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My family didn't really cook chitlins as far as I know, but I smelled it as a friend's house.

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I was like, your mom, I think she's sick.

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I smell .

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Like literally.

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It's not you or me, but I think.

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I don't know if I'm eating none of this.

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I have to go.

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I'm going to call my mom.

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Hey girl, what's up, how you doing?

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Y'all, Victoria Monet is pulling up to the house right now.

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And I feel like she has been cooking, literally in the kitchen and in the studio.

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She's got a new album, a new tour, and it feels like a whole new chapter in life.

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But I wanna know what else she's been cooking.

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Is that my girl?

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It's your girl.

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Well, that girl, look at you.

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Looking all good.

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You look amazing.

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I love this color on you.

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Girl, I love this color on you.

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Yeah.

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You better be a 90s dream.

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Let's go.

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I know this.

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Pow, pow, pow.

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Come on in here, girl.

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Yeah.

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Okay, so first of all, I know you see these ingredients, like I thought we was eating.

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We're definitely eating.

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We're cooking.

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We're cooking.

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Because I figured, you know, you chefing now.

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I figured we'll put it in the flick of the wrist.

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You know what I'm saying?

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So in honor of your saucy sundaes, we're going to dig into some sauces.

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But before we get to this sauce, I figured we start with an earlier sauce.

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Okay.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Let's do that.

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Bam.

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Yeah.

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Way to get saucy for real.

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For real.

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Now I'm calling this Monet in the bank.

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I love that.

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Little pineapple, little basil, little lime.

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And your favorite spirit.

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Hello, you see the green.

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You see the green.

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Cheers.

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Cheers indeed.

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We both got eyes.

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You saw that, right?

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Eyes.

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What's the thing?

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Palentro, palesantos.

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Pales, chisantro and- And the central.

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Yeah, and together we do.

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Oh yeah, that's good.

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That's delicious.

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Okay, so this new album.

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Uh-huh.

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Frequency of Love.

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Yes.

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You've been driving folks crazy with this one.

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Right.

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With the music videos, the choreo, the Eiffel Tower.

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I was like, girl.

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First of all, I said, somebody call Sean Bankhead right now.

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Cause we gonna need some easier choreo.

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You done got me throwing my whole knee out just trying to, ever.

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Well, you know what?

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I thought it was easy enough because, you know, in the second verse, we just walked.

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Yeah, you thought it was easy.

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For you, it is.

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That's my name.

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I got a whole brace.

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I took it off when you pulled up.

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But it's so cool, this frequency of love.

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It does feel like you're on a journey through different expressions of love from familial, romantic.

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The love of money.

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Hello.

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A little bit.

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Hello.

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Where did this come from for you?

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Where is this living for you?

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It was a reflection of what I was doing and experiencing while making the album.

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Okay.

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It seems like my story kind of starts from the Grammys on.

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Yep.

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Like for the three years after that.

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Yep.

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And after the Grammys, I was so excited and so happy, but also a totally new level of pressure came upon me.

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And I was also really busy and really stressed and spread very thin.

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So I had to do a lot of healing.

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All these different modalities that I was experiencing to get to that healing all the way from breath work to culinary school to Tai Chi, boxing, side quests that really helped my mental space.

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I'll never forget running into you and I was like, where are you going?

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She's like, I've got to get to.

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I was in class, I was in class, I was like, yeah, I gotta get this.

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I was like, this is unreal.

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So I'm so excited, I wanna dive more into the album.

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But we got some situations that might come up.

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And I wanna know if you're tuned in or if you're tuned out.

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Oh, I like this game.

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So you go first, guess who's first.

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Having full-size portraits of yourself at home.

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I'm tuned out.

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What?

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You don't have any of that from All Right?

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I just knew you would have that silver situation.

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Actually, to be honest, I have- Like blown up on a wall somewhere.

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It's not on a wall, but I had a release party for the All Right music video, and at that release party was a poster of, you know, a post from the music video.

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Someone gave it to me, but I believe it's in storage.

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I feel like- Okay, you even put it above your bed?

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No, no.

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It's not like right when you walk in, it's just like, this is Victoria's house.

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No, no, please, please.

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I would, it would really irritate me.

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But I do have Hazel.

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No, no, no.

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Oh, Hazel, of course, little baby girl.

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There's a painting by a really amazing black artist.

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It's like a Grammy portrait of her.

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So that now is upstairs.

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Hasn't even been hung up yet.

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It's like tilted against my wall.

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Listen, life sometimes will put you through it.

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It'll put you through it.

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Well, what do you think about it?

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I don't have really anything hung up yet.

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Okay.

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I'm still in the process.

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I got stuff sitting on the floor.

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Do you know what I mean?

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You saw the screening room.

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I got cores I'm still trying to hide.

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It's so beautiful.

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Oh, I love it.

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I appreciate that.

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But I'm curious to know what you think about artists who play their music, especially the get into the mood music in the bedroom.

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Would you ever put on a frequency of love, and you know what I'm saying?

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You getting into- Unfortunately.

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You know what I'm saying?

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I have put on a playlist before and I've come on that playlist.

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And I don't mean come on that playlist.

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I mean, I'm on the playlist.

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I want to be very clear.

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It was not that hot to me.

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So what do you do?

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You rush to change the song or what?

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I'm really, I'm like, it just becomes like a laughing moment.

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It's like, I can't even be serious.

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Yeah, I'm trying to focus.

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I honestly can't wait till this is over, but I don't want to reach for my phone and like ruin it.

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But I need to skip.

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I need to skip.

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Please, let's just pretend this never happened.

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I love it.

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What about you?

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What do you feel about that?

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I love it.

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If you had a friend that was like, oh, my music came on during, would you be like, that's dope, girl.

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I mean, if it's a good song, you know, it's a good song.

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You know what I'm saying?

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And you know, a little private performance, it's like, you know, I ain't no- Oh, you trying to get a show.

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I'm just saying nobody mad, you know, spin this, you know what I'm saying?

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Hey, you know what?

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Maybe I should look at it differently and just turn up right when my stuff comes on.

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Turn up.

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Be like, you know, as a matter of fact.

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I can be, speech out!

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You know what I'm saying?

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Honestly, there is a song on my album that has the potential to come on on a sex playlist.

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So here we go again.

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Did you say a song?

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Did you say there's a song?

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One song in particular is in mine.

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Well, one song sounds like maybe you was recording it in the bedroom.

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I said, how did you do this?

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How did you play?

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How do you go in the studio?

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We'll get into it.

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But I'm very curious, how you go in the studio?

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And you're like, yeah, so this is what I'm thinking.

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slide it.

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Yeah, run that back.

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You know, it's too good.

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Okay, let's see.

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People proposing on their partner's special day, like at a birthday or graduation.

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So like, it's your birthday, and I'm going to propose to you on your birthday.

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How do you feel about that?

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You tuned in and you tuned out.

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I'm like one foot in, one foot out, because I feel like on a birthday and on a special day, you can get me glammed up.

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Like I probably will be getting my nails done for that.

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I'll probably be getting dressed for that.

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Already my friends and family will be there, so I won't, it's easier to hide.

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But then also, I guess in retrospect, it's less of a surprise.

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Like if you just pulled it out of a random date and you still make sure that I look nice.

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Exactly.

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My thing is like you might have robbed me from my otherwise other special memory.

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Oh, you know what I mean?

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Like it's my graduation now.

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It's was listening.

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Let's say we don't make it now is the day you.

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Oh, so we're thinking long term like what it doesn't really happen.

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I get that.

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I just pick it every day.

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July 4th.

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I can't.

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It's someone else's day.

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Yeah.

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There's fireworks and everything already.

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Free.

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Oh, free.

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It's like we set it up.

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You know what I'm saying?

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That's smart.

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I get that.

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Tuned out.

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Tuned out.

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I'm tuned out on that.

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Letting your child sleep in your bed whenever they want.

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I'm so.

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You tuned in?

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I'm tuned in.

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Really?

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Yeah.

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I like to cuddle with Hazel.

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I can't help it.

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Really?

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Yeah, I mean also, I think it would be different if I was in a relationship.

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Well, that's what I was gonna ask.

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Especially like, you know, it's like, mom!

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It's like, uh, baby!

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Well, also, I think no one would be at my house while Hazel's at my house.

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Anyway, even if I was in a relationship, they're not coming over when she's home until maybe they propose.

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I know that's right.

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She doesn't need to be exposed to any of the mistakes, if you will.

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Right.

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And also, like, the process.

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Yeah.

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Until we know, like, this is what it is.

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Right.

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Has that been the example for friends who have kids?

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Like, help me understand how you reached that conclusion of, like, this is how I want to approach, you know, my relationship with my daughter.

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I think it's just a respect thing.

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I also, growing up, my mother was single, and just being so obsessed with my mom, if she was dating anyone, I was the kid that was gonna, I was really sweet, but also low-key like, I don't want Peyton.

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So I just want to save all of that until we're sure so it can just be one person and that's it.

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Right.

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You know, but the process, no, no.

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I would love for her to just be oblivious.

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I hear that.

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She's just like, I have two homes.

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That's what she thinks it is.

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Here's what I'll say about that I don't have any kids.

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Yeah.

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Right?

258
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What about the dog?

259
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I got dogs.

260
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Yeah.

261
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Them motherfuckers can't get in the bed.

262
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Right.

263
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Nah, nah, they too big.

264
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Right.

265
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Too big, and I've seen what they do in this yard.

266
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Yeah, do they shed too?

267
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And they shed.

268
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Yeah.

269
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One is like 100 pounds.

270
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Oh, shoot.

271
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And one is like 70 pounds.

272
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Okay.

273
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And like I've seen what they do in this yard.

274
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There is no way.

275
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And dig up your bed.

276
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Yeah, I mean, they all wake up so mad.

277
00:09:01.197 --> 00:09:02.158
You know what I mean?

278
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And hairy.

279
00:09:02.939 --> 00:09:04.900
Yeah.

280
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Hair everywhere.

281
00:09:05.961 --> 00:09:08.063
Ooh, okay, chef, this is interesting.

282
00:09:08.751 --> 00:09:12.674
refusing to cook unhealthy family recipes for the holiday gathering.

283
00:09:13.035 --> 00:09:14.336
So like, I'm gonna be honest with you.

284
00:09:14.536 --> 00:09:17.899
There's a chitlin recipes, recipes we get close to the holidays.

285
00:09:18.579 --> 00:09:20.201
Chitlin recipe that runs in our family.

286
00:09:20.581 --> 00:09:22.803
You will never find it at my holiday gathering.

287
00:09:23.183 --> 00:09:24.845
I'm just not gonna do it.

288
00:09:24.865 --> 00:09:25.325
I kid it.

289
00:09:25.465 --> 00:09:28.788
I feel like you'd have to cook that in a separate house because of the smell.

290
00:09:29.108 --> 00:09:29.348
Yes.

291
00:09:30.049 --> 00:09:31.391
And just the appearance.

292
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I don't even want to look at it.

293
00:09:32.733 --> 00:09:33.554
I don't know what they look like.

294
00:09:33.574 --> 00:09:34.315
I never got there.

295
00:09:34.455 --> 00:09:34.695
Oh.

296
00:09:34.916 --> 00:09:36.438
Oh, I can smell it right now.

297
00:09:36.498 --> 00:09:39.241
I smelled it when I was really young at a friend's house.

298
00:09:39.501 --> 00:09:44.007
My family didn't really cook chitlins as far as I know, but I smelled it as a friend's house.

299
00:09:44.027 --> 00:09:46.210
I was like, your mom, I think she's sick.

300
00:09:47.191 --> 00:09:48.673
I smell shit.

301
00:09:48.713 --> 00:09:49.474
Like, literally.

302
00:09:49.554 --> 00:09:51.095
It's not you or me, but I think it's...

303
00:09:51.115 --> 00:09:52.777
But I think there's some shit in the kitchen.

304
00:09:52.797 --> 00:09:53.758
Yeah, truly.

305
00:09:53.778 --> 00:09:54.819
I don't know if I'm eating none of this.

306
00:09:54.839 --> 00:09:55.220
No, seriously.

307
00:09:55.780 --> 00:09:56.521
Seriously, I have to go.

308
00:09:56.541 --> 00:09:58.163
I'm going to call my mom.

309
00:09:58.223 --> 00:09:58.383
Right.

310
00:09:58.403 --> 00:09:59.404
Get Taco Bell on the way home.

311
00:09:59.424 --> 00:10:01.166
Seriously, so I never even looked at it.

312
00:10:01.266 --> 00:10:02.828
I just know chitlins is shitlins.

313
00:10:03.208 --> 00:10:05.050
Yes, and that's why they're not at my house.

314
00:10:05.050 --> 00:10:05.450
All right.

315
00:10:05.671 --> 00:10:07.092
I'm tuned out to that as well.

316
00:10:07.132 --> 00:10:07.512
Yeah.

317
00:10:07.833 --> 00:10:15.840
You know, I just, and I know that people like there's a different ways to make the sweet potato casserole, like mashed or not mashed with the butter and the whiskey.

318
00:10:15.880 --> 00:10:17.822
I do put whiskey in mine with maple syrup.

319
00:10:18.302 --> 00:10:19.584
Oh, that sounds fun.

320
00:10:19.624 --> 00:10:21.425
Yeah, but I'm going to do that, but I'm not doing chitlins.

321
00:10:21.686 --> 00:10:25.329
Yeah, I think it's maybe not a healthy, unhealthy thing for us.

322
00:10:25.429 --> 00:10:27.591
It's like a taste good or doesn't taste good thing.

323
00:10:27.791 --> 00:10:27.992
Yeah.

324
00:10:28.392 --> 00:10:28.852
And that?

325
00:10:29.293 --> 00:10:29.453
Nah.

326
00:10:30.150 --> 00:10:31.150
I'm glad we agree.

327
00:10:31.210 --> 00:10:31.530
I'm good.

328
00:10:31.550 --> 00:10:32.331
See you on Thanksgiving.

329
00:10:32.351 --> 00:10:33.271
You know what I'm saying?

330
00:10:33.371 --> 00:10:34.691
Are you gonna cook this year?

331
00:10:34.791 --> 00:10:35.852
Or do you cook for Thanksgiving?

332
00:10:35.872 --> 00:10:36.532
I'll be on tour.

333
00:10:37.132 --> 00:10:37.993
On Thanksgiving?

334
00:10:38.333 --> 00:10:39.313
Yes, I know.

335
00:10:39.713 --> 00:10:40.173
I know.

336
00:10:40.813 --> 00:10:45.095
The day, the one Thanksgiving, I'm a chef and a culinary graduate.

337
00:10:45.275 --> 00:10:48.456
I'll be singing on the stage, which makes sense, but also,

338
00:10:49.421 --> 00:10:49.741
You know?

339
00:10:49.921 --> 00:10:51.262
You know, I do, I get it though.

340
00:10:51.382 --> 00:10:53.222
On the road, how will you celebrate the holiday?

341
00:10:53.242 --> 00:10:54.643
Or is it an important holiday at your house?

342
00:10:54.763 --> 00:10:56.043
It is an important holiday.

343
00:10:56.244 --> 00:11:00.025
I usually am between either going home for it or having everyone at my house.

344
00:11:00.065 --> 00:11:03.446
And I've also had lots of Friendsgivings where people bring their own things.

345
00:11:03.466 --> 00:11:06.167
And then I've done it where there's a chef there.

346
00:11:06.527 --> 00:11:09.268
So it's been really, really small and then also really grand.

347
00:11:09.969 --> 00:11:12.530
On tour, I don't know, I want everyone to feel at home.

348
00:11:12.550 --> 00:11:15.891
So I'm gonna probably try to make something, but we're on a bus.

349
00:11:15.911 --> 00:11:18.612
So there's like two stove heads and it's like,

350
00:11:19.212 --> 00:11:20.013
I'm gonna try it.

351
00:11:20.073 --> 00:11:20.873
Like, what can I make?

352
00:11:20.933 --> 00:11:21.674
I'm not mad at you.

353
00:11:21.794 --> 00:11:22.674
The hustle is real.

354
00:11:22.714 --> 00:11:22.894
Yeah.

355
00:11:22.914 --> 00:11:23.635
You know what I'm saying?

356
00:11:23.655 --> 00:11:24.936
We're gonna figure something out.

357
00:11:25.016 --> 00:11:25.456
Something.

358
00:11:25.476 --> 00:11:26.997
At least some sweet Monet cookies.

359
00:11:27.277 --> 00:11:28.058
The cookies, though.

360
00:11:28.078 --> 00:11:28.438
The cookies.

361
00:11:28.538 --> 00:11:31.100
Now, I have heard that your cookies, the cookies are famous.

362
00:11:33.368 --> 00:11:34.289
Is it a chocolate chip?

363
00:11:34.329 --> 00:11:34.849
Is it an oatmeal?

364
00:11:34.869 --> 00:11:35.349
What do you do?

365
00:11:35.369 --> 00:11:35.850
What's the one?

366
00:11:35.870 --> 00:11:36.570
It's a chocolate chip.

