30:48.515
Because it needs to attach itself to a vascular supply.

741
00:30:48.575 --> 00:30:49.816
It needs to find a blood flow.

742
00:30:49.876 --> 00:30:51.857
And if it doesn't find blood flow, it will die.

743
00:30:52.318 --> 00:30:54.339
Whereas the breasts don't.

744
00:30:54.359 --> 00:30:59.582
So you lose a lot more fat from your breasts than you do in certain areas of your face.

745
00:30:59.662 --> 00:31:02.684
My doctor didn't translate that through the Ukrainian.

746
00:31:04.937 --> 00:31:06.919
But that's why they might have done that.

747
00:31:06.939 --> 00:31:15.146
They don't really do the full fat transfer to the breast as much anymore because they've noticed longitudinally that it just doesn't stay.

748
00:31:15.206 --> 00:31:16.908
Yeah, I know a few friends that have done it to their boobs.

749
00:31:16.928 --> 00:31:17.568
They lose it.

750
00:31:17.628 --> 00:31:17.968
All of it.

751
00:31:17.988 --> 00:31:18.689
Yeah.

752
00:31:18.789 --> 00:31:23.313
I think it's like an initial look thing too that surgeons go, oh, we'll add this on, we'll fluff you out.

753
00:31:23.353 --> 00:31:24.754
And then six weeks later they're flat.

754
00:31:24.774 --> 00:31:25.395
Yeah, exactly.

755
00:31:25.435 --> 00:31:26.256
I feel like that's...

756
00:31:26.776 --> 00:31:28.457
kind of what I learned about breasts anyway.

757
00:31:28.477 --> 00:31:30.398
And I applied it to my face and clearly I was wrong.

758
00:31:31.559 --> 00:31:34.661
I just wanted some breasts on my face.

759
00:31:34.781 --> 00:31:35.522
Do you have feeling?

760
00:31:35.542 --> 00:31:42.246
Do you feel numb or do you feel... Well, like I haven't... Everyone talks about that weird nerve or numb feeling.

761
00:31:42.366 --> 00:31:47.409
And then it wasn't until like... Because you can't wash your face like vigorously for a long time.

762
00:31:47.429 --> 00:31:48.129
Yeah.

763
00:31:48.390 --> 00:31:50.011
And everyone goes to kiss me and I'm like...

764
00:31:50.726 --> 00:31:52.887
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

765
00:31:52.947 --> 00:31:55.009
I'm like, Kim Kardashian now.

766
00:31:55.329 --> 00:31:57.670
Don't touch my makeup.

767
00:31:57.690 --> 00:31:59.452
I felt my face this morning.

768
00:32:00.212 --> 00:32:05.055
And I was like, oh, maybe like I do have kind of like a bit of numbness, I'd call it.

769
00:32:05.195 --> 00:32:09.998
More like numbness, not complete sensation loss, just that kind of weird numb feeling.

770
00:32:10.218 --> 00:32:13.641
But nothing that's like wigged me out.

771
00:32:13.761 --> 00:32:20.545
I felt like throughout the surgery, I felt things progressing how they should normally kind of do in terms of feeling and everything like that.

772
00:32:20.935 --> 00:32:23.558
Would you do anything differently if you were making the decision again?

773
00:32:24.038 --> 00:32:26.501
I think there's a few things I definitely would do differently.

774
00:32:26.541 --> 00:32:28.663
And I've kind of spoken about this a little bit.

775
00:32:28.743 --> 00:32:38.472
But I would probably look into pain management and what you're allowed to do and what you are actually allowed to get.

776
00:32:39.233 --> 00:32:44.058
Or, you know, I would talk to a doctor firstly in Australia, not even a plastic surgeon, just instantly.

777
00:32:44.628 --> 00:32:47.150
a general GP before even going and doing it.

778
00:32:47.391 --> 00:33:08.189
So I had someone who was across my surgery with the surgeon in Korea and just double checking every little thing from what they use in the anesthetic, you know, those tiny little things that you actually don't think about that can be a really big thing because, yeah, they answered all of my questions and everything checked out, do you know what I mean?

779
00:33:08.209 --> 00:33:09.230
And the surgeon checks out.

780
00:33:09.250 --> 00:33:11.612
But these are little tiny things that,

781
00:33:12.367 --> 00:33:13.709
gave me paranoia sometimes.

782
00:33:13.729 --> 00:33:13.909
Yeah.

783
00:33:13.929 --> 00:33:16.492
Like, afterwards, I was like, do I have a blood clot in my heart?

784
00:33:17.073 --> 00:33:17.233
Yeah.

785
00:33:17.253 --> 00:33:17.493
Yeah.

786
00:33:17.593 --> 00:33:19.496
If I get on this plane right now.

787
00:33:19.516 --> 00:33:22.119
You know, but like, yeah, yeah, little things like that.

788
00:33:22.620 --> 00:33:31.250
But also having someone in Australia who when you do come back and you need to be like, hey, I've just, like, me rocking up to my GP, so I just had a facelift.

789
00:33:32.191 --> 00:33:36.197
Like, I was here the other week with my kid with a cough, but I just went out of the facelift.

790
00:33:36.497 --> 00:33:37.699
Do you think this is normal?

791
00:33:38.340 --> 00:33:39.983
And they're like, what the fuck?

792
00:33:40.323 --> 00:33:48.515
Because I guess in Australia, like, when we have referrals, get sent to a doctor to go see a specialist, then they email each other back.

793
00:33:48.735 --> 00:33:53.477
Yeah, and if anything was to happen, you'd go, I need another referral to go in and see this or do this.

794
00:33:53.878 --> 00:33:58.000
I think that's really important to have someone who's across a care plan when you come home even.

795
00:33:58.420 --> 00:34:04.583
Because I was like, give me a painkiller so I could have a good night's sleep because I had not slept really, like probably at all.

796
00:34:04.763 --> 00:34:05.863
A painkiller and a sleeping pill.

797
00:34:05.904 --> 00:34:06.464
Thank you.

798
00:34:06.544 --> 00:34:07.924
A painkiller.

799
00:34:07.945 --> 00:34:09.125
What else would you have done different?

800
00:34:09.445 --> 00:34:13.447
I would have gotten a doctor for my aftercare plan so they could talk together.

801
00:34:13.667 --> 00:34:14.428
I would have...

802
00:34:15.248 --> 00:34:20.670
Asked about compression boots, like the things that squeeze my legs, because I can't remember them putting them on me.

803
00:34:20.730 --> 00:34:24.792
And I still like to this day, I'm like, did they put compression boots on, guys?

804
00:34:24.892 --> 00:34:26.713
I'm like, did they put compression boots on?

805
00:34:27.053 --> 00:34:27.993
Yeah, like that night.

806
00:34:28.013 --> 00:34:29.574
Did you stay in hospital overnight when you went straight home?