367
00:11:36.690 --> 00:11:41.473
My base recipe is a chocolate chip, but I've also taken that same recipe and added oatmeal to it.

368
00:11:41.493 --> 00:11:43.013
I don't really like oatmeal raisin.

369
00:11:43.414 --> 00:11:43.614
Right.

370
00:11:43.914 --> 00:11:46.235
So it's without the raisins, it's just oatmeal chocolate chip.

371
00:11:46.315 --> 00:11:49.477
I've also made a fruity pebble white chocolate chip.

372
00:11:49.537 --> 00:11:50.797
I've made brown butter cookies.

373
00:11:50.877 --> 00:11:53.399
I've made vegan gluten-free cookies.

374
00:11:53.419 --> 00:11:53.679
Skip.

375
00:11:56.000 --> 00:11:56.280
Skip.

376
00:11:56.460 --> 00:11:57.701
On the playlist, skip, skip, skip.

377
00:11:57.741 --> 00:11:58.261
Skip, skip, skip.

378
00:11:58.281 --> 00:11:59.001
Mid, mid, mid, skip, skip.

379
00:11:59.022 --> 00:11:59.802
Yeah, mid, skip.

380
00:12:00.202 --> 00:12:01.623
Who has had a good vegan cookie?

381
00:12:02.175 --> 00:12:04.239
Molly tell them.

382
00:12:04.539 --> 00:12:05.140
She worked for you.

383
00:12:05.160 --> 00:12:05.641
She got it.

384
00:12:05.661 --> 00:12:06.423
No, but she's vegan.

385
00:12:06.663 --> 00:12:07.384
Like real vegan?

386
00:12:07.625 --> 00:12:08.506
She's a real vegan.

387
00:12:08.527 --> 00:12:08.907
She does not.

388
00:12:08.927 --> 00:12:10.851
Damn, I'm so sorry.

389
00:12:10.871 --> 00:12:11.852
Thank you for your service.

390
00:12:12.820 --> 00:12:16.163
But that's, I apologize, cause man, hoo wee.

391
00:12:16.403 --> 00:12:19.725
Well there can be good things because, you know, sugar's vegan.

392
00:12:19.845 --> 00:12:20.085
Yes.

393
00:12:20.105 --> 00:12:25.710
So like, they can still be sweet, and there's lots of chocolate chip brands that actually taste, you may not know.

394
00:12:26.130 --> 00:12:31.674
And also, I'm not gonna lie, Trader Joe's chocolate chip cookies, and those are vegan, are really good.

395
00:12:32.134 --> 00:12:32.875
Have you had them?

396
00:12:32.915 --> 00:12:33.635
No, it's vegan.

397
00:12:34.676 --> 00:12:35.797
I'm gonna bring it to you, I'm gonna bring it to you.

398
00:12:35.817 --> 00:12:38.299
It's oatmeal chocolate chip as well, and it's actually, I like it.

399
00:12:38.319 --> 00:12:39.640
I don't know.

400
00:12:41.835 --> 00:12:42.815
One little.

401
00:12:43.235 --> 00:12:46.396
Creating a FENSTA account to say your piece anonymously.

402
00:12:46.656 --> 00:12:48.017
You tuned in or you tuned out?

403
00:12:48.257 --> 00:12:48.957
I'm tuned out.

404
00:12:49.277 --> 00:12:49.557
What?

405
00:12:50.217 --> 00:12:50.998
Yeah, say it with your chest.

406
00:12:51.018 --> 00:12:52.718
Because you're going to do it on your profile.

407
00:12:52.738 --> 00:12:54.079
Yeah, I'm doing it on my face.

408
00:12:54.119 --> 00:12:55.539
You're doing it on my face.

409
00:12:55.659 --> 00:13:04.022
I've actually seen you not necessarily gather people, but folks get gathered as a result of you coming back into the comments like, excuse me, hey, I'm here.

410
00:13:04.142 --> 00:13:04.342
Yeah.

411
00:13:04.362 --> 00:13:05.202
What was that one more time?

412
00:13:05.362 --> 00:13:08.923
Yeah, I really do try my best not to do that, but sometimes it just.

413
00:13:09.343 --> 00:13:09.903
Right there!

414
00:13:09.923 --> 00:13:11.084
You know what I mean?

415
00:13:11.104 --> 00:13:12.644
They probably feel the same way about their comments.

416
00:13:12.664 --> 00:13:18.106
So the only issue I have with negative comments is the way in which things are said.

417
00:13:18.166 --> 00:13:24.688
You can always say what you want and I can respect your opinion and your criticism and all that, but don't be calling me no raggedy ass.

418
00:13:24.848 --> 00:13:25.788
You know what I'm saying?

419
00:13:25.808 --> 00:13:26.268
The way.

420
00:13:26.368 --> 00:13:28.789
And it's also like the authority.

421
00:13:29.009 --> 00:13:31.130
Your opinion, maybe you do that on your page.

422
00:13:31.508 --> 00:13:31.948
Yeah.

423
00:13:32.168 --> 00:13:33.709
Do that on your page.

424
00:13:33.869 --> 00:13:41.251
Yeah, I mean, also sometimes another way I feel is like, when you're, it's coming from another black person, it's like, this is a black business here.

425
00:13:41.291 --> 00:13:41.891
You know what I'm saying?

426
00:13:41.911 --> 00:13:42.551
You know what I'm saying?

427
00:13:42.932 --> 00:13:44.232
Just tell your friend your opinion.

428
00:13:44.292 --> 00:13:44.432
Yeah!

429
00:13:44.452 --> 00:13:46.112
Why do you have to say it here?

430
00:13:46.193 --> 00:13:46.533
Here?

431
00:13:46.553 --> 00:13:47.793
Like right here?

432
00:13:47.813 --> 00:13:48.413
Here?

433
00:13:48.453 --> 00:13:50.514
And then also like, I'm gonna see you at the show?

434
00:13:51.254 --> 00:13:52.514
So say it to my face.

435
00:13:52.574 --> 00:13:53.415
Say it to my face.

436
00:13:53.675 --> 00:13:54.155
If you can.

437
00:13:54.215 --> 00:13:57.356
You would never, you would never say it to my, I don't know.

438
00:13:57.376 --> 00:14:04.938
There's something about what's happening online lately that it, I don't know if it's ramping up or what, but I'm being much more affected by it.

439
00:14:05.078 --> 00:14:05.358
Yeah.

440
00:14:05.398 --> 00:14:14.641
And I have considered creating the Finsta to like, like, why would you even, I understand, you know, especially after I saw what they say, Channing Tatum might've created a Finsta account.

441
00:14:15.001 --> 00:14:15.401
Oh, he did.

442
00:14:15.581 --> 00:14:19.022
They might've detected that it's Channing Tatum out here clapping back.

443
00:14:19.262 --> 00:14:20.002
That's the other thing.

444
00:14:20.043 --> 00:14:20.663
It's detectable.

445
00:14:20.683 --> 00:14:21.343
And firing up.

446
00:14:22.004 --> 00:14:23.585
Now it's like AI is going to tell on us.

447
00:14:24.025 --> 00:14:24.505
Right.

448
00:14:24.525 --> 00:14:25.766
Like that's actually your account.

449
00:14:25.786 --> 00:14:26.426
You know there's her.

450
00:14:26.487 --> 00:14:27.567
You know there's her right there.

451
00:14:27.587 --> 00:14:27.927
I forgot.

452
00:14:28.108 --> 00:14:29.248
Busted.

453
00:14:29.368 --> 00:14:30.309
Busted and in trouble.

454
00:14:30.689 --> 00:14:34.291
Having a work husband or work wife while you're in a relationship.

455
00:14:34.492 --> 00:14:34.772
You know.

456
00:14:34.932 --> 00:14:35.332
Tuned out.

457
00:14:35.512 --> 00:14:36.833
I'm sorry I can't let you finish.

458
00:14:36.873 --> 00:14:37.313
Tuned out.

459
00:14:37.473 --> 00:14:40.335
And then be like to your partner, oh, this is my work wife.

460
00:14:41.076 --> 00:14:41.476
What?

461
00:14:42.560 --> 00:14:43.521
Oh, that's my work husband.

462
00:14:43.842 --> 00:14:45.123
I'm sorry, who?

463
00:14:45.483 --> 00:14:47.446
Guess you're not going to work anymore.

464
00:14:47.746 --> 00:14:48.287
You're done.

465
00:14:48.587 --> 00:14:51.150
Yeah, or you're gonna live at work, cause we're done.

466
00:14:51.430 --> 00:14:51.931
Exactly.

467
00:14:52.251 --> 00:14:57.538
I don't know, it always seems so like the precursor to bigger problems.

468
00:14:57.987 --> 00:14:59.128
That is the big problem.

469
00:14:59.148 --> 00:14:59.868
You know what I'm saying?

470
00:15:00.008 --> 00:15:00.789
What do you mean?

471
00:15:00.869 --> 00:15:03.190
How could the leave your lips or the what?

472
00:15:03.830 --> 00:15:06.712
Okay, what do you say we start the sauce?

473
00:15:06.912 --> 00:15:08.073
Okay, let's get saucy.

474
00:15:08.393 --> 00:15:12.235
So now this is a recipe from your saucy sundaes.

475
00:15:12.315 --> 00:15:12.695
Okay.

476
00:15:12.955 --> 00:15:14.416
Your everything cilantro sauce.

477
00:15:14.456 --> 00:15:14.776
Okay.

478
00:15:14.856 --> 00:15:17.958
So we've got mayonnaise, we've got jalapeno.

479
00:15:17.978 --> 00:15:18.759
Not vegan, thanks.

480
00:15:18.959 --> 00:15:20.279
It's not vegan mayonnaise.

481
00:15:20.480 --> 00:15:21.300
So it's gonna be good.

482
00:15:22.120 --> 00:15:24.162
I'm just saying, I will tell you how it tastes.

483
00:15:25.002 --> 00:15:31.303
Okay, so we've got mayonnaise, we've got cilantro, we've got jalapeno garlic lime juice salt, right?

484
00:15:31.444 --> 00:15:31.724
Uh-huh.

485
00:15:31.744 --> 00:15:33.324
So let's just throw it all in the blender and let's blend it up.

486
00:15:33.564 --> 00:15:34.364
Okay, let me wash my hands.

487
00:15:34.524 --> 00:15:35.665
Okay, same.

488
00:15:35.945 --> 00:15:37.085
First order of business.

489
00:15:37.725 --> 00:15:38.705
She said I did go to school.

490
00:15:39.145 --> 00:15:40.266
Food safety first.

491
00:15:40.366 --> 00:15:41.186
Right?

492
00:15:41.326 --> 00:15:41.946
What goes first?

493
00:15:42.366 --> 00:15:46.407
You can do anything first because hopefully the blender will... Do its magic?

494
00:15:46.427 --> 00:15:47.427
Do its job, yeah.

495
00:15:47.927 --> 00:15:49.808
Actually, I'm gonna go with mayonnaise first.

496
00:15:49.848 --> 00:15:50.028
Okay.

497
00:15:50.248 --> 00:15:51.148
Get that in there.

498
00:15:52.288 --> 00:15:53.289
I'm so excited.

499
00:15:53.329 --> 00:15:53.709
Same.

500
00:15:53.769 --> 00:15:54.669
Taste the sauce.

501
00:15:54.969 --> 00:15:57.950
I remember when you were telling me you were in class, I was like, you have to come to the house and cook.

502
00:15:57.970 --> 00:15:59.371
And you were like, can we?

503
00:15:59.411 --> 00:16:00.592
Please, here we are.

504
00:16:00.752 --> 00:16:01.832
Talk about the sauce though.

505
00:16:01.852 --> 00:16:05.314
Like why would you, why did you want to do sauces instead of like, I don't know, anything else?

506
00:16:05.334 --> 00:16:05.874
Anything else?

507
00:16:06.074 --> 00:16:11.416
Honestly, I feel like sauces make up a large majority of what tastes good in recipes.

508
00:16:11.437 --> 00:16:12.317
Like when you think about,

509
00:16:12.737 --> 00:16:18.019
pastas, when you think about dipping, like even just fries are made even better depending on what sauce.

510
00:16:18.420 --> 00:16:33.206
A burger, like so many different foods, the curry sauces, and there's mother sauces in culinary that they have a base and then they expand it to all these other different recipes, so it seemed really quick and easy to do for people to follow the recipes and just jazz up whatever.

511
00:16:33.226 --> 00:16:33.746
How they want to.

512
00:16:33.806 --> 00:16:34.246
Yeah.

513
00:16:34.306 --> 00:16:35.167
So that's the garlic.

514
00:16:35.447 --> 00:16:36.307
What's your favorite sauce?

515
00:16:36.707 --> 00:16:38.228
I do love a hot sauce.

516
00:16:38.408 --> 00:16:38.748
Okay.

517
00:16:38.768 --> 00:16:41.029
So anything with some heat, some spice, some kick.

518
00:16:41.269 --> 00:16:42.190
Have you had Frank's Red Hot?

519
00:16:43.010 --> 00:16:44.171
Well, not Frank Turner, I'm tripping.

520
00:16:44.611 --> 00:16:45.992
Hot Honey, Mike's Hot Honey.

521
00:16:46.072 --> 00:16:46.373
Yes.

522
00:16:46.433 --> 00:16:49.835
It's always a guy's name and then hot and then- So you gonna change it?

523
00:16:49.955 --> 00:16:51.256
Yes, Victoria's Hot Honey.

524
00:16:51.436 --> 00:16:52.256
I know, that's right.

525
00:16:52.997 --> 00:16:53.937
Reach out.

526
00:16:54.258 --> 00:16:54.478
Woo!

527
00:16:55.018 --> 00:16:56.199
So sweet.

528
00:16:56.219 --> 00:16:58.280
Yes, coffee sundae, let's go.

529
00:16:58.520 --> 00:16:58.761
Okay.

530
00:16:58.781 --> 00:16:59.961
So that's the cilantro.

531
00:17:00.001 --> 00:17:00.902
Yes, lots of cilantro.

532
00:17:00.942 --> 00:17:03.964
Now wait, are you one of those people with cilantro that it tastes like soap?

533
00:17:04.511 --> 00:17:05.551
No, my grandpa is.

534
00:17:06.111 --> 00:17:06.411
Dang.

535
00:17:06.451 --> 00:17:07.152
My grandpa's one of them.

536
00:17:07.172 --> 00:17:10.312
Well, you know they say like three to 21% of people have that.

537
00:17:10.432 --> 00:17:10.792
Yeah.

538
00:17:11.212 --> 00:17:13.093
So that's why I was like, Sorry to that man.

539
00:17:13.313 --> 00:17:17.174
My solution to that is you can use any other greens.

540
00:17:17.194 --> 00:17:20.374
You can use parsley if you like parsley with it, other herbs.

541
00:17:20.434 --> 00:17:23.635
You can even make this with the same amount of red pepper.

542
00:17:23.695 --> 00:17:26.595
Like if you want to make, you can kind of Like basil.

543
00:17:26.715 --> 00:17:27.756
You can use basil.

544
00:17:27.796 --> 00:17:28.176
Yeah.

545
00:17:28.236 --> 00:17:28.956
Different herbs.

546
00:17:29.876 --> 00:17:31.917
Does cilantro taste like soap to y'all?

547
00:17:32.317 --> 00:17:35.559
I honestly did not realize how many folks were actually dealing with that.

548
00:17:35.699 --> 00:17:42.122
But since we're learning things here, let's see how much y'all actually know in our little trivia game we're calling neighbor's best guess.

549
00:17:42.242 --> 00:17:46.805
I'm gonna give you five seconds per question and you keep score and no cheating.

550
00:17:46.925 --> 00:17:47.565
I've got Yahoo!

551
00:17:47.585 --> 00:17:48.906
Scout right here ready with the answers.

552
00:17:49.126 --> 00:17:53.208
Which was invented first, the microwave or the television?

553
00:17:59.328 --> 00:18:02.511
That's time, and the answer is the television.

554
00:18:02.812 --> 00:18:03.733
Who said microwave?

555
00:18:04.053 --> 00:18:04.894
Okay, question number two.

556
00:18:05.735 --> 00:18:08.718
What food is stolen most often around the world?

557
00:18:15.124 --> 00:18:15.985
Okay, that's time.

558
00:18:16.686 --> 00:18:17.146
And Yahoo!

559
00:18:17.166 --> 00:18:19.028
Scout says cheese.

560
00:18:19.781 --> 00:18:22.023
Apparently it has a very high resale value.

561
00:18:22.303 --> 00:18:23.684
Who are you reselling cheese?

562
00:18:23.785 --> 00:18:24.385
That's crazy.

563
00:18:24.545 --> 00:18:25.466
Question number three.

564
00:18:26.007 --> 00:18:29.630
What is the only letter that doesn't appear in the name of any US state?

565
00:18:29.990 --> 00:18:30.531
Five seconds.

566
00:18:33.974 --> 00:18:35.415
Uh huh, uh huh, uh huh.

567
00:18:36.956 --> 00:18:37.517
That's time.

568
00:18:37.957 --> 00:18:39.699
The answer is Q.

569
00:18:40.199 --> 00:18:40.760
What do you know?

570
00:18:41.412 --> 00:18:43.675
I mean, how many of y'all actually know all 50 states anyway?

571
00:18:43.895 --> 00:18:45.157
I'm just saying, I'm just saying.

572
00:18:45.277 --> 00:18:46.178
Okay, question number four.

573
00:18:47.159 --> 00:18:50.403
Which has more bones, a baby or an adult?

574
00:18:51.444 --> 00:18:52.265
The moms probably know this one.

575
00:18:52.285 --> 00:18:56.631
This one.

576
00:18:56.651 --> 00:18:57.432
All right, pencils down.

577
00:18:58.012 --> 00:18:59.895
The answer is a baby.

578
00:19:00.534 --> 00:19:02.736
Babies are born with around 270 bones.

579
00:19:03.056 --> 00:19:05.058
Why do babies have more bones than adults?

580
00:19:05.078 --> 00:19:05.719
Let me look that up.

581
00:19:05.879 --> 00:19:11.685
Yahoo Scout says, many smaller infant bones and cartilage pieces fuse together as a person grows.

582
00:19:12.405 --> 00:19:13.867
Huh, well, the more you know.

583
00:19:13.887 --> 00:19:15.288
All right, neighbors, so how did you do?

584
00:19:15.688 --> 00:19:18.251
Drop your score in the comments and be honest.

585
00:19:19.492 --> 00:19:23.416
Thanks to Yahoo Scout for our little trivia break and try it for yourself at scout.com.

586
00:19:23.920 --> 00:19:26.121
I'm gonna go easy on the jalapeno at first.

587
00:19:26.561 --> 00:19:26.841
Okay.

588
00:19:26.901 --> 00:19:27.382
What do you think?

589
00:19:28.142 --> 00:19:28.922
Just dump it in?

590
00:19:28.942 --> 00:19:30.403
You could put two, three more jalapenos in there.

591
00:19:30.443 --> 00:19:31.183
Let me just, you know what?

592
00:19:31.203 --> 00:19:31.764
Let's go for it.

593
00:19:31.784 --> 00:19:32.764
Shall we go for it?

594
00:19:32.804 --> 00:19:33.545
Shall we go for it?

595
00:19:33.665 --> 00:19:34.305
Yes.

596
00:19:34.505 --> 00:19:38.487
Okay, and I'm gonna go ahead and preliminary put salt, but let's go here first.

597
00:19:38.667 --> 00:19:39.107
Okay.

598
00:19:39.287 --> 00:19:39.587
Great.

599
00:19:40.088 --> 00:19:44.210
Now, I've never used this like a processor, so it's gonna be a surprise to the both of us how this works out.

600
00:19:44.230 --> 00:19:45.050
Okay, let's be shocked.

601
00:19:45.530 --> 00:19:46.050
Okay, let's see.

602
00:19:46.090 --> 00:19:46.211
Mm.

603
00:19:46.231 --> 00:19:46.311
Mm.

604
00:19:49.072 --> 00:19:49.492
Yeah.

605
00:19:49.512 --> 00:19:49.572
Mm.

606
00:19:51.942 --> 00:19:52.903
Okay, okay, okay.

607
00:19:53.043 --> 00:19:53.843
I'm gonna put it on high.

608
00:19:55.704 --> 00:19:56.965
Oh, we about to eat good.

609
00:19:59.006 --> 00:20:00.087
All in the thick of the ribs.

610
00:20:00.907 --> 00:20:01.988
All in the thick of the ribs.

611
00:20:03.229 --> 00:20:04.169
I'm gonna stop it.

612
00:20:04.189 --> 00:20:05.770
Put it in and scrape down a little bit.

613
00:20:05.850 --> 00:20:06.111
Okay.

614
00:20:08.032 --> 00:20:08.812
Okay, okay.

615
00:20:09.152 --> 00:20:10.173
You know what I think we should do?

616
00:20:10.573 --> 00:20:10.713
What?

617
00:20:10.733 --> 00:20:11.874
As soon as we put this back?

618
00:20:12.054 --> 00:20:12.434
Have a drink.

619
00:20:12.775 --> 00:20:13.755
You know, listen.

620
00:20:14.396 --> 00:20:15.216
There we go.

621
00:20:15.276 --> 00:20:16.277
Okay, I'm going back to high.

622
00:20:31.102 --> 00:20:31.843
Oh, shoot.

623
00:20:31.963 --> 00:20:32.963
Let's see what we got.

624
00:20:33.164 --> 00:20:34.344
I'm scraping down again.

625
00:20:34.364 --> 00:20:35.845
Chef said we're going to get this right.

626
00:20:36.306 --> 00:20:37.306
Yeah, we got to.

627
00:20:37.426 --> 00:20:38.047
Oh my god.

628
00:20:38.407 --> 00:20:40.028
I used to have to say that in school.

629
00:20:40.128 --> 00:20:40.448
Did you?

630
00:20:40.728 --> 00:20:41.249
Yes, Chef.

631
00:20:41.309 --> 00:20:41.749
Behind.

632
00:20:41.949 --> 00:20:42.309
Corner.

633
00:20:42.489 --> 00:20:45.111
I find myself doing that type of stuff in like grocery store.

634
00:20:45.131 --> 00:20:45.932
I'm like, oh my god.

635
00:20:45.992 --> 00:20:46.232
See?

636
00:20:46.412 --> 00:20:46.892
Behind.

637
00:20:47.132 --> 00:20:48.233
You doing your own grocery shopping?

638
00:20:48.253 --> 00:20:48.773
Yeah.

639
00:20:48.794 --> 00:20:49.254
What you mean?

640
00:20:49.274 --> 00:20:49.854
Sometimes.

641
00:20:50.294 --> 00:20:52.236
When I don't, and when it's not on Instacart.

642
00:20:53.577 --> 00:20:54.577
No, that's a wrap.

643
00:20:54.657 --> 00:20:57.899
Or like, farmer's market is more my speed than a grocery store.

644
00:20:58.019 --> 00:20:58.900
Now what about Hazel?

645
00:20:58.960 --> 00:21:01.221
Is she joining you in like food prep?

646
00:21:01.502 --> 00:21:02.902
She actually really loves to do that.

647
00:21:03.323 --> 00:21:04.724
And she comes to the farmer's market with me.

648
00:21:04.744 --> 00:21:05.544
We have a tradition.

649
00:21:05.624 --> 00:21:08.106
I can't say where, because I'm about to bust my location.

650
00:21:08.166 --> 00:21:12.308
But we go every, like once a week when I'm not working to the farmer's market.

651
00:21:12.669 --> 00:21:15.370
Then there's like an activity across the street that we do.

652
00:21:15.991 --> 00:21:16.271
Aw, sweet.

653
00:21:16.291 --> 00:21:17.271
Boats and stuff.

654
00:21:17.712 --> 00:21:19.213
I'm gonna do this one more time.

655
00:21:19.253 --> 00:21:21.054
Okay, chef said I want it creamy.

656
00:21:21.574 --> 00:21:24.738
When you blend it, there's less of a chance of it like getting stuck in your teeth.

657
00:21:25.118 --> 00:21:30.484
You know when you're like talking to someone, you have a whole dinner and you're like, you didn't want to tell me.

658
00:21:30.504 --> 00:21:31.225
Nobody told me.

659
00:21:31.285 --> 00:21:32.426
I had a green tooth.

660
00:21:32.466 --> 00:21:34.068
So y'all just don't love me actually.

661
00:21:34.188 --> 00:21:34.709
You don't care.

662
00:21:34.729 --> 00:21:35.470
And you posted a picture.

663
00:21:35.530 --> 00:21:36.551
Why I look crazy.

664
00:21:36.611 --> 00:21:37.212
Crazy work.

665
00:21:37.752 --> 00:21:38.273
Here we go.

666
00:21:38.914 --> 00:21:39.795
We can use this little.

667
00:21:41.022 --> 00:21:41.982
Oh yeah, the little spigot.

668
00:21:42.142 --> 00:21:42.563
Yeah.

669
00:21:42.783 --> 00:21:45.764
This is going to go great with our shrimp tacos.

670
00:21:45.864 --> 00:21:46.904
Ooh, absolutely.

671
00:21:46.964 --> 00:21:50.466
When you have a sauce for tacos, are you like a dipper or you like to put it on the top?

672
00:21:50.726 --> 00:21:51.206
I'm a dipper.

673
00:21:51.446 --> 00:21:51.686
Yeah?

674
00:21:52.066 --> 00:21:54.247
Because I like to control sauce.

675
00:21:54.647 --> 00:21:56.848
I'm not like a sauce on the side.

676
00:21:57.669 --> 00:21:58.209
I understand.

677
00:21:58.289 --> 00:22:00.130
Yeah, like even ketchup and stuff on a burger.

678
00:22:00.150 --> 00:22:01.850
If you take it to the side, I'll do it.

679
00:22:01.950 --> 00:22:02.310
Oh really?

680
00:22:02.330 --> 00:22:03.011
You dip your burger?

681
00:22:03.311 --> 00:22:03.511
Yeah.

682
00:22:03.831 --> 00:22:05.172
I probably have cilantro in my teeth right now.

683
00:22:05.192 --> 00:22:05.792
Are you going to tell me?

684
00:22:06.512 --> 00:22:06.692
Nope.

685
00:22:07.113 --> 00:22:07.333
Great.

686
00:22:07.453 --> 00:22:07.953
I will tell you.

687
00:22:08.074 --> 00:22:10.055
Okay, good.

688
00:22:10.536 --> 00:22:11.477
We'll do it live.

689
00:22:11.617 --> 00:22:17.542
But you know when you're like biting a burger, you have to have the right shape.

690
00:22:17.562 --> 00:22:23.027
Like you have to bite two times to make the perfect dip because it's probably like too wide for the container or is that just me?

691
00:22:23.047 --> 00:22:24.168
Okay, so you have OCD?

692
00:22:25.144 --> 00:22:26.486
I might, I might.

693
00:22:26.626 --> 00:22:28.829
I have self diagnosed myself with so many things.

694
00:22:28.849 --> 00:22:36.057
You said because I can't dip the bird, I gotta take a couple bites before I can dip the- To make the right dipping shape, like a- No, I'll smear a smear, you know what I mean?

695
00:22:36.077 --> 00:22:37.619
Right, right, okay, okay, I might.

696
00:22:37.659 --> 00:22:38.920
My OCD shows up in different places.

697
00:22:39.001 --> 00:22:39.481
Okay.

698
00:22:39.521 --> 00:22:40.803
Dips is not the one.

699
00:22:41.083 --> 00:22:41.223
Fair.

700
00:22:41.263 --> 00:22:42.344
You pull the next card.

701
00:22:42.384 --> 00:22:42.725
Okay.

702
00:22:43.866 --> 00:22:44.727
Sorry, sorry.

703
00:22:47.890 --> 00:22:48.550
I love this.

704
00:22:48.850 --> 00:22:52.473
I don't know if this is, I think this is like mom energy right happening right now.

705
00:22:52.533 --> 00:22:56.537
Maybe OCD mom, chef, all the things.

706
00:22:56.597 --> 00:22:57.177
I don't know.

707
00:22:57.297 --> 00:22:57.498
Okay.

708
00:22:57.518 --> 00:22:57.998
We gotta clean it up.

709
00:22:58.018 --> 00:22:58.598
We gotta clean it up.

710
00:22:58.618 --> 00:22:59.439
We gotta, gotta, gotta.

711
00:22:59.459 --> 00:23:00.500
I hope it's alright.

712
00:23:00.640 --> 00:23:01.261
Wrong drawer.

713
00:23:01.801 --> 00:23:02.741
Okay, you pull the next one.

714
00:23:02.942 --> 00:23:07.223
Okay, expecting friends to not talk to the people you don't like.

715
00:23:07.564 --> 00:23:13.286
Ooh, yeah, because like, you know, friends will be like, they'll have something that has gone down between you and another person.

716
00:23:13.426 --> 00:23:13.646
Yeah.

717
00:23:13.686 --> 00:23:15.107
And then friends still talk to that person.

718
00:23:15.127 --> 00:23:16.427
You're like, are we friends?

719
00:23:16.447 --> 00:23:18.328
Because if we friends, how are you friends with them?

720
00:23:18.628 --> 00:23:20.869
It does make you question what y'all are talking about.

721
00:23:21.850 --> 00:23:22.190
Right?

722
00:23:22.350 --> 00:23:26.912
But I don't like to be controlling over people's situations.

723
00:23:27.092 --> 00:23:27.812
preferences.

724
00:23:28.213 --> 00:23:29.093
I just have to trust.

725
00:23:29.613 --> 00:23:34.016
I may also filter what I say to you a little bit more, unfortunately.

726
00:23:34.656 --> 00:23:45.882
Maybe publicly, like you can hang out, but if I see you like going to their event and like doing like liking posts and stuff, it's like now you're just like, what are we doing?

727
00:23:46.062 --> 00:23:46.962
Now you're just making me look stupid.

728
00:23:47.102 --> 00:23:47.843
Yeah, like what are we doing?

729
00:23:48.003 --> 00:23:48.843
I thought you were my friend.

730
00:23:49.143 --> 00:23:49.523
What do you think?

731
00:23:49.543 --> 00:23:49.903
Are you my friend?

732
00:23:50.324 --> 00:23:51.944
It depends, I think.

733
00:23:52.104 --> 00:23:55.365
Like what the criteria of the- What did they do?

734
00:23:55.405 --> 00:23:56.486
Yeah, like what was the offense?

735
00:23:56.606 --> 00:23:56.726
Okay.

736
00:23:56.746 --> 00:24:00.647
You know, because there are some people who like, just don't like people for what their zodiac sign.

737
00:24:00.667 --> 00:24:00.988
No good reason.

738
00:24:01.008 --> 00:24:01.708
Oh yeah, that's true.

739
00:24:01.728 --> 00:24:02.408
You know what I mean?

740
00:24:02.588 --> 00:24:11.011
But I've also been in situations where the person who has been wronged, right, is like, I don't mess with them anymore, but that person is very good to me.

741
00:24:11.251 --> 00:24:12.572
And it puts you in this like, ugh.

742
00:24:13.763 --> 00:24:14.444
Yes, I know.

743
00:24:14.464 --> 00:24:15.685
That's not my story with them.

744
00:24:15.785 --> 00:24:16.046
Yeah.

745
00:24:16.106 --> 00:24:16.526
I get it.

746
00:24:16.766 --> 00:24:19.069
And I've also tried to like make it good.

747
00:24:19.449 --> 00:24:23.053
Like I was like, okay, listen, we'll give it one last try.

748
00:24:23.273 --> 00:24:25.135
With a college try, one last go.

749
00:24:25.395 --> 00:24:27.217
Like maybe we can have some healing here.

750
00:24:27.457 --> 00:24:30.320
And sometimes that don't help at all.

751
00:24:30.340 --> 00:24:31.221
I've been there too.

752
00:24:31.462 --> 00:24:33.524
I've learned sometimes you just gotta stay out of it.

753
00:24:33.544 --> 00:24:33.844
Hands off.

754
00:24:33.944 --> 00:24:36.167
Paying your child for good behavior.

755
00:24:37.511 --> 00:24:39.372
It's like, for me, this happened with grades.

756
00:24:39.592 --> 00:24:48.416
I'll never forget being in elementary school and coming home and being like, Wesley got $10 for every A. I was like, read them and weep.

757
00:24:49.457 --> 00:24:51.398
My mom was like,

758
00:24:52.283 --> 00:24:53.104
Good for Wesley.

759
00:24:53.244 --> 00:24:53.584
Right.

760
00:24:54.145 --> 00:24:54.845
That ain't you.

761
00:24:54.985 --> 00:24:57.167
At this house, grades are bare minimum.

762
00:24:57.187 --> 00:24:57.908
Standard, yeah.

763
00:24:58.108 --> 00:24:59.149
You should be doing that.

764
00:24:59.369 --> 00:25:00.390
Shouldn't I get paid too?

765
00:25:00.410 --> 00:25:00.930
Right, right.

766
00:25:00.950 --> 00:25:01.991
She was like, yeah, nah.

767
00:25:02.051 --> 00:25:02.311
No.

768
00:25:02.492 --> 00:25:08.376
I mean, sometimes also they may feed the narrative of employee versus entrepreneur also.

769
00:25:08.977 --> 00:25:15.923
So it's like, oh, I'll pay you for your good services versus you have your own business and you get paid for doing something you made up.

770
00:25:16.763 --> 00:25:20.867
Also, when I want Hazel to do something, I have used

771
00:25:21.720 --> 00:25:24.583
candy to pay.

772
00:25:25.544 --> 00:25:27.966
So.

773
00:25:28.526 --> 00:25:31.509
I have used candy.

774
00:25:31.549 --> 00:25:38.235
Yeah, sometimes like that, maybe two or three, when it's nap time and you really need, it's like, okay, I'll give you a little bit of, Right.

775
00:25:38.696 --> 00:25:41.338
Lollipop will come if you just, I just need you to.

776
00:25:41.358 --> 00:25:41.878
You gotta lay down.