807
00:34:29.594 --> 00:34:31.635
No, I went straight home in a bloody cab.

808
00:34:32.457 --> 00:34:33.077
What?

809
00:34:33.317 --> 00:34:34.157
I went in a cab.

810
00:34:34.177 --> 00:34:35.558
My sister booked a taxi.

811
00:34:35.878 --> 00:34:36.718
Did she come and get you?

812
00:34:36.738 --> 00:34:38.898
I was like, did you not book an Uber Luxe?

813
00:34:39.618 --> 00:34:40.419
A limo?

814
00:34:40.559 --> 00:34:43.479
And you didn't have like stockings, you didn't have compression stockings on or anything?

815
00:34:43.619 --> 00:34:44.359
No, not that I worked.

816
00:34:44.379 --> 00:34:45.119
After a four hour surgery?

817
00:34:45.139 --> 00:34:51.140
No, but I was like, but I went and bought them, but I was like, the ones that squeeze your legs, the whole surgery, that's what I meant.

818
00:34:51.341 --> 00:34:53.261
I was like, did you guys put that on me?

819
00:34:53.301 --> 00:34:58.882
Like, there's just a few things that slightly freak me out a little bit, but I know that.

820
00:34:59.766 --> 00:35:03.269
everything did comply, you know, and I asked all these pre-op questions.

821
00:35:03.609 --> 00:35:08.793
And I would have definitely done my underneath neck so everything aged at the same time.

822
00:35:09.153 --> 00:35:11.535
Because now I'm like, oh, I've got to get back there.

823
00:35:12.495 --> 00:35:15.257
Did you not do that because you thought it was too much?

824
00:35:15.357 --> 00:35:19.120
No, I didn't think I needed to have it done and he didn't think I needed to have it done.

825
00:35:19.200 --> 00:35:20.901
And it probably would have been such a subtle look.

826
00:35:20.941 --> 00:35:25.585
But overall, I think it is such a subtle look that I could have probably had done it and it would have

827
00:35:25.965 --> 00:35:28.707
everything would have aged kind of at the same rate.

828
00:35:28.827 --> 00:35:29.047
Yeah.

829
00:35:29.107 --> 00:35:29.728
If that makes sense.

830
00:35:29.748 --> 00:35:31.829
Like, I don't want to have, like, a turkey goblin neck in my life.

831
00:35:31.889 --> 00:35:33.010
And his tight face.

832
00:35:33.030 --> 00:35:34.471
Tight face.

833
00:35:34.491 --> 00:35:37.093
Also, I was, like, freaking out super hard before the operation.

834
00:35:37.113 --> 00:35:38.574
I was like, are you sure?

835
00:35:38.694 --> 00:35:41.956
I was like, tell him, lady, that I don't.

836
00:35:42.036 --> 00:35:43.557
He can understand me also at this time.

837
00:35:43.577 --> 00:35:48.901
It's just, like, Korean people have such pride that they don't want to, like, speak English.

838
00:35:49.341 --> 00:35:49.622
English.

839
00:35:49.682 --> 00:35:50.062
English.

840
00:35:50.082 --> 00:35:50.702
But they can.

841
00:35:50.722 --> 00:35:53.064
But he could understand everything because he'd already be answering.

842
00:35:53.104 --> 00:35:54.425
I'm like, you didn't say anything.

843
00:35:54.445 --> 00:35:55.446
Are you even translating?

844
00:35:55.727 --> 00:35:57.388
Because he'd be like, you know, back.

845
00:35:57.408 --> 00:35:58.389
And then I was like, okay.

846
00:35:58.949 --> 00:36:03.673
But everything that I was saying, I was like, I don't want to look surprised.

847
00:36:03.713 --> 00:36:05.234
I don't want my eyebrows up here.

848
00:36:05.534 --> 00:36:06.916
Like I was freaking out hard.

849
00:36:06.936 --> 00:36:08.437
So I think he was just like, whoa, she's...

850
00:36:09.386 --> 00:36:14.327
You can definitely go home on day six.

851
00:36:14.347 --> 00:36:15.748
Pull those stitches out, off you go.

852
00:36:15.768 --> 00:36:16.308
You were fine.

853
00:36:16.388 --> 00:36:23.169
When I was getting my eyes done, I sent photos to the plastic surgeon and I was like, I do not want to look like this.

854
00:36:23.189 --> 00:36:23.930
This is how I did.

855
00:36:23.950 --> 00:36:25.710
Definitely do not want to look.

856
00:36:25.730 --> 00:36:27.450
When we're going in, I'm like, so not like those photos.

857
00:36:27.470 --> 00:36:28.070
Remember the photos?

858
00:36:28.111 --> 00:36:28.511
And I got them.

859
00:36:28.691 --> 00:36:29.911
Not like these, not like these, not like these.

860
00:36:30.071 --> 00:36:32.091
I just kept showing photos of me when I was like 21.

861
00:36:32.111 --> 00:36:34.672
I was like, make me look like this.

862
00:36:34.732 --> 00:36:36.292
He's like, send in for photos.

863
00:36:36.332 --> 00:36:38.333
I was like, no, just like me, but like this young.

864
00:36:39.153 --> 00:36:39.554
That's you.

865
00:36:41.175 --> 00:36:42.976
That's so good.

866
00:36:43.036 --> 00:36:48.421
It's like when I like send photos in of like if I've ever had consults and stuff, like, oh, so what is your achievement?

867
00:36:48.441 --> 00:36:48.941
What's your goal?

868
00:36:48.981 --> 00:36:51.003
And I'll send someone like so rogue.

869
00:36:51.023 --> 00:36:54.846
I think I sent Isabel Mathis one time.

870
00:36:54.886 --> 00:36:55.406
I was like, like this.

871
00:36:55.426 --> 00:36:56.027
That's it.

872
00:36:56.587 --> 00:36:57.387
He's just like.

873
00:36:57.407 --> 00:36:58.948
Isabel Mathers is so hot.

874
00:36:59.048 --> 00:36:59.628
I know.

875
00:37:00.488 --> 00:37:02.628
And he's like, you're crazy.

876
00:37:02.728 --> 00:37:04.589
I am not performing any surgery on you.

877
00:37:05.369 --> 00:37:07.390
How do you want to look?

878
00:37:07.410 --> 00:37:08.510
Isabel Mathers.

879
00:37:08.530 --> 00:37:09.030
Just like this.

880
00:37:09.090 --> 00:37:10.010
I need someone to look like this.

881
00:37:10.030 --> 00:37:11.851
Make my eyes green like hers as well.

882
00:37:11.991 --> 00:37:12.831
Dye my hair.

883
00:37:12.871 --> 00:37:13.571
Dye my hair.

884
00:37:14.191 --> 00:37:15.952
And the body, the butt, like everything.

885
00:37:15.972 --> 00:37:17.092
Yeah, I think I just do that.

886
00:37:17.192 --> 00:37:21.473
I actually sit there having a giggle when I do it because I know that the surgeon's just going to spiral.

887
00:37:21.533 --> 00:37:23.533
So I'm probably blacklisted on everyone's thing.

888
00:37:23.553 --> 00:37:25.094
Yeah, you're blacklisted too, you and me.

889
00:37:25.114 --> 00:37:25.934
We're blacklisted.

890
00:37:25.994 --> 00:37:26.134
So.

891
00:37:26.814 --> 00:37:27.635
Funny.

892
00:37:27.875 --> 00:37:28.316
All right.

893
00:37:28.336 --> 00:37:32.019
So let's talk about beauty treatments for the rest of your life.

894
00:37:32.059 --> 00:37:40.065
Like, yes, you've done this surgery now, but if you only get one beauty treatment consistently for the rest of your life, what would it be?

895
00:37:40.545 --> 00:37:41.186
I don't know.

896
00:37:41.206 --> 00:37:44.529
I feel like that's very hard to answer because… Anti-wrinkle.

897
00:37:45.434 --> 00:37:47.055
Yeah, but then like... Laces.

898
00:37:47.616 --> 00:37:48.076
No.

899
00:37:48.096 --> 00:37:49.877
See, like I haven't had a facial in two years.

900
00:37:50.678 --> 00:37:51.778
Because we can't sit still.

901
00:37:52.179 --> 00:37:52.379
Yeah.

902
00:37:52.499 --> 00:37:54.320
That's like... Yeah, I need to take it.

903
00:37:54.340 --> 00:37:57.322
Yeah, when they do the layer and the layer and the layer and you go, I'm done.

904
00:37:57.402 --> 00:38:00.685
And then they put like five new layers and the mask and the hot and the wax.

905
00:38:00.705 --> 00:38:01.285
Then they sit there.

906
00:38:01.585 --> 00:38:03.106
I need to get out of here.

907
00:38:03.126 --> 00:38:03.787
Give me something painful.

908
00:38:03.807 --> 00:38:04.627
Give me something painful.

909
00:38:04.707 --> 00:38:07.629
I'm like, I'm not sitting here for 11 minutes, 15 minutes with this.

910
00:38:07.649 --> 00:38:08.370
Stuff the mask.

911
00:38:08.570 --> 00:38:09.310
I've got one at home.

912
00:38:09.330 --> 00:38:11.252
I look in my eyes and I'm like looking at my phone.

913
00:38:11.272 --> 00:38:13.673
I'm like, am I going to lose my retinas?

914
00:38:14.034 --> 00:38:14.234
Okay.

915
00:38:14.694 --> 00:38:15.554
I can't do a facial.

916
00:38:15.614 --> 00:38:16.375
I can't do a facial.

917
00:38:16.395 --> 00:38:17.175
Like in one hour facial.

918
00:38:17.215 --> 00:38:18.155
I can't on the face.

919
00:38:18.215 --> 00:38:19.476
All the layers, all the things.

920
00:38:19.576 --> 00:38:20.976
I know, and it's not relaxing.

921
00:38:20.996 --> 00:38:22.517
It gives me, like, I start, like, getting my...

922
00:38:22.617 --> 00:38:23.157
It needs to be painful.

923
00:38:23.177 --> 00:38:26.459
And then you're like, if it's painful, it takes the distraction where you're like, okay, we're getting somewhere.

924
00:38:26.719 --> 00:38:28.619
It makes my heart start racing when I'm there.

925
00:38:28.639 --> 00:38:30.240
I'm like, I just really want to go.

926
00:38:30.280 --> 00:38:32.901
I feel like we need to take sleeping tablets and we go get facials.

927
00:38:33.061 --> 00:38:33.481
Oh, 100%.

928
00:38:33.621 --> 00:38:36.322
I was like, that's, like, the only time I can enjoy massage.

929
00:38:36.382 --> 00:38:37.003
I'm the same.

930
00:38:37.123 --> 00:38:40.024
I get, like, can't do massages, can't do facials.

931
00:38:40.824 --> 00:38:42.105
Can't even go to a chiropractor.

932
00:38:42.125 --> 00:38:43.407
I'm like, I just don't want to be touched.

933
00:38:43.427 --> 00:38:44.227
But then I need it.

934
00:38:44.247 --> 00:38:44.628
Same.

935
00:38:44.648 --> 00:38:45.088
But I need it.

936
00:38:45.128 --> 00:38:50.954
The funny thing is, you know, when you go to some countries and their full body massage by their culture includes your stomach and your boobs.

937
00:38:51.014 --> 00:38:51.735
Yes, I've had that done.

938
00:38:51.755 --> 00:38:54.217
And they won't touch your nipples, but they'll touch everything.

939
00:38:54.257 --> 00:38:55.358
And that's how they've been trained.

940
00:38:55.378 --> 00:38:58.181
And they literally go all in your boob without brushing the nipple.

941
00:38:58.201 --> 00:38:59.202
Mine was sitting like this.

942
00:38:59.762 --> 00:39:02.545
And then they're all on your stomach and it's like, whoa.

943
00:39:02.565 --> 00:39:04.627
So I've had one of those in New Zealand.

944
00:39:04.687 --> 00:39:08.330
One of those in New Zealand and one of those in the Maldives where you just don't see it coming.

945
00:39:08.350 --> 00:39:10.472
Then all of a sudden they're like massaging your boobs.

946
00:39:10.852 --> 00:39:11.873
And it's like, shoot.

947
00:39:11.893 --> 00:39:12.874
They happened to me in Bali.

948
00:39:12.934 --> 00:39:14.435
They happened to me in Bali too.

949
00:39:14.495 --> 00:39:16.017
And I was like, this is so wrong.

950
00:39:16.037 --> 00:39:17.418
My boyfriend was lying there at the time.

951
00:39:17.438 --> 00:39:18.719
I was like, he's rubbing my tits.

952
00:39:18.739 --> 00:39:21.041
I was like, Brian, Brian.

953
00:39:21.081 --> 00:39:22.803
And he's like, I'm like, Brian.

954
00:39:22.923 --> 00:39:23.964
I'm like, Brian.

955
00:39:24.904 --> 00:39:25.444
I had a Baladies man.

956
00:39:25.464 --> 00:39:26.525
I was like, I'm fucking worried.

957
00:39:26.565 --> 00:39:27.705
I had a Baladies man.

958
00:39:27.725 --> 00:39:28.546
You're doing my best.

959
00:39:28.566 --> 00:39:28.906
Same.

960
00:39:29.006 --> 00:39:30.246
And I was breastfeeding.

961
00:39:30.266 --> 00:39:30.846
With milk.