777
00:25:42.079 --> 00:25:43.640
Quiet game, it's time for the quiet game.

778
00:25:43.740 --> 00:25:44.861
My mom was so good at that.

779
00:25:44.901 --> 00:25:45.922
She used to be like, no, shut up.

780
00:25:46.383 --> 00:25:47.724
In the car, everything, no, shut up.

781
00:25:48.104 --> 00:25:48.404
Right.

782
00:25:48.985 --> 00:25:50.166
You're like, ha ha.

783
00:25:50.266 --> 00:25:51.447
That's why I'm so quiet now.

784
00:25:51.467 --> 00:25:52.427
Well, I was gonna say.

785
00:25:52.748 --> 00:26:05.998
Are there situations or things as you're learning, especially as you're growing into the mother that you are for Hazel, that you are breaking, that were part of your childhood, ways you wanna do things differently than the way you were raised?

786
00:26:06.158 --> 00:26:07.740
I'm more so inspired by my mom.

787
00:26:07.760 --> 00:26:10.924
My mom did so many things that I'm like now really thankful for.

788
00:26:11.264 --> 00:26:14.208
Before I did feel like it was like a standard mom thing to do.

789
00:26:14.768 --> 00:26:17.592
And then now that I'm doing them, I'm like, thank you so much.

790
00:26:17.632 --> 00:26:21.897
Like even childbirth, I was like, I came home from the hospital like, dang, mom.

791
00:26:21.917 --> 00:26:23.098
Dang.

792
00:26:23.799 --> 00:26:24.300
Thank you.

793
00:26:24.520 --> 00:26:25.761
That was a lot.

794
00:26:26.062 --> 00:26:26.682
It's intense.

795
00:26:26.902 --> 00:26:28.344
I mean, not that I know, but I've heard.

796
00:26:28.484 --> 00:26:29.205
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

797
00:26:29.405 --> 00:26:29.886
I've seen.

798
00:26:29.926 --> 00:26:30.306
You've seen?

799
00:26:30.506 --> 00:26:30.707
Yeah.

800
00:26:31.147 --> 00:26:32.328
Oh, it was traumatic.

801
00:26:32.529 --> 00:26:32.909
Oh, shoot.

802
00:26:32.929 --> 00:26:39.376
Yeah, and my mom has had two C-sections and the healing after that, baby.

803
00:26:40.418 --> 00:26:42.099
I said, I mean, is it worth it?

804
00:26:42.159 --> 00:26:42.879
I don't know.

805
00:26:42.939 --> 00:26:44.180
I was like, I mean, I love them.

806
00:26:44.200 --> 00:26:46.140
You drink to that.

807
00:26:46.500 --> 00:26:47.801
My God on today.

808
00:26:48.881 --> 00:27:01.566
It's so crazy because like even thinking about how sometimes with moms postpartum and once they're done breastfeeding, like they have a wine down with wine and a glass of wine and like it helps calm their nervous system and just relax.

809
00:27:01.707 --> 00:27:02.767
They can't do none of that.

810
00:27:02.967 --> 00:27:04.228
It's just raw dog.

811
00:27:04.268 --> 00:27:05.008
Gotta have this baby.

812
00:27:06.068 --> 00:27:08.489
Gotta have his baby, gotta raise his child.

813
00:27:08.549 --> 00:27:09.229
Raise his kid.

814
00:27:09.449 --> 00:27:13.191
What was the biggest adjustment with bringing Hazel home for you?

815
00:27:13.631 --> 00:27:16.552
Cause I know you've said she was like a pandemic baby, right?

816
00:27:16.572 --> 00:27:25.636
Like it was like, you know, the situation where we were all at home, we were all with family, all with friends is even after hardcore lockdown happened, we still kept it kind of close.

817
00:27:25.916 --> 00:27:26.537
Oh, for sure.

818
00:27:26.617 --> 00:27:29.499
She was born February 21st, 2021.

819
00:27:29.760 --> 00:27:34.524
And even in the delivery room, I had to wear a mask and it was still social distancing.

820
00:27:34.584 --> 00:27:37.967
And like for a lot of the appointments, they didn't allow me to have a guest.

821
00:27:37.987 --> 00:27:40.309
So it felt like isolating a lot of the time.

822
00:27:40.389 --> 00:27:40.609
Yeah.

823
00:27:40.790 --> 00:27:49.277
The biggest adjustment coming home maybe was transitioning from this like small conglomerate because we didn't really allow people to see her at first either.

824
00:27:49.317 --> 00:27:50.819
She was a NICU baby.

825
00:27:50.899 --> 00:27:51.139
Yep.

826
00:27:51.279 --> 00:27:53.742
really like safe, because it felt so life or death.

827
00:27:53.862 --> 00:27:54.783
Well, it was a life or death.

828
00:27:54.823 --> 00:27:55.404
Everything, everything.

829
00:27:55.524 --> 00:27:56.385
I was washing mail.

830
00:27:56.605 --> 00:27:56.986
Were you?

831
00:27:57.006 --> 00:27:57.807
With Dawn Soap.

832
00:27:57.827 --> 00:27:58.127
Stop.

833
00:27:59.649 --> 00:28:00.089
How?

834
00:28:00.189 --> 00:28:01.190
I was washing mail.

835
00:28:01.451 --> 00:28:02.372
Just everything was wet.

836
00:28:02.592 --> 00:28:02.832
Lysol.

837
00:28:02.872 --> 00:28:03.193
Yeah.

838
00:28:03.393 --> 00:28:03.893
Everything was wet.

839
00:28:04.014 --> 00:28:04.935
Everything was crazy.

840
00:28:05.035 --> 00:28:06.316
I mean, we was a life or death.

841
00:28:06.336 --> 00:28:07.438
Can you believe that happened?

842
00:28:07.498 --> 00:28:07.818
Yes.

843
00:28:07.958 --> 00:28:10.921
I got an Amazon package yesterday, and I was like, I used to wash you.

844
00:28:13.198 --> 00:28:14.579
I used to wash you.

845
00:28:14.659 --> 00:28:15.279
That's hilarious.

846
00:28:15.319 --> 00:28:16.120
It was wild.

847
00:28:16.180 --> 00:28:17.720
It was a crazy time to be alive.

848
00:28:17.740 --> 00:28:18.221
I can't believe it.

849
00:28:18.241 --> 00:28:24.644
I would imagine that bringing a kid home, a baby home during that time, if I'm washing mail, you know what I mean?

850
00:28:24.664 --> 00:28:25.384
Oh, it's gonna be clean.

851
00:28:25.404 --> 00:28:26.085
Yeah, exactly.

852
00:28:26.105 --> 00:28:26.745
It's scary.

853
00:28:26.765 --> 00:28:32.768
I feel bad now, but one of Hazel's great aunts wanted to see her and I made her wear a hazmat suit.

854
00:28:33.268 --> 00:28:34.629
So I was like, I'm sorry.

855
00:28:34.649 --> 00:28:35.389
Yeah.

856
00:28:36.630 --> 00:28:40.412
So now there's this, her first photo holding Hazel is like,

857
00:28:41.385 --> 00:28:42.586
She's in a full.

858
00:28:43.227 --> 00:28:44.749
You said, no, no, this is how we're gonna do it.

859
00:28:45.069 --> 00:28:46.490
Wrap it up.

860
00:28:46.510 --> 00:28:47.852
Wrap it up, the whole thing.

861
00:28:48.112 --> 00:28:49.373
All of it, the whole body.

862
00:28:49.714 --> 00:28:50.715
Step into this please, ma'am.

863
00:28:51.716 --> 00:28:53.257
I was not playing, the claws were out.

864
00:28:53.277 --> 00:28:54.719
I was like, I have to protect this child.

865
00:28:54.739 --> 00:28:56.100
I have to protect this child.

866
00:28:56.321 --> 00:28:57.442
And that's a great photo.

867
00:28:57.562 --> 00:28:58.763
Yeah, it's fun now.

868
00:28:58.923 --> 00:29:01.326
You can put it on Hazel's, the graduation shirt.

869
00:29:01.366 --> 00:29:02.387
You know what I'm saying?

870
00:29:02.607 --> 00:29:03.267
Okay, what do you say?

871
00:29:03.327 --> 00:29:04.348
I think it's time to eat.

872
00:29:04.648 --> 00:29:05.169
Okay, nice.

873
00:29:05.189 --> 00:29:05.909
Let's do it.

874
00:29:06.129 --> 00:29:09.371
Neighbors, what is the first spot in your home that gets the fall treatment?

875
00:29:09.591 --> 00:29:12.633
For me, it is definitely the dining table.

876
00:29:12.713 --> 00:29:15.555
I'm not redecorating the entire house every time the season changes.

877
00:29:15.735 --> 00:29:17.216
Ain't nobody got time for that.

878
00:29:17.636 --> 00:29:22.799
But I am always hosting, and so a few details can really make any meal feel like an occasion.

879
00:29:22.859 --> 00:29:30.184
So thank you to Macy's for sponsoring this part of the episode, because these placemats from Macy's home are setting the fall vibe for sure.

880
00:29:30.564 --> 00:29:31.104
See what I mean?

881
00:29:31.485 --> 00:29:36.387
You change the table with a few seasonal swaps, and suddenly it looks like you've been planning this for weeks.

882
00:29:36.667 --> 00:29:38.188
And that's my kind of decorating.

883
00:29:38.348 --> 00:29:41.789
Just enough so that when you sit down, you're like, wow, that's Scott.

884
00:29:42.450 --> 00:29:43.510
He really thinks of everything.

885
00:29:44.090 --> 00:29:45.431
And baby, I'm going to let you believe that.

886
00:29:45.731 --> 00:29:51.134
Macy's has so many great options from brands like Hotel Collection, Lennox, Le Creuset, and McKenzie Childs.

887
00:29:51.494 --> 00:29:57.737
Refresh your home for fall with decor and seasonal finds from Macy's Home at Macy's.com or a Macy's near you.

888
00:30:03.165 --> 00:30:04.066
Welcome, welcome.

889
00:30:04.086 --> 00:30:04.686
Thank you.

890
00:30:04.706 --> 00:30:05.847
It's so beautiful.

891
00:30:05.887 --> 00:30:07.309
You know, we're getting ready for the fall.

892
00:30:07.349 --> 00:30:07.909
Oh my gosh.

893
00:30:07.929 --> 00:30:09.370
I love the Thanksgiving vibes.

894
00:30:09.410 --> 00:30:10.571
You know what I'm saying?

895
00:30:10.852 --> 00:30:12.233
Look at you looking all good.

896
00:30:12.253 --> 00:30:13.194
Thank you.

897
00:30:13.234 --> 00:30:13.774
Girl.

898
00:30:13.794 --> 00:30:14.655
I like this plate.

899
00:30:14.855 --> 00:30:16.917
You know what I'm saying?

900
00:30:16.957 --> 00:30:17.678
OK, should we do a bite?

901
00:30:17.818 --> 00:30:18.118
OK.

902
00:30:18.298 --> 00:30:18.779
Here we go.

903
00:30:18.819 --> 00:30:19.339
Here we go.

904
00:30:19.359 --> 00:30:20.300
Mm.

905
00:30:20.620 --> 00:30:20.981
Dipping.

906
00:30:23.503 --> 00:30:23.563
Mm.

907
00:30:25.112 --> 00:30:25.552
Mm-hmm.

908
00:30:25.572 --> 00:30:25.872
See?

909
00:30:26.252 --> 00:30:26.873
Very good.

910
00:30:27.153 --> 00:30:28.573
This shrimp is nice and flavorful.

911
00:30:28.953 --> 00:30:29.914
A little spice in there.

912
00:30:30.034 --> 00:30:31.634
Finishing it off with an acid taste.

913
00:30:32.575 --> 00:30:34.095
I let my fresh onions in there.

914
00:30:34.736 --> 00:30:35.236
Some guap.

915
00:30:35.656 --> 00:30:36.076
I'm happy.

916
00:30:36.096 --> 00:30:36.716
That's great.

917
00:30:37.477 --> 00:30:37.857
Mm-hmm.

918
00:30:38.177 --> 00:30:39.277
All in the flick of the wrist.

919
00:30:39.537 --> 00:30:41.958
And I gotta try a chip with the cilantro sauce, too.

920
00:30:42.198 --> 00:30:42.979
Pardon my crunch.

921
00:30:45.460 --> 00:30:45.600
Mm.

922
00:30:47.000 --> 00:30:47.220
Great.

923
00:30:47.260 --> 00:30:48.801
I love that chip as I crunch.

924
00:30:49.161 --> 00:30:51.042
It's honestly satisfying, the sound.

925
00:30:51.262 --> 00:30:51.642
I know.

926
00:30:52.682 --> 00:30:53.663
Betraya, I got you at the house.

927
00:30:54.681 --> 00:30:55.942
You sent me an album early?

928
00:30:56.222 --> 00:30:56.622
Yeah.

929
00:30:56.682 --> 00:30:57.743
I listened to it early.

930
00:30:58.003 --> 00:30:58.643
What do you think?

931
00:30:59.163 --> 00:31:01.845
Baby, I told you, this is wild.

932
00:31:02.065 --> 00:31:02.845
Yeah.

933
00:31:02.865 --> 00:31:04.686
22 tracks, we really go on a journey.

934
00:31:04.826 --> 00:31:05.186
Oh, yeah.

935
00:31:05.486 --> 00:31:09.068
I'm curious to know when you started putting this album together.

936
00:31:09.108 --> 00:31:14.051
Because it sounds like such a compliment to Jaguar.

937
00:31:14.271 --> 00:31:15.031
Yeah, thank you.

938
00:31:15.051 --> 00:31:18.353
But it also sounds like such a growth thing.

939
00:31:18.493 --> 00:31:19.854
from there, right?

940
00:31:19.874 --> 00:31:33.881
Like the references, the inspirations, maybe even the collaborations with like Earth, Wind, and Fire, right, that versatility you bring back into Frequency of Love, and I'm just so curious to know when you started working on this.

941
00:31:34.188 --> 00:31:38.789
Honestly, the oldest song on the project is from around the Jaguar era.

942
00:31:39.449 --> 00:31:41.650
So that would be Reach Out.

943
00:31:41.890 --> 00:31:44.410
When I made Reach Out, it sounded a bit differently.

944
00:31:44.430 --> 00:31:45.691
I didn't have that bridge.

945
00:31:45.751 --> 00:31:53.473
I didn't have some of the ad-libs and there was nuances that we added after, but the foundation of it was there and I just didn't feel like it fit on Jaguar.

946
00:31:53.513 --> 00:31:54.273
But- Is that right?

947
00:31:54.553 --> 00:31:56.953
Even the Deluxe, it was a chance for me to put on the Deluxe.

948
00:31:56.973 --> 00:31:59.274
I was like, nah, I think this is something else.

949
00:31:59.834 --> 00:32:02.155
So I'm glad that I was able to wait.

950
00:32:04.655 --> 00:32:09.120
I want to say that maybe around 2021 that was that song.

951
00:32:09.400 --> 00:32:13.084
True fans would be able to tell me actually, because we took a picture after that session.

952
00:32:13.104 --> 00:32:15.146
It's me, D-Mile, and Kei Trinata in a picture.

953
00:32:15.186 --> 00:32:17.688
So whenever I posted that, that was the night we made a reach out.

954
00:32:18.008 --> 00:32:18.529
Wow.

955
00:32:18.589 --> 00:32:19.610
Tommy Parker as well.

956
00:32:20.351 --> 00:32:24.955
I feel like you and your, especially in your songwriting bag.

957
00:32:25.155 --> 00:32:25.736
Unmatched.

958
00:32:26.637 --> 00:32:27.258
Why thank you?

959
00:32:27.278 --> 00:32:30.202
Because you've been writing hits for so long.

960
00:32:30.343 --> 00:32:30.543
Thank you.

961
00:32:30.643 --> 00:32:31.204
Do you know what I mean?

962
00:32:31.224 --> 00:32:35.290
You've been writing songs we sing to, we live our life to for so long.

963
00:32:35.510 --> 00:32:40.458
What was the first one that you were like, on this new album that you were like, if they get this,

964
00:32:41.299 --> 00:32:42.140
they get it.

965
00:32:42.200 --> 00:32:45.062
Yeah, I mean, there was a few for me.

966
00:32:45.302 --> 00:32:59.153
The first one, Juicy, I think has so much potential, and it feels like such a special song and so happy, and flirty, and fun, and clean, like I ain't cussing, which is sometimes rare.

967
00:32:59.173 --> 00:33:01.375
There's that.

968
00:33:01.535 --> 00:33:07.940
I love Almost, I feel like people who love R&B and love Brandy will find that to be clever.

969
00:33:08.380 --> 00:33:09.521
It is very clever.

970
00:33:09.721 --> 00:33:19.205
I love how overt you can be in one lyric of one song and in the very next lyric it's so candy-coated.

971
00:33:19.346 --> 00:33:19.866
Clean it up.

972
00:33:19.966 --> 00:33:23.087
You wouldn't even know what the song was about unless you were really, really listening.

973
00:33:23.227 --> 00:33:23.828
I love that.