962
00:39:32.807 --> 00:39:34.348
I walked out and Val wasn't with me.

963
00:39:34.408 --> 00:39:36.268
And I walked out like traumatised.

964
00:39:36.709 --> 00:39:36.929
Same.

965
00:39:36.949 --> 00:39:38.409
Val's next door and he's like, are you okay?

966
00:39:38.429 --> 00:39:41.711
And I was like, I have just sprayed the whole thing with breast milk.

967
00:39:41.811 --> 00:39:43.291
And the guy goes, ooh, ooh.

968
00:39:43.511 --> 00:39:44.492
And I was like, sorry.

969
00:39:44.512 --> 00:39:45.332
I'm pretty.

970
00:39:47.214 --> 00:39:48.975
And that is no word of a lie.

971
00:39:49.116 --> 00:39:54.299
I literally sprayed breast milk at a Balinese man massaging my boobs.

972
00:39:54.359 --> 00:39:56.680
And I was like, he had a happy ending.

973
00:39:58.742 --> 00:39:59.462
Poor Garrett.

974
00:39:59.542 --> 00:40:01.604
And I was like, I don't think he was happy for him at all.

975
00:40:01.624 --> 00:40:02.864
And I was like, no, he would have loved it.

976
00:40:02.885 --> 00:40:04.285
I'm like, no, no.

977
00:40:04.526 --> 00:40:08.328
He's like, oh, my God, trauma.

978
00:40:08.488 --> 00:40:10.890
Anyway, that was the last time I was judged by getting a massage.

979
00:40:11.590 --> 00:40:12.311
Actually, Father's Day.

980
00:40:13.171 --> 00:40:13.832
Father's Day.

981
00:40:13.912 --> 00:40:15.413
I went and got a massage on Father's Day.

982
00:40:17.617 --> 00:40:18.518
Like, where?

983
00:40:19.038 --> 00:40:21.401
In Ampton Street, special massage.

984
00:40:22.762 --> 00:40:23.303
Happy ending?

985
00:40:23.323 --> 00:40:26.706
You're like, I never get a massage, but only on Father's Day.

986
00:40:27.827 --> 00:40:29.709
Just to really piss my husband off.

987
00:40:29.749 --> 00:40:30.610
That's what he said to me.

988
00:40:30.630 --> 00:40:32.052
He goes, what do you mean?

989
00:40:32.072 --> 00:40:34.194
You don't get massaged, you're doing it on Father's Day?

990
00:40:34.214 --> 00:40:36.096
And I was like, yeah, I'm really stressed.

991
00:40:37.257 --> 00:40:39.659
That was your subconscious doing that to Val on purpose.

992
00:40:39.679 --> 00:40:40.140
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

993
00:40:41.073 --> 00:40:42.515
Sorry, Val.

994
00:40:42.595 --> 00:40:44.117
I had to make it about me, of course.

995
00:40:44.257 --> 00:40:44.778
Of course.

996
00:40:44.798 --> 00:40:47.302
I was probably like, did Beck book that for you?

997
00:40:47.322 --> 00:40:48.303
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

998
00:40:48.403 --> 00:40:49.384
I'm meeting her down there.

999
00:40:50.591 --> 00:40:51.831
They're only fans money.

1000
00:40:52.051 --> 00:40:53.172
Oh, my God.

1001
00:40:53.192 --> 00:40:54.392
It's so good.

1002
00:40:54.552 --> 00:40:56.212
All right, side quested again.

1003
00:40:56.232 --> 00:40:56.672
All right, love it.

1004
00:40:56.692 --> 00:40:59.073
Now we're talking milk squirting in Bali.

1005
00:40:59.633 --> 00:41:00.413
Tootie touching.

1006
00:41:00.833 --> 00:41:05.014
Is there a random or affordable, all right, we've popped a stitch.

1007
00:41:05.034 --> 00:41:06.115
We've popped an internal stitch.

1008
00:41:06.135 --> 00:41:06.535
I can't.

1009
00:41:06.555 --> 00:41:08.135
Like the other day I was crying at Chanel.

1010
00:41:08.155 --> 00:41:11.656
I was like, you're fucking ruining my face.

1011
00:41:11.676 --> 00:41:12.856
Were you crying online?

1012
00:41:12.876 --> 00:41:14.717
I remember the next day you were bruised.

1013
00:41:14.737 --> 00:41:16.177
You're like, I've been crying so much.

1014
00:41:16.237 --> 00:41:16.957
And you went online.

1015
00:41:16.977 --> 00:41:17.757
She's all bruised again.

1016
00:41:17.777 --> 00:41:19.078
I was all bruised.

1017
00:41:19.178 --> 00:41:19.938
I'm going to leave it.

1018
00:41:19.958 --> 00:41:20.358
I'll be like.

1019
00:41:21.099 --> 00:41:21.819
I don't know.

1020
00:41:21.860 --> 00:41:25.283
That's where you talked about the post thing I've lost and you were like, babe, I think you've got this.

1021
00:41:25.303 --> 00:41:27.706
I was like, I don't know what the fuck's happening, but it's bad.

1022
00:41:27.746 --> 00:41:30.449
Yeah, the general anesthetic really knocks you.

1023
00:41:30.469 --> 00:41:31.130
Yeah, it does.

1024
00:41:31.310 --> 00:41:33.112
I've had that before, bad, bad.

1025
00:41:33.152 --> 00:41:37.057
And I said to the surgeon and he was like, yep, you're right in that.

1026
00:41:37.197 --> 00:41:38.779
How many days does it last, do you reckon?

1027
00:41:38.799 --> 00:41:38.899
Yeah.

1028
00:41:39.239 --> 00:41:40.580
I think it was a few days.

1029
00:41:40.920 --> 00:41:45.022
But it reminded me of the baby blues, like when your milk comes in and you just cry for three days.

1030
00:41:45.042 --> 00:41:52.986
I cried leaving the hospital because I was like, no one's going to cook me food anymore and I really like the food and what am I going to do with this thing, this baby?

1031
00:41:53.026 --> 00:41:54.147
Why did I have this?

1032
00:41:54.227 --> 00:41:55.628
I love it but I don't.

1033
00:41:56.188 --> 00:41:57.870
So I was like, Jess, this is not normal.

1034
00:41:57.890 --> 00:41:59.992
I was like, he's like, why are you crying?

1035
00:42:00.032 --> 00:42:03.295
I'm like, I'm just crying because I want to stay at the hospital and have someone look after my kid.

1036
00:42:03.315 --> 00:42:04.857
I wish I was still there with him.

1037
00:42:04.897 --> 00:42:05.998
How crazy is that?

1038
00:42:06.018 --> 00:42:08.160
Fifteen years later, I wish I'd never checked out.

1039
00:42:08.220 --> 00:42:10.462
I'd never stayed there.

1040
00:42:10.482 --> 00:42:11.703
We're going to another house next.

1041
00:42:11.943 --> 00:42:13.185
To me, it feels like that feeling...

1042
00:42:15.927 --> 00:42:18.691
Where it just overtakes you for a few days and then, yeah.

1043
00:42:18.911 --> 00:42:19.332
Yeah, yeah.

1044
00:42:19.372 --> 00:42:26.942
No, it definitely – I definitely – But I was aware of it because the doctor was like, it is this and it will – let us know if it doesn't dissipate.

1045
00:42:26.962 --> 00:42:29.005
So what happened with Bec?

1046
00:42:29.045 --> 00:42:30.987
She was really smart when you had your eyes done.

1047
00:42:31.007 --> 00:42:31.228
Yeah.

1048
00:42:31.648 --> 00:42:34.553
She decided to book her birthday party on that day of baby blues.

1049
00:42:34.673 --> 00:42:35.474
Ten days later.

1050
00:42:35.514 --> 00:42:36.916
Ten days later.

1051
00:42:36.956 --> 00:42:37.838
I recover really well.

1052
00:42:37.858 --> 00:42:39.460
I don't really bruise or swell.

1053
00:42:39.660 --> 00:42:41.804
I wouldn't think I would bruise or swell, but look what happened.

1054
00:42:41.824 --> 00:42:43.807
I was like, look, I've been punched.

1055
00:42:43.947 --> 00:42:45.770
Do you reckon it was worse because you flew early?

1056
00:42:46.492 --> 00:42:47.873
I think it was worse for a lot of reasons.

1057
00:42:47.913 --> 00:42:55.538
But, like, I just love me meeting some, like, you know, great guy from Australia who has a lovely wife, family, and I'm talking to him in the business lounge.

1058
00:42:55.558 --> 00:42:57.159
He's going, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

1059
00:42:57.219 --> 00:42:58.760
And he's like, and then I go to the bathroom.

1060
00:42:58.780 --> 00:43:02.422
I come back and I go, oh, I've been talking to him for, like, three hours without, like, having a chat about everything.

1061
00:43:02.442 --> 00:43:02.582
Yeah.

1062
00:43:02.908 --> 00:43:06.370
And I come back, oh, my God, I am so sorry I look like this.

1063
00:43:06.430 --> 00:43:08.552
He goes, oh, I don't know you look any different.

1064
00:43:08.612 --> 00:43:11.794
I was like, this is bloody great, isn't it?

1065
00:43:11.854 --> 00:43:13.255
I was like, do you feel sorry for me?

1066
00:43:13.335 --> 00:43:14.336
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1067
00:43:14.356 --> 00:43:15.557
Because you were so bruised.

1068
00:43:15.977 --> 00:43:17.298
I came into customs.

1069
00:43:17.378 --> 00:43:20.540
I came into Australia and the lady walked up and this is really bad of her.

1070
00:43:20.600 --> 00:43:23.802
And she goes, okay, have we had our face done or did we get punched?

1071
00:43:24.262 --> 00:43:28.165
And I was like, I had my face done, but imagine if I did get punched.

1072
00:43:28.185 --> 00:43:30.226
I was like, you were being really, like, fully just came up.

1073
00:43:30.246 --> 00:43:30.947
What if I've been attacked?

1074
00:43:31.127 --> 00:43:31.908
What if I've been attacked?

1075
00:43:32.748 --> 00:43:35.972
like pushing my thing where you give the card to say declare or not.

1076
00:43:36.372 --> 00:43:37.954
And she's like, face done?

1077
00:43:38.194 --> 00:43:38.955
Oh, God, bunched.

1078
00:43:39.055 --> 00:43:40.636
I was like, face done?

1079
00:43:40.756 --> 00:43:42.118
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1080
00:43:42.278 --> 00:43:44.320
Did your face ID work on your phone afterwards?

1081
00:43:44.340 --> 00:43:49.566
No, I had to go get my... Like, I was the first person outside Apple before my... Like, after I'll post...

1082
00:43:50.086 --> 00:43:52.368
Like, hallucinating at Apple, like, ugh.

1083
00:43:52.528 --> 00:43:53.689
I can't get into my phone.

1084
00:43:53.730 --> 00:43:55.531
And now, like, this happens all the time.

1085
00:43:55.831 --> 00:43:59.075
But I feel like you still look like you're just really fresh.

1086
00:43:59.335 --> 00:44:02.618
Why would it not let you go into your... Because it was the day after.

1087
00:44:02.658 --> 00:44:06.041
I couldn't open because I have, like, lock on, lock on, lock on, lock.

1088
00:44:06.081 --> 00:44:10.705
And you have to, like, you do the passcode, but then it needs your face again to get into certain apps, like Instagram.

1089
00:44:10.725 --> 00:44:11.566
So it's like... Like your bank.

1090
00:44:11.586 --> 00:44:12.167
Like your bank.

1091
00:44:13.091 --> 00:44:15.652
I was like, Instagram.

1092
00:44:15.872 --> 00:44:18.354
But it needs my face to, like, do certain things.

1093
00:44:18.394 --> 00:44:21.115
I don't know how I did this on my phone, but it's a setting that I have.

1094
00:44:21.255 --> 00:44:22.176
Yeah.

1095
00:44:22.636 --> 00:44:30.320
And, yeah, so I went to go obviously try and call my partner and text him and nothing, could not do anything.

1096
00:44:30.340 --> 00:44:33.521
I was like, he's going to find out in the Daily Mail what's happened.

1097
00:44:33.541 --> 00:44:34.142
And he did.

1098
00:44:34.222 --> 00:44:34.842
And he did.

1099
00:44:34.882 --> 00:44:38.484
She couldn't get into her phone to tell him because her face didn't look like it did before.

1100
00:44:38.504 --> 00:44:39.464
But, oh, my God.

1101
00:44:39.504 --> 00:44:42.886
It was like, yeah, so I was like the first person at Apple and they're like, this happens all the time.

1102
00:44:42.986 --> 00:44:44.387
All the time in Korea.

1103
00:44:44.427 --> 00:44:46.688
And what about when you went through at the airport?

1104
00:44:46.968 --> 00:44:51.071
No, I was worried about that, but you have a certificate saying like you've had.

1105
00:44:51.391 --> 00:44:53.072
So you can't do the electronic way you've got to do.

1106
00:44:53.132 --> 00:44:57.274
No, you do it the normal way because I think it like takes a photo of you when you like it doesn't really matter.

1107
00:44:57.674 --> 00:44:58.094
I don't think.

1108
00:44:58.174 --> 00:45:02.077
Or maybe I was like pregnant in my passport photo, so I kind of looked really swollen.

1109
00:45:02.097 --> 00:45:02.617
Okay.