974
00:33:23.928 --> 00:33:34.113
Just to have, you know, at first listen you hear music and you just hear melody first and then as you listen over and over again then you can discover more layers of the song.

975
00:33:34.473 --> 00:33:36.875
But I also like some songs that's like, whoa, what'd you say?

976
00:33:36.895 --> 00:33:37.835
You got some of those too.

977
00:33:38.116 --> 00:33:38.476
Yes.

978
00:33:38.996 --> 00:33:40.217
I honestly do feel like.

979
00:33:40.237 --> 00:33:41.178
And going out to eat tonight.

980
00:33:42.859 --> 00:33:43.579
Yay.

981
00:33:44.320 --> 00:33:45.020
Change of plans.

982
00:33:45.040 --> 00:33:45.801
Change of plans.

983
00:33:45.821 --> 00:33:46.781
We're staying home.

984
00:33:47.602 --> 00:33:48.623
House guests for real.

985
00:33:48.703 --> 00:33:50.064
I know.

986
00:33:50.504 --> 00:33:52.505
You said, why are we going out to eat when you can eat at home?

987
00:33:52.766 --> 00:33:53.286
Seriously.

988
00:33:53.406 --> 00:33:53.926
Hello.

989
00:33:54.267 --> 00:33:55.768
No, I feel like there's so many.

990
00:33:55.968 --> 00:33:58.750
I think See You In My Dreams is another one that feels special.

991
00:33:59.070 --> 00:34:00.011
That's Why I Love You.

992
00:34:00.111 --> 00:34:02.032
Feels like a timeless classic wedding.

993
00:34:02.192 --> 00:34:03.353
Absolutely does.

994
00:34:03.673 --> 00:34:04.654
You mean the world to me?

995
00:34:04.714 --> 00:34:06.115
I'm like, I can't even pick.

996
00:34:06.155 --> 00:34:06.795
I can't pick.

997
00:34:06.815 --> 00:34:12.560
But I do feel that if people are on the frequency of love, they will understand each of these in a different way.

998
00:34:12.780 --> 00:34:17.043
And I love the challenge of listening to an album, right?

999
00:34:17.103 --> 00:34:19.665
It used to be that we would put something on and you'd listen to the whole thing.

1000
00:34:19.765 --> 00:34:20.045
Yeah.

1001
00:34:20.106 --> 00:34:28.992
And now the streaming of music, the bite size of music has forced us into this almost fragmented experience of what an artist's offering is.

1002
00:34:29.012 --> 00:34:29.453
Yeah.

1003
00:34:29.473 --> 00:34:31.094
And we don't sit down for the whole thing anymore.

1004
00:34:31.174 --> 00:34:32.355
And you were like, you're going to get this.

1005
00:34:32.888 --> 00:34:39.152
Please, I almost, I mean, I really do wish that there was a place that we could listen to music the way that we watch movies.

1006
00:34:39.192 --> 00:34:51.780
Like if there was like an experience we could have on the first night or the first two weeks of an album release where you just go, you get to hear it in these really amazing sound systems and hear it with people and have drinks.

1007
00:34:51.840 --> 00:34:55.583
And that's not a club environment, but it's just like music focused.

1008
00:34:56.083 --> 00:35:01.546
And if there was music videos for a certain song, maybe that's a visual, a screen that can display those things.

1009
00:35:01.646 --> 00:35:01.887
Like...

1010
00:35:02.547 --> 00:35:03.448
We don't really have that.

1011
00:35:03.468 --> 00:35:10.315
We're kind of stuck on maybe one person's listening from their iPhone, one person's listening from over-the-ear headphones, one's in their car.

1012
00:35:10.355 --> 00:35:12.056
In their car, right, or on a train.

1013
00:35:12.457 --> 00:35:23.728
It should happen, but also just at least for a little bit of time being able to focus on it when it's like a museum, like an experience that you could walk through and feel, see, touch, something.

1014
00:35:23.828 --> 00:35:25.289
We used to, we had MTV.

1015
00:35:26.410 --> 00:35:30.553
So you also had like times of the day where everybody was watching the same music videos.

1016
00:35:30.834 --> 00:35:31.774
Yeah, exactly.

1017
00:35:31.835 --> 00:35:33.476
You were watching music videos together.

1018
00:35:33.656 --> 00:35:36.278
And it was this like shared experience.

1019
00:35:36.298 --> 00:35:43.124
And what I love about your perspective in your artistry is that you're like, you're going to get this visual.

1020
00:35:43.958 --> 00:35:44.238
Okay?

1021
00:35:44.679 --> 00:35:45.139
Yeah.

1022
00:35:45.199 --> 00:35:50.063
If I got to break this hip and I'm going to swing this hair, you're going to get this visual.

1023
00:35:50.124 --> 00:35:50.884
Yeah.

1024
00:35:50.924 --> 00:35:53.366
Tell me about this frequency of love, the look of it for you.

1025
00:35:53.386 --> 00:35:56.249
Like what was important for you to get this styling out there?

1026
00:35:56.409 --> 00:35:56.809
Yeah.

1027
00:35:57.290 --> 00:36:00.213
Well, a lot of what started to click on

1028
00:36:00.933 --> 00:36:17.435
on the album and the music side happened simultaneously while going to culinary school and one of the intentions of culinary school was to connect with my grandma and her legacy and so looking at the movies that we used to watch together like musical films we love chitty chitty bang bang we love sound of music

1029
00:36:17.975 --> 00:36:37.542
She's the one who showed me the Dorothy Dandridge biopic, you know played by Holly Berry So some of these you know touch points really connect back to my roots and what I was feeling as a kid and movies I like to watch that maybe my friends were like that's weird, you know But I like these old-school movies like I was down for Bewitched I was down for I Dream of Jeannie.

1030
00:36:37.562 --> 00:36:40.303
I was down for I Love Lucy like these shows and like I

1031
00:36:40.783 --> 00:36:42.043
No, this is actually really cool.

1032
00:36:42.063 --> 00:36:51.746
So some of it is inspired by early 1940s and 50s style fashion, even the colorway, but also as if 90s does 50s, 90s does 40s.

1033
00:36:51.786 --> 00:36:52.566
Yeah.

1034
00:36:52.726 --> 00:37:03.528
Early European fashion icons, those black supermodels that were just so regal and in the streets photographing every portrait just looks like incredible and elegant.

1035
00:37:11.170 --> 00:37:13.532
who I am and what I like besides the color brown.

1036
00:37:13.852 --> 00:37:22.039
So I'm like, how can I play and how can I grow and what can I experience and what do I like and what feels fresh but still authentic to me.

1037
00:37:22.499 --> 00:37:26.983
So all of those things into consideration, this is what it's become.

1038
00:37:27.103 --> 00:37:27.563
Yeah.

1039
00:37:27.783 --> 00:37:31.886
I'm curious to know for you that, you know, the album is called Frequency of Love.

1040
00:37:31.926 --> 00:37:32.187
Yes.

1041
00:37:32.747 --> 00:37:36.651
Do you feel like you are putting out this frequency of love?

1042
00:37:36.811 --> 00:37:39.473
Are you receiving a frequency of love?

1043
00:37:39.493 --> 00:37:41.035
Talk to me about the title in particular.

1044
00:37:41.055 --> 00:37:43.677
Because I think, well, I'm going to tell you, I'm going to just say, I'm going to keep it.

1045
00:37:43.697 --> 00:37:44.358
I'm going to keep it above.

1046
00:37:44.498 --> 00:37:44.778
Yeah.

1047
00:37:44.798 --> 00:37:46.760
I was listening to this album and I was like,

1048
00:37:47.970 --> 00:37:49.291
People gonna be doing it to this.

1049
00:37:50.212 --> 00:37:51.253
Gonna be doing it.

1050
00:37:51.353 --> 00:37:53.415
They gonna be doing it to this.

1051
00:37:53.556 --> 00:37:55.758
I can't wait to do it to this.

1052
00:37:56.078 --> 00:38:00.443
And I know that when you're creating, there's got to be songs where you're like, this is gonna get them.

1053
00:38:00.563 --> 00:38:00.943
Honestly.

1054
00:38:01.063 --> 00:38:03.305
This is gonna, ooh-wee.

1055
00:38:03.365 --> 00:38:04.326
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1056
00:38:04.366 --> 00:38:05.147
I do feel that.

1057
00:38:05.387 --> 00:38:08.971
With the title itself, I wanted to embody it.

1058
00:38:08.991 --> 00:38:09.632
Mm-hmm.

1059
00:38:10.272 --> 00:38:17.960
I often found, just comparing Jaguar and the sentiment of Jaguar to Frequency of Love, I had something to prove with Jaguar.

1060
00:38:18.080 --> 00:38:27.169
I was like, my claws were out, I'm a huntress, I'm galloping towards a certain goal, and when I get there, I'm biting down with the strongest, fiercest bite in the jungle.

1061
00:38:27.250 --> 00:38:27.710
I hear that.

1062
00:38:27.730 --> 00:38:29.412
Because you were not playing about that bite.

1063
00:38:30.333 --> 00:38:31.575
I was like, this is it.

1064
00:38:31.695 --> 00:38:32.536
Y'all gonna get this.

1065
00:38:33.097 --> 00:38:34.119
I'm biting down.

1066
00:38:34.439 --> 00:38:36.983
So with Frequency of Love, I really had to soften.

1067
00:38:37.003 --> 00:38:40.148
I felt like maybe this is more of a...

1068
00:38:41.835 --> 00:38:50.678
Caterpillar, butterfly, softness, even, you know, it all really, it so crazily connects because even with culinary school, I had to like have a certain nail length.

1069
00:38:50.718 --> 00:38:55.659
I can't have my nails that I usually like a little almond shape, like a vintage almond shape.

1070
00:38:56.260 --> 00:38:58.060
Kind of like a claw of a jaguar maybe.

1071
00:38:58.080 --> 00:38:58.900
Yeah.

1072
00:38:59.361 --> 00:39:06.643
And so even that softness and feeling things with my fingertips and not being able to claw brought about a certain softness.

1073
00:39:07.643 --> 00:39:16.488
And embodying that and healing spiritually and making sure I'm attracting things versus chasing them and tuning into a certain frequency.

1074
00:39:16.708 --> 00:39:21.931
And that being the reason why things arrive to me versus, I gotta fight for it.

1075
00:39:22.412 --> 00:39:23.232
I gotta go get it.

1076
00:39:23.272 --> 00:39:24.773
And that's how I was before.

1077
00:39:25.374 --> 00:39:34.719
So relaxing into that comfort, knowing that God has me and the energy that I carry can bring about all the things that I want to see for myself and all of it.

1078
00:39:34.759 --> 00:39:36.320
So it was like a

1079
00:39:37.880 --> 00:39:39.301
I think it's a transformation for me.

1080
00:39:39.721 --> 00:39:40.822
It feels like a blossoming.

1081
00:39:41.182 --> 00:39:41.422
Yeah.

1082
00:39:41.442 --> 00:39:43.963
It feels like, I totally understand the chase, the hunt.

1083
00:39:44.363 --> 00:39:45.664
I got something I want to prove.

1084
00:39:45.684 --> 00:39:46.164
For sure.

1085
00:39:46.204 --> 00:39:48.866
And not even necessarily to other people, but to myself.

1086
00:39:48.946 --> 00:39:49.086
Yeah.

1087
00:39:49.126 --> 00:39:51.267
Like, this is my, damn it, this is my time.

1088
00:39:51.347 --> 00:39:51.627
Yeah.

1089
00:39:51.767 --> 00:39:54.369
Sometimes even culturally, I feel like we do have to...

1090
00:39:55.209 --> 00:40:04.695
We get that energy because we do have to work extra hard to get the same amount of publicity, respect, accolades, like, you know, some of those things.

1091
00:40:04.935 --> 00:40:06.296
Do you feel like you've hit it yet?

1092
00:40:06.536 --> 00:40:08.497
Do you feel like you've, like, made it yet?

1093
00:40:08.597 --> 00:40:08.917
No.

1094
00:40:09.237 --> 00:40:09.838
You do not.

1095
00:40:10.258 --> 00:40:10.478
No.

1096
00:40:11.259 --> 00:40:12.460
What?

1097
00:40:12.480 --> 00:40:12.540
No.

1098
00:40:13.120 --> 00:40:20.706
No, no, I don't feel like, honestly, it's a really interesting question because I probably won't feel like that until the day I graduate into the spirit realm.

1099
00:40:21.046 --> 00:40:23.187
Because as long as I'm here, I have more work to do.

1100
00:40:23.668 --> 00:40:26.610
So I don't know if I'll ever be like, yeah, I'm chilling.

1101
00:40:28.473 --> 00:40:31.896
Because tomorrow I will always have a schedule of things that I have to get done.

1102
00:40:32.016 --> 00:40:33.938
And then one day God will be like, you're done.

1103
00:40:34.498 --> 00:40:35.119
You're done.

1104
00:40:35.199 --> 00:40:36.780
And so then I'll be like, okay, I made it.

1105
00:40:37.581 --> 00:40:38.161
That's when.

1106
00:40:38.421 --> 00:40:44.226
I think about your career and I think about the time we have known you out front.

1107
00:40:44.546 --> 00:40:44.806
Yeah.

1108
00:40:45.167 --> 00:40:48.389
Versus the time that you spent in support.

1109
00:40:48.710 --> 00:40:49.030
Yeah.

1110
00:40:49.090 --> 00:40:50.611
The time that you spent building.

1111
00:40:50.671 --> 00:40:51.132
As an elf.

1112
00:40:51.552 --> 00:40:51.732
Yeah.

1113
00:40:53.226 --> 00:40:55.068
Yeah, but kind of.

1114
00:40:55.108 --> 00:41:00.653
And I think about the experience even of like wanting this, an element of this.

1115
00:41:00.713 --> 00:41:07.120
And even that this may not be like the highest expression or the highest peak by far that you will climb to.

1116
00:41:07.720 --> 00:41:10.363
But that there was a day where this thing was a dream.

1117
00:41:10.503 --> 00:41:12.364
For sure, that's exactly how I feel.

1118
00:41:12.384 --> 00:41:16.146
I feel like the me that is here today satisfies the me that I was five years ago.

1119
00:41:16.186 --> 00:41:22.849
But now that I'm here, and my thoughts have collapsed into reality, I'm already onto the next projection.

1120
00:41:23.109 --> 00:41:37.235
It's like, okay, I'm wanting to manifest something else completely, while simultaneously being grateful and having gratitude for what I was able to bring about with God's help, with my team's help, with my mom's help, with my daughter's help, with the help of energy, healing.

1121
00:41:37.456 --> 00:41:38.116
Are you in therapy?

1122
00:41:38.616 --> 00:41:45.984
I tried therapy, but my time is so limited that a lot of the time spent catching up with a therapist was like, she was like, well, that's the hour.

1123
00:41:46.004 --> 00:41:47.846
So I didn't get the advice part.

1124
00:41:48.046 --> 00:41:54.813
So I was like, but I can't go frequently enough to get the homework.

1125
00:41:55.714 --> 00:42:09.679
So I have different modalities of therapy, which is, you know, the breath work and the Tai Chi work and the music and having honest conversations and self-expression, not holding things in that I want to say because it affects my throat, my voice, everything.

1126
00:42:09.759 --> 00:42:13.941
So I have therapy, but just not in the traditional sit across the room.

1127
00:42:13.981 --> 00:42:14.521
Yeah, yeah.

1128
00:42:14.541 --> 00:42:18.482
The time before the last time I saw you, there was a lot of things changing in your life.

1129
00:42:18.542 --> 00:42:19.202
Oh, my gosh.

1130
00:42:19.402 --> 00:42:20.283
And that you seem...

1131
00:42:21.466 --> 00:42:22.967
like on the other side of that.

1132
00:42:23.127 --> 00:42:24.007
I love that.

1133
00:42:24.207 --> 00:42:33.172
Not like projecting a softness, not projecting a healing, but that you are really walking through those processes with your whole chest.

1134
00:42:33.392 --> 00:42:35.033
And so I'm just curious about what helped you?

1135
00:42:35.293 --> 00:42:45.759
Well, the first book that was really helpful to me, and I didn't even get to finish it, but I feel like for some reason, God gave me the chapters and things that I needed at the time, was The Let Them Theory.

1136
00:42:46.059 --> 00:42:46.860
Yeah, Mel Robbins.

1137
00:42:46.920 --> 00:42:48.241
Yes, incredible.

1138
00:42:48.561 --> 00:42:53.845
Then I started to watch her speak within transition and people changing and exchanging and out of my life.

1139
00:42:54.566 --> 00:42:56.407
That was an important read for me.

1140
00:42:56.427 --> 00:42:57.068
It's like, you know what?

1141
00:42:57.088 --> 00:42:58.509
That's something that I can remember.

1142
00:42:58.669 --> 00:42:59.530
It's like a hook to me.

1143
00:43:00.050 --> 00:43:02.032
That's like, okay, just remember, let them.

1144
00:43:02.172 --> 00:43:02.592
Let them.

1145
00:43:02.632 --> 00:43:03.013
Let them.