1110
00:45:02.637 --> 00:45:04.018
So it was matching up perfectly.

1111
00:45:04.038 --> 00:45:04.778
Okay, perfect.

1112
00:45:04.798 --> 00:45:05.138
Perfect.

1113
00:45:05.178 --> 00:45:05.639
Perfect.

1114
00:45:05.659 --> 00:45:06.799
So good.

1115
00:45:06.819 --> 00:45:07.119
All right.

1116
00:45:08.500 --> 00:45:18.082
One of these questions we love to ask when people come in and do a tell-all is, is there a random or affordable product you genuinely swear by that's like from a supermarket or a chemist or something?

1117
00:45:18.102 --> 00:45:21.543
It doesn't have to be related to your facelift, just something you'd love.

1118
00:45:21.563 --> 00:45:24.304
I love the Ordinary.

1119
00:45:24.504 --> 00:45:25.364
The brand The Ordinary.

1120
00:45:25.384 --> 00:45:28.765
The Ordinary, which is like red face peeling stuff.

1121
00:45:29.005 --> 00:45:30.886
Red face peeling stuff.

1122
00:45:30.946 --> 00:45:32.026
Is it a face mask?

1123
00:45:32.446 --> 00:45:35.987
No, you put it on for like 10 minutes and you can use it like two times a week.

1124
00:45:36.470 --> 00:45:36.830
This one.

1125
00:45:36.971 --> 00:45:38.952
Oh, it's an AHA 30%.

1126
00:45:39.113 --> 00:45:40.294
So like a chemical peel.

1127
00:45:40.414 --> 00:45:40.694
Yeah.

1128
00:45:40.734 --> 00:45:40.974
Yeah.

1129
00:45:41.195 --> 00:45:44.478
AHA 30%, the ordinary, and it's red.

1130
00:45:44.778 --> 00:45:45.399
Yeah, it's red.

1131
00:45:45.439 --> 00:45:46.800
You look like you're bleeding when you have it on.

1132
00:45:46.820 --> 00:45:47.360
How much is it?

1133
00:45:47.380 --> 00:45:49.322
You can get them for like… What is it?

1134
00:45:49.563 --> 00:45:50.483
ASOS, actually.

1135
00:45:50.804 --> 00:45:51.144
Oh, $17.

1136
00:45:51.204 --> 00:45:51.745
There you go.

1137
00:45:52.145 --> 00:45:52.866
Look at me.

1138
00:45:52.886 --> 00:45:53.667
Cheap and cheerful.

1139
00:45:53.787 --> 00:45:54.768
I'm on ASOS right now.

1140
00:45:54.788 --> 00:45:55.348
We love it.

1141
00:45:55.388 --> 00:45:56.930
She's already buying it.

1142
00:45:57.270 --> 00:45:58.151
I love that product.

1143
00:45:58.728 --> 00:46:07.194
So, Ruby, you mentioned before about your recovery and how you'd had breast augmentation in the past and a lift and how then you ghosted your surgeon.

1144
00:46:07.214 --> 00:46:11.217
I reckon I could find the text thread to his wife going, he's botched me.

1145
00:46:11.237 --> 00:46:14.439
Answer the phone, click phone.

1146
00:46:15.340 --> 00:46:16.200
It's seven in the morning.

1147
00:46:16.220 --> 00:46:18.281
I'm like, answer the clinic phone.

1148
00:46:18.401 --> 00:46:21.803
And then when they settle down, the clinic's trying to call to make sure she's like, ghosted down.

1149
00:46:21.883 --> 00:46:22.903
I'm like, I'm happy.

1150
00:46:22.943 --> 00:46:24.764
I'm on the beach in a micro bikini.

1151
00:46:26.144 --> 00:46:27.325
Now I want the bigger.

1152
00:46:27.365 --> 00:46:28.886
And he's like, ghosted you now.

1153
00:46:29.386 --> 00:46:30.406
So tell us about that.

1154
00:46:30.466 --> 00:46:31.567
What size did you get?

1155
00:46:31.587 --> 00:46:33.767
And was it after your third baby?

1156
00:46:33.988 --> 00:46:39.690
Yeah, so I actually had a breast lift initially after I had two children breastfed both of the kids.

1157
00:46:40.490 --> 00:46:43.011
And I didn't know this, but it is.

1158
00:46:43.051 --> 00:46:44.812
It's a Medicare rebate if you breastfeed.

1159
00:46:45.469 --> 00:46:46.689
I think more than two.

1160
00:46:46.789 --> 00:46:49.470
It has to be two children within a certain time frame.

1161
00:46:49.510 --> 00:46:51.590
Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's what it was.

1162
00:46:52.150 --> 00:46:53.191
At that time, maybe.

1163
00:46:53.231 --> 00:46:53.831
Yeah, at that time.

1164
00:46:54.551 --> 00:46:59.652
And I was eligible because I had like salami nipples, like this big.

1165
00:46:59.752 --> 00:47:00.832
My nipple was that big.

1166
00:47:00.852 --> 00:47:03.593
Like if I showed you a picture of my nipple, it would be bigger than your face.

1167
00:47:04.213 --> 00:47:07.273
And I had lost all the fat in the top of my breasts.

1168
00:47:07.373 --> 00:47:09.694
So they hung really selling this.

1169
00:47:12.115 --> 00:47:13.156
Like a mango in the sock.

1170
00:47:13.296 --> 00:47:14.577
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1171
00:47:14.597 --> 00:47:15.158
Literally, yeah.

1172
00:47:15.258 --> 00:47:20.442
And I went in and I basically hit the benchmark and it was because I wasn't getting an implant.

1173
00:47:20.462 --> 00:47:21.423
I didn't want to get an implant.

1174
00:47:21.463 --> 00:47:22.924
I just wanted to get a lift.

1175
00:47:23.665 --> 00:47:24.766
Anyway, I have another baby.

1176
00:47:24.806 --> 00:47:25.726
I breastfeed again.

1177
00:47:26.187 --> 00:47:32.412
And at this stage, I literally have, because they cut me new nipples the first time because I had salami nipples.

1178
00:47:32.572 --> 00:47:33.693
I was like, what size do I get?

1179
00:47:33.713 --> 00:47:35.434
And he's like, we just do a standard 20 cent piece.

1180
00:47:35.595 --> 00:47:35.995
I was like, cool.

1181
00:47:36.015 --> 00:47:36.115
Cool.