1146
00:43:03.053 --> 00:43:04.494
You can't control it anyway.

1147
00:43:04.594 --> 00:43:05.215
Let them.

1148
00:43:05.335 --> 00:43:05.555
Right.

1149
00:43:05.675 --> 00:43:06.636
So that was really helpful.

1150
00:43:06.676 --> 00:43:12.340
Then I also, because of naming my album Frequency of Love, I started to order so many frequency books on Amazon.

1151
00:43:12.701 --> 00:43:13.401
Seriously?

1152
00:43:13.441 --> 00:43:13.682
Yes.

1153
00:43:14.242 --> 00:43:17.825
So the most recent one is called The Frequency Effect.

1154
00:43:17.945 --> 00:43:19.807
So I really enjoy that.

1155
00:43:20.227 --> 00:43:22.389
My algorithm also has been helpful.

1156
00:43:22.429 --> 00:43:23.129
Whenever I get...

1157
00:43:24.010 --> 00:43:29.571
scrollability at night and now my algorithm is more, more spiritual.

1158
00:43:29.651 --> 00:43:30.171
How I worked.

1159
00:43:30.512 --> 00:43:31.732
I tell you mine is to the beat.

1160
00:43:32.092 --> 00:43:32.432
Yeah.

1161
00:43:32.572 --> 00:43:34.653
Mine is to the beat.

1162
00:43:35.193 --> 00:43:37.013
Like I've got information, news.

1163
00:43:37.113 --> 00:43:37.393
Yeah.

1164
00:43:37.413 --> 00:43:40.934
I've also got spirituality, interior design and architecture.

1165
00:43:40.954 --> 00:43:41.634
Oh yeah.

1166
00:43:41.714 --> 00:43:42.774
Recipes.

1167
00:43:42.794 --> 00:43:44.795
Like when I tell you, I was like, this is me right?

1168
00:43:44.855 --> 00:43:46.815
I was like, oh you're trying to keep me on this.

1169
00:43:46.895 --> 00:43:47.075
Yeah.

1170
00:43:47.175 --> 00:43:48.036
Doing a great job.

1171
00:43:48.056 --> 00:43:53.277
I also really want to know how they're like, I'm talking about things and then before I even,

1172
00:43:53.597 --> 00:43:54.318
Yeah, girl, your mic is on.

1173
00:43:54.338 --> 00:43:54.878
It's like in my phone.

1174
00:43:54.918 --> 00:43:55.519
The mic is on.

1175
00:43:56.599 --> 00:43:58.401
And somewhere we said, keep it on all the time.

1176
00:43:58.421 --> 00:43:59.842
Because honestly, it was helpful.

1177
00:44:00.222 --> 00:44:00.402
Yeah.

1178
00:44:00.503 --> 00:44:02.764
I was like, don't listen to me, but also, thank you.

1179
00:44:02.804 --> 00:44:05.306
But also thank you for that.

1180
00:44:05.426 --> 00:44:09.390
I can't even go on TikTok without, I'm like, I need to get off because I'm just buying stuff.

1181
00:44:09.410 --> 00:44:10.250
The TikTok shop.

1182
00:44:10.270 --> 00:44:10.891
It's too easy.

1183
00:44:10.911 --> 00:44:11.371
It's buttons.

1184
00:44:11.471 --> 00:44:12.872
It's just an infomercial.

1185
00:44:13.033 --> 00:44:14.093
And I'm not even mad at it.

1186
00:44:14.734 --> 00:44:16.836
I got all kind of stuff in this house I ain't even opened yet.

1187
00:44:16.896 --> 00:44:18.557
Under my sink is stupid.

1188
00:44:19.077 --> 00:44:20.698
Exactly.

1189
00:44:20.758 --> 00:44:26.841
If I'm like, well, I got Christmas gifts for days because it's not a bad idea.

1190
00:44:27.041 --> 00:44:27.981
That's the lick.

1191
00:44:28.021 --> 00:44:28.441
Right?

1192
00:44:29.002 --> 00:44:29.542
Repackage.

1193
00:44:29.802 --> 00:44:30.662
Merry Christmas.

1194
00:44:31.142 --> 00:44:34.464
Y'all, who is the person that you always start with for your holiday shopping?

1195
00:44:34.764 --> 00:44:39.486
Well, I always start with mom because I feel like once mom is taken care of, everybody else is easy.

1196
00:44:39.606 --> 00:44:40.607
But have y'all started yet?

1197
00:44:40.887 --> 00:44:42.407
Because I feel like it's time to lock in.

1198
00:44:42.647 --> 00:44:43.268
You gotta know.

1199
00:44:43.955 --> 00:44:44.477
Who's naughty?

1200
00:44:45.701 --> 00:44:46.283
Who's nice?

1201
00:44:46.885 --> 00:44:47.066
Yeah.

1202
00:44:47.668 --> 00:44:50.236
And most importantly, who still owes me money?

1203
00:44:51.518 --> 00:44:54.839
And for everybody who survived the cut, Amazon makes the shopping easy.

1204
00:44:54.899 --> 00:44:57.680
I've got a tech lover, a fashionista, and kids.

1205
00:44:58.080 --> 00:45:00.681
Kids asking me for toys like I'm the one raising them.

1206
00:45:01.101 --> 00:45:02.081
I ain't got no kids.

1207
00:45:02.261 --> 00:45:05.742
But Amazon's got picks for all of them and at low prices.

1208
00:45:05.822 --> 00:45:08.163
So I can get it done all in one place.

1209
00:45:08.263 --> 00:45:12.644
And yes, yes, I'm definitely getting something for myself because I deserve it.

1210
00:45:13.104 --> 00:45:16.305
Get a head start now in holiday gifting with Amazon's low prices.

1211
00:45:16.425 --> 00:45:18.706
Shop now at amazon.com slash holiday.

1212
00:45:19.950 --> 00:45:22.172
Ooh, in this frequency that you're in now.

1213
00:45:22.192 --> 00:45:22.332
Yeah.

1214
00:45:23.133 --> 00:45:26.556
Out front, living in what feels like whole truth.

1215
00:45:26.877 --> 00:45:27.117
Yeah.

1216
00:45:27.657 --> 00:45:29.279
And on your own terms.

1217
00:45:29.399 --> 00:45:29.859
Yeah.

1218
00:45:30.260 --> 00:45:34.404
I don't think that there's ever a world where you could go back in the background again.

1219
00:45:34.444 --> 00:45:35.465
I don't think there's- I know too much.

1220
00:45:36.450 --> 00:45:37.891
You said I've been there.

1221
00:45:37.951 --> 00:45:38.612
I know too much.

1222
00:45:38.732 --> 00:45:40.014
Yeah, right?

1223
00:45:40.034 --> 00:45:40.874
Yeah, it's different.

1224
00:45:40.994 --> 00:45:41.575
It's different.

1225
00:45:41.615 --> 00:45:46.840
And I think if that were to be the case, I may be hiding.

1226
00:45:47.821 --> 00:45:47.921
Ah.

1227
00:45:47.941 --> 00:45:54.788
You know, I may be hiding myself and sacrificing my authentic self for support or

1228
00:45:55.909 --> 00:46:00.254
I'm just like Sade and I just want to go garden in private, you know what I mean?

1229
00:46:00.274 --> 00:46:00.834
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1230
00:46:00.975 --> 00:46:11.886
Have, you know, separate from musical success and publicity and really just live in whole totality of spirituality and sustainability and just different.

1231
00:46:11.986 --> 00:46:14.509
Like a new hill to climb, a new chapter.

1232
00:46:14.729 --> 00:46:15.991
Do you still write for other artists?

1233
00:46:16.417 --> 00:46:17.078
I would love to.

1234
00:46:17.198 --> 00:46:19.601
I haven't really had the time, to be honest.

1235
00:46:19.762 --> 00:46:26.030
But there are some primary artists, and I'm like, please, I would love, I would love to just, I would love it.

1236
00:46:26.190 --> 00:46:26.811
Okay, tell me who?

1237
00:46:28.680 --> 00:46:30.261
We acted a fool at that sacred event.

1238
00:46:30.301 --> 00:46:31.261
It was great.

1239
00:46:31.381 --> 00:46:34.202
I partied till like I should've been home.

1240
00:46:34.302 --> 00:46:35.203
You said I got a babysitter.

1241
00:46:35.223 --> 00:46:36.303
Tonight, mama's outside.

1242
00:46:36.323 --> 00:46:38.004
You said mama's outside.

1243
00:46:38.084 --> 00:46:39.604
And I had school earlier that day.

1244
00:46:39.624 --> 00:46:42.245
I had like a, it was actually, that was my last day of school.

1245
00:46:42.446 --> 00:46:43.146
It was a good night.

1246
00:46:43.546 --> 00:46:44.666
It was a good night.

1247
00:46:44.706 --> 00:46:45.987
So Beyonce's on your list.

1248
00:46:46.967 --> 00:46:47.187
Yeah.

1249
00:46:47.207 --> 00:46:47.588
She's the list.

1250
00:46:47.768 --> 00:46:49.608
What would you, that's it.

1251
00:46:49.628 --> 00:46:50.469
Full stop.

1252
00:46:50.709 --> 00:46:50.989
Yeah.

1253
00:46:51.009 --> 00:46:51.669
What would you want to do?

1254
00:46:51.729 --> 00:46:53.430
What kinds of music would you want to create with her?

1255
00:46:53.818 --> 00:46:54.299
Anything.

1256
00:46:54.339 --> 00:47:08.400
I just I feel like she's such a really dynamic artist that and you see her being able to genre Ben, you see her being able to balance motherhood and stardom and her love life and her dedication to her family and her family.

1257
00:47:09.161 --> 00:47:21.573
Being a great daughter, like all of these things are such on display for us that just being in her presence and being able to just be in her energy is like it's valuable because I do feel like energetically things transfer to you.

1258
00:47:21.753 --> 00:47:24.035
You're affected by who you're around.

1259
00:47:24.055 --> 00:47:26.497
You're affected by what those people say.

1260
00:47:26.838 --> 00:47:28.899
So I'd love to be surrounded by people who...

1261
00:47:29.600 --> 00:47:32.581
bring about this type of energy.

1262
00:47:32.661 --> 00:47:41.223
Is there like a notes app where you're talking about different songs, where you're talking, where you're writing down things that inspire you, where you have little parts of verses and stuff like that?

1263
00:47:41.543 --> 00:47:56.147
It's pretty rare that it's in my notes, but what happens is I'm living life and I'm absorbing it and I'm like, okay, I know that feeling, this feeling is gonna come out within a song, but I do need the chords or something to guide me into what

1264
00:47:57.568 --> 00:47:59.153
you know, summon that feeling up.

1265
00:47:59.174 --> 00:48:00.579
So music comes first for you?

1266
00:48:00.779 --> 00:48:02.566
Yeah, like, until...

1267
00:48:03.851 --> 00:48:06.272
One day at the studio, I was baking cookies.

1268
00:48:08.013 --> 00:48:08.793
I was baking cookies.

1269
00:48:09.013 --> 00:48:11.654
I kept doing things for people, my producers.

1270
00:48:11.715 --> 00:48:14.116
I bring stuff from school to them to try.

1271
00:48:14.216 --> 00:48:15.596
And I was making cookies.

1272
00:48:15.856 --> 00:48:17.377
We were working on another song.

1273
00:48:18.357 --> 00:48:20.378
And I had the idea for You Mean the World to Me.

1274
00:48:20.818 --> 00:48:25.380
And it doesn't pop up in my head all like that without the music first.

1275
00:48:25.460 --> 00:48:25.681
Right.

1276
00:48:26.001 --> 00:48:27.561
So I was like, where's Camper?

1277
00:48:28.222 --> 00:48:30.022
I'm like trying to make the cookie dough and like scoop it.

1278
00:48:30.042 --> 00:48:31.343
I'm like, where is he?

1279
00:48:31.363 --> 00:48:33.184
And he had probably gone out to smoke

1280
00:48:34.046 --> 00:48:34.566
Something I want.

1281
00:48:34.766 --> 00:48:35.627
Yeah.

1282
00:48:35.787 --> 00:48:46.851
And then when someone came and found him, I had already sang this melody in my phone and he was like, okay, bet, when we're done with this idea then, I think we're maybe working on You Hurt Me Too at the time.

1283
00:48:47.051 --> 00:48:47.332
Okay.

1284
00:48:47.412 --> 00:48:50.793
Then that melody came and he was like, okay, when we're done with this one, we'll do that one.

1285
00:48:51.173 --> 00:48:52.754
So the next day we ended up doing that.

1286
00:48:52.954 --> 00:48:59.557
Wrote the song, there was an empty second verse and I was like, I just hear Leon on it and he was like, you want me to hit him?

1287
00:48:59.837 --> 00:49:00.137
I was like.

1288
00:49:00.617 --> 00:49:02.038
Yeah, I could hit him, but you could hit him too.

1289
00:49:02.058 --> 00:49:03.219
Like, go see what he's doing.

1290
00:49:03.600 --> 00:49:04.200
So he hits him.

1291
00:49:04.380 --> 00:49:06.882
Leon happens to be in L.A. Come on.

1292
00:49:07.042 --> 00:49:09.505
I'm like, this guy is like on top of the world right now.

1293
00:49:09.525 --> 00:49:10.545
He could be anywhere in the world.

1294
00:49:10.585 --> 00:49:11.546
He's in L.A.

1295
00:49:11.746 --> 00:49:12.867
I think he was playing video games.

1296
00:49:12.887 --> 00:49:13.948
I was like, there's no way.

1297
00:49:14.028 --> 00:49:14.629
Come on now.

1298
00:49:14.649 --> 00:49:15.530
Come on.

1299
00:49:15.550 --> 00:49:16.410
Come on.

1300
00:49:16.731 --> 00:49:18.852
And so like within an hour and a half, he was there.

1301
00:49:19.773 --> 00:49:20.513
did his part.

1302
00:49:21.033 --> 00:49:27.595
And then Dixon, who I'm obsessed with, he had tasted the cookies and he said, You put a spell on them cookies.

1303
00:49:27.655 --> 00:49:28.135
I don't know.

1304
00:49:28.175 --> 00:49:28.916
Don't do it.

1305
00:49:28.936 --> 00:49:29.256
Don't do it.

1306
00:49:29.296 --> 00:49:29.676
Don't do it.

1307
00:49:29.696 --> 00:49:31.596
They're gonna be like, your hair's in the cookies.

1308
00:49:31.616 --> 00:49:32.277
I got this song.

1309
00:49:32.317 --> 00:49:32.957
I gotta get it out.

1310
00:49:32.997 --> 00:49:33.757
I gotta get it out.

1311
00:49:33.877 --> 00:49:34.237
Please.

1312
00:49:34.697 --> 00:49:38.078
So Dixon happened to text me and he's like, yo, I'm thinking about this cookies.

1313
00:49:38.098 --> 00:49:38.958
I was like, swear.

1314
00:49:39.178 --> 00:49:39.999
I made them right now.

1315
00:49:40.139 --> 00:49:41.599
Also, we're making this crazy song.

1316
00:49:41.619 --> 00:49:43.100
So he comes in and likes it's a background.

1317
00:49:43.120 --> 00:49:44.200
I told you, it's a spell on the cookies.

1318
00:49:44.860 --> 00:49:45.921
Y'all better be careful.

1319
00:49:46.682 --> 00:49:48.764
Victoria Monet gonna put a spell on the cookies.

1320
00:49:48.784 --> 00:49:49.905
I promise, I promise.

1321
00:49:49.925 --> 00:49:52.447
The cookies are safe, even the vegan ones.

1322
00:49:52.968 --> 00:49:53.809
Even the vegan ones.

1323
00:49:54.849 --> 00:49:56.971
She's got to distract you with the veganism.

1324
00:49:57.252 --> 00:49:59.474
Gluten free, made in a nut free environment.

1325
00:49:59.794 --> 00:50:01.135
What is in the cookie, in a whisper?

1326
00:50:02.755 --> 00:50:03.555
It's good, a song.

1327
00:50:03.916 --> 00:50:07.398
If it's gluten free, it's vegan and gluten free.

1328
00:50:07.418 --> 00:50:08.778
You said a song, yeah, a spell.

1329
00:50:08.879 --> 00:50:09.539
A spell.

1330
00:50:10.119 --> 00:50:10.900
Keep singing.

1331
00:50:10.940 --> 00:50:12.661
Here, here you go with the rumors.

1332
00:50:12.681 --> 00:50:13.641
Oh.

1333
00:50:14.522 --> 00:50:15.002
Oh.

1334
00:50:15.202 --> 00:50:16.023
Oh.

1335
00:50:16.523 --> 00:50:16.943
That's crazy.

1336
00:50:16.963 --> 00:50:18.684
You know what other song I love is single?

1337
00:50:19.084 --> 00:50:19.365
Oh, yeah.

1338
00:50:19.925 --> 00:50:21.246
It's almost like a party anthem.

1339
00:50:21.286 --> 00:50:21.626
Yeah.

1340
00:50:21.646 --> 00:50:24.287
That's like, all right, if you feel it, listen, I'm single now.

1341
00:50:24.327 --> 00:50:24.648
What's up?

1342
00:50:24.908 --> 00:50:26.429
But if you feel it, you better move quick.

1343
00:50:26.669 --> 00:50:27.189
What's up?

1344
00:50:27.229 --> 00:50:28.590
Can't say it's going to stay that way.

1345
00:50:28.970 --> 00:50:33.611
One of my favorite things about single is that it comes right after That's Why I Love You.

1346
00:50:33.811 --> 00:50:34.031
Yep.

1347
00:50:34.171 --> 00:50:37.932
The juxtaposition is so crazy to me because That's Why I Love You is so whimsical.

1348
00:50:37.972 --> 00:50:39.212
And it's like, I love you forever.

1349
00:50:39.232 --> 00:50:43.193
And the next one is like, I'm drunk and I'm single.

1350
00:50:43.213 --> 00:50:43.893
What you trying to do?

1351
00:50:43.933 --> 00:50:44.333
I'm single.

1352
00:50:44.353 --> 00:50:47.574
Lisa has such like a ease about it.

1353
00:50:47.594 --> 00:50:48.274
Thank you.

1354
00:50:48.434 --> 00:50:49.035
And I just love it.

1355
00:50:49.215 --> 00:50:51.375
I put single, like a snippet of single.

1356
00:50:51.875 --> 00:50:55.496
Like I played it on a radio station and the internet ate me up.

1357
00:50:56.420 --> 00:50:59.101
I just played the hook and they were like, this is trash.

1358
00:50:59.341 --> 00:51:00.002
What?

1359
00:51:00.042 --> 00:51:00.782
This is the worst.

1360
00:51:00.802 --> 00:51:02.903
Like girl, if this is what this album is about, I quit on you.

1361
00:51:03.383 --> 00:51:04.464
It was bad.

1362
00:51:04.504 --> 00:51:04.904
It was bad.

1363
00:51:04.924 --> 00:51:10.006
I was like, I think I need to go in a different direction, but I think I need to be simple.

1364
00:51:10.166 --> 00:51:12.527
Uh oh, I thought y'all was gonna eat this up.

1365
00:51:13.188 --> 00:51:14.788
No, they were like, I hate it.

1366
00:51:14.888 --> 00:51:15.409
I hate you.

1367
00:51:15.429 --> 00:51:16.649
I hate everything you do.

1368
00:51:17.009 --> 00:51:17.810
That's what it was giving.

1369
00:51:18.370 --> 00:51:22.772
But I think maybe in the context of the album, you'll understand it.

1370
00:51:22.812 --> 00:51:25.033
And the verses and Bryson's verse,

1371
00:51:26.458 --> 00:51:32.862
I think people just have such high expectations and me making a simple hook, which I feel like works for the general public.

1372
00:51:33.123 --> 00:51:34.323
We love simple.

1373
00:51:34.363 --> 00:51:36.385
Let the song go far with a simple hook.

1374
00:51:36.425 --> 00:51:38.386
I feel like All My Mama was kind of the same thing.

1375
00:51:38.886 --> 00:51:45.311
So in the context of the album with the verses, I hope people that tweeted down on it changed their mind.

1376
00:51:45.331 --> 00:51:48.473
And if not, there's hopefully millions of others that disagree.

1377
00:51:48.553 --> 00:51:49.174
They disagree.

1378
00:51:49.414 --> 00:51:50.095
I am one of them.

1379
00:51:50.155 --> 00:51:50.396
Yeah.

1380
00:51:50.516 --> 00:51:51.017
I love it hard.

1381
00:51:51.037 --> 00:51:51.577
Thank you.

1382
00:51:51.637 --> 00:51:51.858
Thank you.

1383
00:51:51.878 --> 00:51:54.842
I also love that you, there was some response to the music early.

1384
00:51:55.082 --> 00:51:55.343
Yeah.

1385
00:51:55.383 --> 00:52:01.411
And you were like, okay, you're entitled, like on the page, on, in the chat, like, all right, that's, you're entitled to your opinion.

1386
00:52:01.451 --> 00:52:01.692
For sure.

1387
00:52:01.792 --> 00:52:02.933
But you got to say it like that.

1388
00:52:04.273 --> 00:52:06.374
I appreciated that you met the energy.

1389
00:52:07.014 --> 00:52:12.955
A lot of people, and I think in a lot of ways, and for good reason, we just like, we don't engage.

1390
00:52:13.035 --> 00:52:17.536
But this is your art, this is your work, this is your life force you're putting out.

1391
00:52:17.616 --> 00:52:32.019
Yeah, and I also have to, well, we all have to remember that there really is no right or wrong way to do art, and if you're judging it based on success, that's one thing, or if you're judging it based off good and bad, the metric is wide and dependent on who is listening.

1392
00:52:32.499 --> 00:52:40.409
So there's lots of different parameters to take into consideration as to why maybe someone doesn't like something or they do.

1393
00:52:40.589 --> 00:52:47.537
It also, without the proper reasoning listed, it could be just they don't like the mix or they don't like your voice on this frequency.

1394
00:52:47.557 --> 00:52:49.380
Or they were in a bad frequency that day.

1395
00:52:49.920 --> 00:52:50.660
And there was nothing about you.

1396
00:52:50.720 --> 00:52:53.761
Also there's that, because maybe you're just on the frequency of hater.

1397
00:52:53.781 --> 00:52:54.281
Hello.

1398
00:52:54.301 --> 00:52:56.262
That's your life, not mine.

1399
00:52:56.502 --> 00:52:58.162
But I welcome critiques.

1400
00:52:58.202 --> 00:53:04.244
I also want to become better based on what my consumers are feeling.

1401
00:53:04.324 --> 00:53:08.305
So I encourage it, but also I would like it to be said nicely.

1402
00:53:08.325 --> 00:53:08.765
Constructed.

1403
00:53:08.825 --> 00:53:09.225
Constructive.

1404
00:53:09.245 --> 00:53:19.054
Yeah, constructive versus tearing someone down publicly because it's a humiliation ritual and you want a response or you want to go viral.

1405
00:53:19.094 --> 00:53:21.135
All of that stuff feels very lame to me.

1406
00:53:21.476 --> 00:53:24.558
But I'm not afraid of being like, I think you can do better.

1407
00:53:25.038 --> 00:53:25.559
I'm down.

1408
00:53:25.579 --> 00:53:27.841
I'm like, okay, yeah, we'll try to do better next time.

1409
00:53:27.901 --> 00:53:28.641
Well, I think you did.

1410
00:53:29.362 --> 00:53:29.922
Thank you.

1411
00:53:30.323 --> 00:53:35.145
And with the understanding of frequency and responsibility, I need to apologize to you.

1412
00:53:35.625 --> 00:53:39.867
And I haven't had a time to like sit down with you or talk to you at any length.

1413
00:53:40.028 --> 00:53:42.529
Like, you know, we were just out clowning around a little bit.

1414
00:53:42.649 --> 00:53:42.929
Yeah.

1415
00:53:43.029 --> 00:53:44.010
But I need to apologize to you.

1416
00:53:44.030 --> 00:53:46.391
I remember seeing you at a Beyonce event.

1417
00:53:46.551 --> 00:53:46.791
Yeah.

1418
00:53:47.131 --> 00:53:47.611
With John.

1419
00:53:47.631 --> 00:53:48.212
Yeah.

1420
00:53:48.232 --> 00:53:48.412
Yeah.

1421
00:53:48.912 --> 00:54:00.809
And I think I said to you some things that were like I felt about you two in your relationship and what I felt like it represented within black love and black culture and all those things.

1422
00:54:01.409 --> 00:54:05.034
And I was having a conversation right here with Kerry Washington recently.

1423
00:54:05.895 --> 00:54:13.577
And I was asking her about Nnamdi, understanding also her reservation and her protection over her relationship.

1424
00:54:13.657 --> 00:54:13.917
Yeah.

1425
00:54:14.657 --> 00:54:18.958
And in the middle of like talking about it, I realized like, oh, this is why.

1426
00:54:18.978 --> 00:54:27.080
This is why we protect that part of ourselves, even though it was like glowing and nice and beautiful and kind.

1427
00:54:27.641 --> 00:54:29.221
I also understand that.

1428
00:54:31.225 --> 00:54:35.967
how some of us can interpret that as pressure, image they must then uphold.

1429
00:54:36.207 --> 00:54:36.507
Yeah.

1430
00:54:37.087 --> 00:54:42.749
And I wasn't as careful or responsible with my words to you two.

1431
00:54:42.989 --> 00:54:44.930
No, I didn't take it that way at all.

1432
00:54:45.070 --> 00:54:45.930
But you know what I mean?

1433
00:54:46.030 --> 00:54:49.612
I know your intentions, and I think that's more than enough.

1434
00:54:50.072 --> 00:54:53.213
I think you wanted to send a message of positivity and support.

1435
00:54:53.773 --> 00:55:00.216
I didn't really feel pressure because anything that was said couldn't make up for whatever was lacking in our relationship.

1436
00:55:00.237 --> 00:55:01.997
That was up to us to determine.

1437
00:55:02.037 --> 00:55:03.358
And the story's not over.

1438
00:55:03.398 --> 00:55:09.241
I don't know if there will be a whirlwind of change that brings about the success of our story and our family.

1439
00:55:09.682 --> 00:55:17.486
But also there's a reason why we're separated and it may be beneficial for both of us to go these separate ways and Hazel's parents need.

1440
00:55:18.712 --> 00:55:21.473
they both need different things.

1441
00:55:21.913 --> 00:55:25.174
And in order to make the best balance for her, we have to do that.

1442
00:55:25.214 --> 00:55:30.216
But I would never be upset with you for coming and being supportive.

1443
00:55:30.236 --> 00:55:33.457
I think that's beautiful because also, we represented that at a time.

1444
00:55:33.877 --> 00:55:37.058
And that exists still on the internet and it still can be visible.

1445
00:55:37.658 --> 00:55:43.940
But also, I would like to represent now the ability to still survive and come back with

1446
00:55:44.380 --> 00:55:59.272
when you're single or when you're longing for love and still have a fairytale ending, or even if there's never a person, it's really inspiring to see that as a mom, you're still completely happy with the love of your life and your children and you still have a beautiful fairytale this way.

1447
00:55:59.532 --> 00:56:00.253
This way.

1448
00:56:00.273 --> 00:56:02.815
Disney has done a really, really great job

1449
00:56:04.271 --> 00:56:17.525
With the fantasy of it, but you know, maybe the story now is like, Disney today would be a story of a single mom who's just her miracle and the love of her life is her family and her children or her work.

1450
00:56:17.645 --> 00:56:19.286
And she's like completely happy there.

1451
00:56:19.406 --> 00:56:20.187
You know what I mean?

1452
00:56:20.207 --> 00:56:20.408
Yeah.

1453
00:56:20.788 --> 00:56:22.510
Let's like expand the story.

1454
00:56:22.610 --> 00:56:23.831
Is it possible for you to date?

1455
00:56:24.672 --> 00:56:24.932
Um, yeah.

1456
00:56:25.152 --> 00:56:25.393
I haven't.

1457
00:56:25.453 --> 00:56:27.535
Because I can't imagine you're not on the apps.

1458
00:56:28.327 --> 00:56:28.947
No, I've thought about it.

1459
00:56:29.468 --> 00:56:29.988
Have you really?

1460
00:56:30.068 --> 00:56:30.488
Yeah.

1461
00:56:30.508 --> 00:56:33.810
I was like, what app could, I'm not my person.

1462
00:56:33.950 --> 00:56:35.191
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1463
00:56:35.211 --> 00:56:43.235
I mean, I think dating, it would have to be an extra special person because all of my free time,

1464
00:56:44.625 --> 00:56:47.789
or any time that I have is dedicated to Hazel.

1465
00:56:47.929 --> 00:56:51.133
It's like, she's first, she's first, she's first, she's first.

1466
00:56:51.673 --> 00:56:54.697
Then after that, it's like friends and family.

1467
00:56:54.777 --> 00:56:58.682
And then after that, maybe finding time to get to know somebody.

1468
00:56:58.702 --> 00:57:03.668
But I don't know, it's interesting to be starting over at this age, like, so what's your favorite color again?

1469
00:57:04.388 --> 00:57:06.649
All right, what kind of food do you like?

1470
00:57:06.689 --> 00:57:08.130
That whole thing that we have to do.

1471
00:57:08.150 --> 00:57:09.370
The getting to know you part.

1472
00:57:09.610 --> 00:57:13.472
Yeah, and I don't, at this current time, I haven't had the time to do that.

1473
00:57:13.892 --> 00:57:26.937
I've been super focused, I've, candidly, I've been celibate, I've been growing spiritually and reserving my energy and culminating it so that I do have enough brightness to give when that comes or whatever.

1474
00:57:27.517 --> 00:57:30.518
now, you know, to my to my work and to my daughter.

1475
00:57:30.598 --> 00:57:32.859
So I'm trying to be patient.

1476
00:57:32.919 --> 00:57:38.002
And sometimes it's like, damn, need that.

1477
00:57:38.062 --> 00:57:39.322
How much patience we got.

1478
00:57:39.362 --> 00:57:39.702
Right.

1479
00:57:39.762 --> 00:57:40.603
We do the patience thing.

1480
00:57:40.643 --> 00:57:41.083
I think we did.

1481
00:57:41.643 --> 00:57:41.983
Right.

1482
00:57:42.263 --> 00:57:44.524
But I guess single single is my mating call.

1483
00:57:45.145 --> 00:57:47.045
It's like, hey, don't forget about me.

1484
00:57:47.145 --> 00:57:47.746
I'm single.

1485
00:57:48.626 --> 00:57:49.927
So hopefully the song blows up.

1486
00:57:49.947 --> 00:57:52.068
Did you just slip into the Chloe Bailey?

1487
00:57:52.208 --> 00:57:52.468
Yeah.

1488
00:57:53.448 --> 00:57:56.591
Just let you go, hey, she's so cute.

1489
00:57:57.051 --> 00:57:59.673
Don't forget about me.

1490
00:57:59.773 --> 00:58:00.714
That is so funny.

1491
00:58:00.954 --> 00:58:01.855
I love her.

1492
00:58:01.955 --> 00:58:02.756
So same.

1493
00:58:02.776 --> 00:58:04.377
Okay, well on that note, you wanna play a game?

1494
00:58:05.018 --> 00:58:05.958
Yeah, let's play a game.

1495
00:58:05.978 --> 00:58:06.839
But can I finish this taco?

1496
00:58:06.859 --> 00:58:08.000
Yeah, come on, bring it in.

1497
00:58:08.020 --> 00:58:09.441
She said, but I'm gonna finish this taco.

1498
00:58:09.481 --> 00:58:10.262
Real quick, one more bite.

1499
00:58:11.103 --> 00:58:11.923
Yes.

1500
00:58:17.288 --> 00:58:20.210
You know, any excuse, see if we can get you to sing a little bit.

1501
00:58:21.060 --> 00:58:21.861
So we're playing a game.

1502
00:58:21.961 --> 00:58:23.862
It's called Crack the Track.

1503
00:58:23.982 --> 00:58:24.383
Okay.

1504
00:58:24.503 --> 00:58:29.107
We're going to get some emoji clues, and then you're going to buzz in if you think you know the song.

1505
00:58:29.127 --> 00:58:32.510
If you win the buzzer, then you just start singing the song you think it is.

1506
00:58:32.870 --> 00:58:33.250
So you ready?

1507
00:58:33.470 --> 00:58:33.671
Yeah.

1508
00:58:33.851 --> 00:58:34.892
Okay, you want to grab your buzzer?

1509
00:58:35.392 --> 00:58:35.832
Kind of.

1510
00:58:35.993 --> 00:58:36.393
Should I?

1511
00:58:36.473 --> 00:58:37.474
I mean, give me a tip.

1512
00:58:37.574 --> 00:58:37.954
I mean, yeah.

1513
00:58:38.234 --> 00:58:39.055
Are you competitive?

1514
00:58:39.976 --> 00:58:40.657
Yeah.

1515
00:58:41.297 --> 00:58:42.658
That's what I'm saying.

1516
00:58:42.999 --> 00:58:45.240
She's like, I want to be friends when we've been here.

1517
00:58:45.421 --> 00:58:45.781
First one.

1518
00:58:51.552 --> 00:58:52.052
Only the top.

1519
00:58:53.333 --> 00:58:53.553
Right?

1520
00:58:53.613 --> 00:58:54.093
Yeah.

1521
00:58:54.133 --> 00:58:56.554
Only the top girl.

1522
00:58:57.474 --> 00:58:58.034
Come on.

1523
00:58:58.374 --> 00:59:01.175
First of all, being on tour with Bruno Mars.

1524
00:59:01.616 --> 00:59:02.296
How did it happen?

1525
00:59:02.316 --> 00:59:08.938
Did you get a phone call and was like, hey, I don't know what you're up to, but we're about to do this tour, or were you like bugging him?

1526
00:59:09.258 --> 00:59:09.918
No, no, no.