1182
00:47:36.295 --> 00:48:00.050
yeah anything's good for me right now yeah yeah yeah yeah um and then I went back the second time and he's like hey we can do another lift but we're literally just going to be moving your nipples back up and cutting off excess skin at this point you've lost all the fatty tissue that sits at the top of your breasts and it's it's just going to the bottom and to get anything for what you do for work you should probably put an implant in yeah and I was like well I don't want to look

1183
00:48:00.343 --> 00:48:29.640
got an implant okay and i was like do i get a teardrop he's like no i won't do a teardrop i just do a round and i was like that's a bit annoying yeah he's like because it has less risk apparently of flipping yeah all of these things and it's like a mini you have a demi you have a full and then you have like girls around the pole yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah and it depends on the placement behind the muscle yeah but also i have an extra large sternum which i didn't realize at the point in time okay

1184
00:48:30.100 --> 00:48:33.403
Like, the way of placing will basically always have a break.

1185
00:48:33.743 --> 00:48:34.383
You know what I mean?

1186
00:48:34.423 --> 00:48:35.084
Yes, yeah, yeah.

1187
00:48:35.184 --> 00:48:38.166
Anyway, so I go in and I'm like, I want the smallest of the small.

1188
00:48:38.206 --> 00:48:41.509
I think I got, like, what's the sizing like again?

1189
00:48:41.729 --> 00:48:45.452
I think it's 170, 190s, and you go into, like, 220s, 230s.

1190
00:48:45.512 --> 00:48:48.554
I was getting, I swear, I, like, got a 160 mini.

1191
00:48:48.594 --> 00:48:49.215
Yeah, yeah.

1192
00:48:49.235 --> 00:48:49.875
Which is, like, nothing.

1193
00:48:49.915 --> 00:48:51.116
I saw them on the table, they're like, hey.

1194
00:48:51.136 --> 00:48:51.657
Yeah, yeah.

1195
00:48:51.997 --> 00:48:52.958
That's like mils.

1196
00:48:52.978 --> 00:48:55.199
Like imagine that amount of mils in a cup.

1197
00:48:55.219 --> 00:49:00.803
So you think like when you're baking a full cup's 250 mils, it's like half of that plus.

1198
00:49:00.843 --> 00:49:01.524
It was like half a cup.

1199
00:49:01.544 --> 00:49:02.184
It was nothing.

1200
00:49:02.204 --> 00:49:02.905
Half a cup of water.

1201
00:49:02.925 --> 00:49:03.865
It was nothing.

1202
00:49:03.946 --> 00:49:04.206
Yeah.

1203
00:49:04.566 --> 00:49:07.288
And he was like, this is just going to push up your natural tissue.

1204
00:49:07.668 --> 00:49:08.229
They were tiny.

1205
00:49:08.249 --> 00:49:09.249
Obviously the swelling happens.

1206
00:49:09.269 --> 00:49:09.610
And I was like...

1207
00:49:10.430 --> 00:49:12.232
And my nipples, they've re-cut the nipples.

1208
00:49:12.272 --> 00:49:15.214
And I'm like, you botched me.

1209
00:49:15.394 --> 00:49:16.656
But, yeah, that's where I got to that.

1210
00:49:16.716 --> 00:49:24.102
And basically the procedure I ended up having in the end, he did tell me multiple times, I really feel like you should go up to this size.

1211
00:49:24.122 --> 00:49:26.644
And I said, no, I want really small natural.

1212
00:49:26.744 --> 00:49:34.151
And they're actually probably slightly more unnatural looking because there's not enough to fill that full breast pocket.

1213
00:49:34.171 --> 00:49:35.712
Yeah, you didn't have, like, enough breast tissue.

1214
00:49:35.752 --> 00:49:37.032
He's like, it's like building a house.

1215
00:49:37.253 --> 00:49:37.833
Yeah, yeah.

1216
00:49:37.853 --> 00:49:39.533
You need the bigger profile at the bottom.

1217
00:49:39.673 --> 00:49:39.794
Yeah.

1218
00:49:39.834 --> 00:49:41.674
And then it goes, yeah, from the top.

1219
00:49:41.754 --> 00:49:42.014
Yeah.

1220
00:49:42.194 --> 00:49:47.396
And I think that's why we always initially go, let's do the teardrop because that's what it kind of does.

1221
00:49:47.456 --> 00:49:48.237
But then the teardrop.

1222
00:49:48.257 --> 00:49:50.418
No, but if you hold an implant on the side, this is what he did.

1223
00:49:50.598 --> 00:49:52.858
He's like, if you get your implant, it's a teardrop.

1224
00:49:52.878 --> 00:49:53.879
It's a teardrop anyway.

1225
00:49:53.899 --> 00:49:54.419
It drops to the bottom.

1226
00:49:54.479 --> 00:49:55.239
And I'm like, oh, yeah.

1227
00:49:55.259 --> 00:49:55.820
Gravity.

1228
00:49:55.940 --> 00:49:56.660
Gravity, gravity.

1229
00:49:56.680 --> 00:49:57.280
Yeah.

1230
00:49:57.440 --> 00:49:58.160
Okay.

1231
00:49:58.260 --> 00:49:59.001
So then you got them.

1232
00:49:59.021 --> 00:50:00.341
I'm like, three years in there.

1233
00:50:00.361 --> 00:50:00.541
Okay.

1234
00:50:00.681 --> 00:50:01.862
And then how long ago was that?

1235
00:50:02.402 --> 00:50:07.933
Holiday would have been like six months, seven months old because I had to stop breastfeeding.

1236
00:50:08.514 --> 00:50:10.578
And then you have to wait for all your milk to dry up.

1237
00:50:10.678 --> 00:50:11.239
Yeah, yeah.

1238
00:50:11.419 --> 00:50:12.081
So how did you go?

1239
00:50:12.101 --> 00:50:14.705
Because you know how you had a lift before you had holiday?

1240
00:50:14.726 --> 00:50:14.826
Yeah.

1241
00:50:15.310 --> 00:50:16.391
How were you with breastfeeding?

1242
00:50:16.411 --> 00:50:17.571
Was it hard or was it?

1243
00:50:17.632 --> 00:50:24.876
Well, she was also born premature, which is really hard for a baby with super, you know.

1244
00:50:24.896 --> 00:50:26.837
Because they're little and they don't know how to suck.

1245
00:50:26.878 --> 00:50:28.459
She wasn't strong enough to suck.

1246
00:50:28.499 --> 00:50:29.859
Her mouth was so small.

1247
00:50:29.939 --> 00:50:37.905
So I breastfed her for like as long as I could, which for me was with two other children and having, you know, an older child who...

1248
00:50:38.837 --> 00:50:39.878
Her needs.

1249
00:50:39.978 --> 00:50:42.319
It was a lot and running, working.

1250
00:50:42.519 --> 00:50:42.759
Yeah.

1251
00:50:42.779 --> 00:50:44.600
Like breastfeeding is a full-time job.

1252
00:50:44.700 --> 00:50:45.020
It is.

1253
00:50:45.180 --> 00:50:45.781
It's full on.

1254
00:50:45.921 --> 00:50:47.242
No, it's a full-time job.

1255
00:50:47.262 --> 00:50:49.283
But it's good that you even could like, I've always.

1256
00:50:49.303 --> 00:50:50.223
So I did eight weeks.

1257
00:50:50.363 --> 00:50:53.585
I was like, I was like, just get to eight weeks so I can, you know, do what I can.

1258
00:50:53.925 --> 00:50:57.347
And then in my head, I was like, I am not going to put pressure on myself.

1259
00:50:57.487 --> 00:50:57.727
Yeah.

1260
00:50:57.747 --> 00:50:57.947
You know?

1261
00:50:57.967 --> 00:50:59.908
Because if you did, you wouldn't be able to get to eight weeks.

1262
00:50:59.928 --> 00:51:03.851
Well, I was like, I was like mixed feeding towards the end, moving towards that.

1263
00:51:03.891 --> 00:51:04.371
And then, yeah.

1264
00:51:04.671 --> 00:51:06.312
Yeah, they could still function.

1265
00:51:06.673 --> 00:51:07.593
Yeah, yeah.

1266
00:51:07.894 --> 00:51:08.994
They could still function.

1267
00:51:09.014 --> 00:51:09.735
I don't know if they could.

1268
00:51:09.795 --> 00:51:10.556
They probably would now.

1269
00:51:10.996 --> 00:51:11.276
Yeah.

1270
00:51:11.316 --> 00:51:12.357
Just yours did.

1271
00:51:12.377 --> 00:51:14.479
So you've got that same pair of implants in.

1272
00:51:15.459 --> 00:51:16.180
Would you go bigger?

1273
00:51:16.580 --> 00:51:21.644
I've asked to go bigger, and I think because of what I did to him, he went and asked.

1274
00:51:22.425 --> 00:51:23.445
I went and had it.

1275
00:51:24.126 --> 00:51:24.987
I was like, hey.

1276
00:51:25.007 --> 00:51:26.007
She's trying to get in contact.

1277
00:51:26.027 --> 00:51:27.048
You feel interested in?

1278
00:51:27.068 --> 00:51:27.709
No.

1279
00:51:27.809 --> 00:51:29.370
I had a consult, and he's just like,

1280
00:51:31.031 --> 00:51:32.832
I'd rather go on a holiday than deal with you again.

1281
00:51:33.952 --> 00:51:35.933
I love it.

1282
00:51:36.193 --> 00:51:36.894
I love it.

1283
00:51:37.054 --> 00:51:37.314
Awesome.

1284
00:51:37.334 --> 00:51:38.854
Well, thank you so much, Ruby.

1285
00:51:38.994 --> 00:51:41.476
It was so great to hear about all your career insights.

1286
00:51:41.496 --> 00:51:42.356
We followed along.

1287
00:51:42.816 --> 00:51:45.717
We loved how much you shared.

1288
00:51:45.737 --> 00:51:46.758
It was so cool.

1289
00:51:46.978 --> 00:51:50.880
And thank you for coming on to Vaynish and sharing your journey with us.

1290
00:51:50.940 --> 00:51:51.680
So cool.

1291
00:51:51.760 --> 00:51:52.280
Thank you.

1292
00:51:52.460 --> 00:51:54.221
Also, I wanted to shout out your range.

1293
00:51:54.241 --> 00:51:55.041
I'm wearing it.

1294
00:51:55.081 --> 00:52:00.784
So you're in Melbourne today because you're launching your Ruby Tuesday Matthews for Ennapelli range.

1295
00:52:00.964 --> 00:52:01.304
Yeah.

1296
00:52:01.404 --> 00:52:02.706
This hoodie's really cute.

1297
00:52:02.786 --> 00:52:03.927
And you're wearing the trench.

1298
00:52:04.848 --> 00:52:05.789
We love Innapelli.

1299
00:52:06.109 --> 00:52:07.711
And I wore it today.

1300
00:52:08.051 --> 00:52:11.815
Jump on and have a look and see if you can get any leftover pieces.

1301
00:52:11.995 --> 00:52:13.197
Leftovers.

1302
00:52:13.217 --> 00:52:14.298
Get any leftovers, bitches.

1303
00:52:14.318 --> 00:52:14.498
Yeah.

1304
00:52:17.681 --> 00:52:18.201
So funny.

1305
00:52:18.461 --> 00:52:19.782
All right, that was amazing.

1306
00:52:19.802 --> 00:52:21.623
Yay, we'll see you tomorrow for a muggy.

1307
00:52:21.823 --> 00:52:22.644
Yeah, bye.

1308
00:52:22.964 --> 00:52:31.049
If you loved Ruby's boob chat and you want to hear more, this month is booby month with plenty more stories to come.

1309
00:52:31.289 --> 00:52:32.790
See you in our next episode.

1310
00:52:32.910 --> 00:52:33.371
Bye for now.

1311
00:52:33.391 --> 00:52:33.471
Bye.

1312
00:52:33.631 --> 00:52:33.851
Bye.

1313
00:52:33.911 --> 00:52:34.071
Bye.

1314
00:52:34.091 --> 00:52:34.211
Bye.

1315
00:52:34.231 --> 00:52:34.351
Bye.

1316
00:52:35.572 --> 00:52:35.832
Bye.

1317
00:52:35.872 --> 00:52:36.012
Bye.

1318
00:52:36.032 --> 00:52:36.193
Bye.

1319
00:52:36.233 --> 00:52:36.353
Bye.

1320
00:52:36.413 --> 00:52:36.553
Bye.

1321
00:52:36.573 --> 00:52:36.653
Bye.

1322
00:52:36.673 --> 00:52:36.813
Bye.

1323
00:52:36.833 --> 00:52:37.053
Bye.

1324
00:52:37.073 --> 00:52:37.293
Bye.

1325
00:52:37.313 --> 00:52:37.433
Bye.

1326
00:52:37.814 --> 00:52:38.154
Bye.

1327
00:52:38.494 --> 00:52:38.654
Bye.

1328
00:52:38.674 --> 00:52:38.774
Bye.

1329
00:52:38.794 --> 00:52:38.914
Bye.

1330
00:52:39.014 --> 00:52:39.154
Bye.

1331
00:52:39.174 --> 00:52:39.335
Bye.

1332
00:52:39.375 --> 00:52:39.515
Bye.

1333
00:52:39.535 --> 00:52:39.675
Bye.

1334
00:52:39.735 --> 00:52:39.935
Bye.

1335
00:52:39.955 --> 00:52:40.155
Bye.

1336
00:52:40.175 --> 00:52:40.315
Bye.

1337
00:52:40.355 --> 00:52:40.575
Bye.

1338
00:52:40.595 --> 00:52:40.775
Bye.

1339
00:52:40.816 --> 00:52:40.936
Bye.

1340
00:52:40.956 --> 00:52:41.096
Bye.