1527
00:59:10.079 --> 00:59:10.879
It was always a dream.

1528
00:59:11.806 --> 00:59:14.329
But it came from the right channels.

1529
00:59:14.349 --> 00:59:15.631
He didn't personally call.

1530
00:59:15.651 --> 00:59:15.751
Okay.

1531
00:59:16.312 --> 00:59:19.095
But when I agreed to go, he did.

1532
00:59:19.195 --> 00:59:21.037
He was like, we going on tour, baby.

1533
00:59:21.238 --> 00:59:22.079
Oh, that's crazy.

1534
00:59:22.099 --> 00:59:23.040
Yeah, it was really cool.

1535
00:59:23.180 --> 00:59:27.045
During the making of my album, he was at the studio next door.

1536
00:59:28.343 --> 00:59:32.207
by design because I knew D-Maw was working with him and I wanted to work with D-Maw on my album too.

1537
00:59:32.227 --> 00:59:34.830
So I thought he could just pop back and forth really easily.

1538
00:59:34.890 --> 00:59:35.110
Yep.

1539
00:59:35.431 --> 00:59:36.892
What I'm hearing is you were resourceful.

1540
00:59:37.252 --> 00:59:37.813
Yeah.

1541
00:59:37.853 --> 00:59:38.814
You said, okay, no problem.

1542
00:59:39.275 --> 00:59:40.035
I'll be- Where y'all at?

1543
00:59:40.196 --> 00:59:41.597
I'm gonna pull up.

1544
00:59:41.757 --> 00:59:42.698
Right, exactly.

1545
00:59:42.758 --> 00:59:45.121
So he was able to hear some of the music that I was making.

1546
00:59:45.597 --> 00:59:46.258
Worked out.

1547
00:59:46.338 --> 00:59:46.678
Right?

1548
00:59:46.778 --> 00:59:51.101
And so do you remember what it was like to walk onto that stage?

1549
00:59:51.562 --> 00:59:53.784
I mean, these stadiums are incredible, right?

1550
00:59:53.804 --> 00:59:54.704
That you were playing in.

1551
00:59:54.724 --> 00:59:57.527
Do you remember what it was like to walk on that stage and be like, I'm about to perform here?

1552
00:59:57.807 --> 00:59:58.948
Like it looked like magic.

1553
00:59:58.968 --> 01:00:02.551
I had to go to the bathroom first.

1554
01:00:02.951 --> 01:00:05.233
Seriously, like my nerves, I was like, oh shit.

1555
01:00:05.711 --> 01:00:07.192
Literally, like I got to go right now.

1556
01:00:07.212 --> 01:00:07.792
This is crazy.

1557
01:00:07.812 --> 01:00:08.573
I'll be right back, Yana.

1558
01:00:08.593 --> 01:00:09.253
Hold the show.

1559
01:00:09.353 --> 01:00:10.614
Hold the show.

1560
01:00:10.894 --> 01:00:12.075
Cause this is crazy.

1561
01:00:12.095 --> 01:00:14.756
Like, and it makes you want to be emotional right before.

1562
01:00:14.796 --> 01:00:17.378
But the first song I do is all right, which is not emotional.

1563
01:00:17.418 --> 01:00:19.219
It's like, I'm that bitch type energy.

1564
01:00:19.239 --> 01:00:23.861
And I'm like, Ooh, these two emotions are not quite matching up, but I'm gonna figure it out.

1565
01:00:24.161 --> 01:00:26.843
Then even after the show, like the first show.

1566
01:00:26.883 --> 01:00:29.444
And then I mean, really every show, just like, Oh my God.

1567
01:00:29.705 --> 01:00:32.866
The adrenaline and the dream come into fruition.

1568
01:00:32.926 --> 01:00:33.647
All of that is like,

1569
01:00:34.503 --> 01:00:38.146
I remember just watching y'all walk in front of the Eiffel Tower.

1570
01:00:39.047 --> 01:00:42.069
And I was like, she's got to be like, this is a dream.

1571
01:00:42.330 --> 01:00:43.351
A dream, right?

1572
01:00:43.371 --> 01:00:45.412
I mean, I got to take Hazel to the Eiffel Tower.

1573
01:00:45.512 --> 01:00:48.535
So she really loved that.

1574
01:00:48.595 --> 01:00:50.817
Like, even at midnight when it sparkles.

1575
01:00:50.837 --> 01:00:52.058
That's when we were on a boat ride.

1576
01:00:52.598 --> 01:00:53.839
And she got to see it sparkle.

1577
01:00:53.879 --> 01:00:56.882
And it became such a core memory, I believe.

1578
01:00:56.922 --> 01:00:58.203
Yeah, it's so special.

1579
01:00:58.343 --> 01:00:59.124
Paris is like...

1580
01:01:00.602 --> 01:01:01.082
Unmatched.

1581
01:01:01.223 --> 01:01:01.523
Yeah.

1582
01:01:01.723 --> 01:01:03.264
All right, next question, or next clue.

1583
01:01:03.664 --> 01:01:05.086
Oh yeah, you get a, so then you move.

1584
01:01:05.166 --> 01:01:05.846
Oh, wonderful.

1585
01:01:05.906 --> 01:01:07.728
Because I wasn't expecting you to go that quick.

1586
01:01:08.108 --> 01:01:10.530
You saw the door and you were like, door open.

1587
01:01:10.670 --> 01:01:14.193
All right, next one, here we go.

1588
01:01:14.213 --> 01:01:17.756
Rock the boat.

1589
01:01:19.702 --> 01:01:20.182
Why is yours?

1590
01:01:20.222 --> 01:01:21.964
Rock, bubble, Is that my song?

1591
01:01:22.244 --> 01:01:24.726
A little, the, chain, Oh, the rock!

1592
01:01:24.746 --> 01:01:25.327
The rock!

1593
01:01:25.367 --> 01:01:26.127
The rock!

1594
01:01:26.147 --> 01:01:26.428
The rock!

1595
01:01:26.468 --> 01:01:26.848
The rock!

1596
01:01:26.868 --> 01:01:27.088
The rock!

1597
01:01:27.188 --> 01:01:27.508
The rock!

1598
01:01:27.709 --> 01:01:27.889
The rock!

1599
01:01:27.909 --> 01:01:28.229
The rock!

1600
01:01:28.549 --> 01:01:28.810
The rock!

1601
01:01:29.050 --> 01:01:29.310
The rock!

1602
01:01:29.330 --> 01:01:29.570
The rock!

1603
01:01:29.850 --> 01:01:30.071
The rock!

1604
01:01:30.091 --> 01:01:30.271
The rock!

1605
01:01:30.291 --> 01:01:30.911
Oh, it's so cheesy.

1606
01:01:31.131 --> 01:01:31.432
The rock!

1607
01:01:31.452 --> 01:01:32.012
The rock!

1608
01:01:32.212 --> 01:01:33.473
That is probably my favorite song.

1609
01:01:33.934 --> 01:01:34.154
Ever?

1610
01:01:34.574 --> 01:01:34.915
No joke.

1611
01:01:34.935 --> 01:01:35.655
Of all the times.

1612
01:01:35.875 --> 01:01:42.721
I just, there's something about every single time it plays, I will listen to it all the way through and it will never get old to me.

1613
01:01:42.741 --> 01:01:43.241
I love it.

1614
01:01:43.261 --> 01:01:43.882
Of all time.

1615
01:01:44.612 --> 01:01:45.553
Top five for sure.

1616
01:01:45.894 --> 01:01:47.556
This one just reminds me of in the studio.

1617
01:01:47.696 --> 01:01:49.959
You said of all songs.

1618
01:01:50.159 --> 01:01:51.081
Best song of all time.

1619
01:01:51.401 --> 01:01:59.392
Well, we were talking about in the studio, it became a joke that like, when you wanna, someone plays their music and you're like, you don't really love it.

1620
01:02:01.679 --> 01:02:03.660
You can be like, that was one of the songs of all time.

1621
01:02:04.040 --> 01:02:08.884
But you can't say best, you can't say, that was the songs of all time.

1622
01:02:09.244 --> 01:02:11.866
And they might just skip the part that you didn't, because you didn't say best.

1623
01:02:11.886 --> 01:02:13.127
Fill it in with what they want to hear.

1624
01:02:13.147 --> 01:02:13.967
They're like, thank you.

1625
01:02:14.247 --> 01:02:15.268
I'm like, yeah.

1626
01:02:15.588 --> 01:02:16.709
It's one of the songs of all time.

1627
01:02:16.889 --> 01:02:18.010
It's one of the songs of all time.

1628
01:02:18.530 --> 01:02:19.911
What's one of your top five?

1629
01:02:20.392 --> 01:02:22.253
Because another one for me is definitely X Factor.

1630
01:02:23.194 --> 01:02:23.754
Lauryn Hill.

1631
01:02:23.994 --> 01:02:24.895
That's a crazy one.

1632
01:02:25.075 --> 01:02:27.056
That is one of the best songs of all time.

1633
01:02:27.076 --> 01:02:27.477
Of all time.

1634
01:02:27.697 --> 01:02:29.398
Me is Human Nature.

1635
01:02:31.029 --> 01:02:31.550
Why?

1636
01:02:31.951 --> 01:02:33.052
Why?

1637
01:02:33.112 --> 01:02:36.618
Yeah!

1638
01:02:36.798 --> 01:02:37.800
Like crazy.

1639
01:02:37.860 --> 01:02:38.841
What energy.

1640
01:02:38.921 --> 01:02:39.342
Fire.

1641
01:02:39.823 --> 01:02:42.227
And don't know what any of the lyrics are.

1642
01:02:42.498 --> 01:02:44.420
You don't know reaching out.

1643
01:02:46.161 --> 01:02:50.845
Yeah.

1644
01:02:51.465 --> 01:02:52.866
See that girl.

1645
01:02:53.767 --> 01:02:55.108
It's just, I love it.

1646
01:02:55.128 --> 01:02:55.688
What's the next word?

1647
01:02:55.889 --> 01:02:57.009
How about my shoulder?

1648
01:02:57.710 --> 01:02:59.331
How about my shoulder?

1649
01:02:59.511 --> 01:03:00.272
Yeah, see?

1650
01:03:00.712 --> 01:03:03.234
Sweet seducing sight.

1651
01:03:04.435 --> 01:03:05.616
Sweet seducing sight?

1652
01:03:05.836 --> 01:03:06.837
What's that mean, right?

1653
01:03:06.877 --> 01:03:07.698
Sight, sight, sight.

1654
01:03:07.718 --> 01:03:09.039
You see here, you're seduced.

1655
01:03:09.920 --> 01:03:11.281
Oh, sight.

1656
01:03:12.876 --> 01:03:16.318
I'm afraid and I say why, why?

1657
01:03:17.518 --> 01:03:19.519
I love a question in a hook.

1658
01:03:19.599 --> 01:03:20.200
It's like why?

1659
01:03:20.220 --> 01:03:21.740
I don't know, I don't know.

1660
01:03:21.760 --> 01:03:23.461
Tell me why, Michael.

1661
01:03:23.521 --> 01:03:24.362
Tell me why, Michael.

1662
01:03:24.622 --> 01:03:25.702
Okay, so I got this one.

1663
01:03:26.323 --> 01:03:26.883
You know what?

1664
01:03:26.923 --> 01:03:27.523
Who knew?

1665
01:03:28.163 --> 01:03:32.486
Who knew that journey would take us from Aaliyah to Lauryn Hill to Mike?

1666
01:03:32.566 --> 01:03:32.846
Michael!

1667
01:03:33.046 --> 01:03:33.546
Let's go.

1668
01:03:33.566 --> 01:03:34.526
All right, next one.

1669
01:03:35.787 --> 01:03:37.108
I Love You Too.

1670
01:03:38.782 --> 01:03:41.425
I don't even know the answer, but it's devilish girl.

1671
01:03:41.646 --> 01:03:41.946
I don't know.

1672
01:03:41.966 --> 01:03:43.127
I'm making it.

1673
01:03:43.207 --> 01:03:43.788
Did you just say?

1674
01:03:43.808 --> 01:03:45.290
This is a devilish girl.

1675
01:03:46.431 --> 01:03:48.473
She's a white devilish girl.

1676
01:03:48.493 --> 01:03:50.796
Oh, she's a yellow devilish girl.

1677
01:03:50.896 --> 01:03:52.497
I'm going to say...

1678
01:03:54.523 --> 01:03:56.044
This is your naughty girl.

1679
01:03:56.064 --> 01:03:59.465
Oh, oh, naughty.

1680
01:03:59.505 --> 01:04:01.366
Gonna take this body out.

1681
01:04:01.786 --> 01:04:03.346
I know you want my body.

1682
01:04:03.366 --> 01:04:04.427
Good night.

1683
01:04:04.447 --> 01:04:05.807
Be a naughty girl.

1684
01:04:06.107 --> 01:04:06.808
I ain't.

1685
01:04:06.828 --> 01:04:08.328
Calling all my girls.

1686
01:04:09.269 --> 01:04:11.049
Gonna take this body out.

1687
01:04:11.850 --> 01:04:12.730
Yeah, is that right?

1688
01:04:13.150 --> 01:04:17.572
Because then I was like, if it's not that, I was going to go, uh, what y'all know about a...

1689
01:04:18.535 --> 01:04:20.056
Super-model.

1690
01:04:20.557 --> 01:04:21.858
This girl with the pigtails.

1691
01:04:22.758 --> 01:04:24.640
Oh, bad girl!

1692
01:04:25.000 --> 01:04:30.485
Oh, is it bad girl?

1693
01:04:30.565 --> 01:04:32.126
Oh, Samantha!

1694
01:04:32.406 --> 01:04:33.367
No, I got that!

1695
01:04:33.667 --> 01:04:34.408
I got them both!

1696
01:04:34.488 --> 01:04:35.448
It's a different girl!

1697
01:04:35.468 --> 01:04:37.830
90 girl and a bad girl is a different girl.

1698
01:04:37.850 --> 01:04:38.731
But they both bad!

1699
01:04:38.811 --> 01:04:40.052
And I would say I'm right with both of them!

1700
01:04:40.072 --> 01:04:41.113
They're both mischievous.

1701
01:04:42.634 --> 01:04:43.715
That's crazy.

1702
01:04:43.735 --> 01:04:44.536
All right, but that's good.

1703
01:04:44.556 --> 01:04:45.256
Bad girl.

1704
01:04:45.396 --> 01:04:46.477
I mean, come on, Usher.

1705
01:04:46.697 --> 01:04:46.978
Just...

1706
01:04:48.047 --> 01:04:49.487
Beyonce just in the music video.

1707
01:04:49.688 --> 01:04:50.048
Next one.

1708
01:04:56.529 --> 01:04:59.690
Juicy fruit.

1709
01:05:00.831 --> 01:05:01.371
Juicy.

1710
01:05:02.171 --> 01:05:02.571
That's it?

1711
01:05:03.231 --> 01:05:03.991
Juicy fruit.

1712
01:05:04.431 --> 01:05:07.412
It should be, it should be.

1713
01:05:07.832 --> 01:05:11.153
I was gonna say the peach emoji reminds me of ass like that, but it's not ass like that.

1714
01:05:11.993 --> 01:05:13.474
Is it my song juicy?

1715
01:05:16.527 --> 01:05:20.750
You know that I like it when you get real close to me.

1716
01:05:21.130 --> 01:05:25.092
If love is in alignment, and don't waste no time about it.

1717
01:05:26.013 --> 01:05:29.915
When I get excited, like na-na-na-na-na.

1718
01:05:31.857 --> 01:05:34.459
I just, do you sound like this all the time?

1719
01:05:34.479 --> 01:05:35.619
You just be singing like this all the time?

1720
01:05:35.639 --> 01:05:37.380
You just be walking in the grocery store, you be sounding like that?

1721
01:05:37.520 --> 01:05:43.983
You know, lately I've been singing to Hazel in like Disney, like as a Disney princess to put her to bed.

1722
01:05:44.143 --> 01:05:48.145
And she's like, she said the other day, she's like, can you sing, can you sound beautiful?

1723
01:05:48.185 --> 01:05:49.906
Your songs are helping me go to sleep.

1724
01:05:49.926 --> 01:05:50.927
Can you sing another one?

1725
01:05:50.947 --> 01:05:52.507
So I'm like making up stories.

1726
01:05:53.008 --> 01:05:53.968
And I'm like, wait a minute.

1727
01:05:54.228 --> 01:05:54.949
Let me record this one.

1728
01:05:55.909 --> 01:05:57.090
I'm going to have to finish the life.

1729
01:05:57.130 --> 01:05:57.651
Hey, Siri.

1730
01:05:59.052 --> 01:06:00.053
Record this one.

1731
01:06:00.493 --> 01:06:03.656
I love that she's also, she's like, Mommy, more of that, please.

1732
01:06:03.776 --> 01:06:04.136
Yeah.

1733
01:06:04.196 --> 01:06:04.837
I'm not mad at you.

1734
01:06:04.937 --> 01:06:05.297
I'm not done.

1735
01:06:05.317 --> 01:06:08.360
Listen, you're a New York Times bestselling author for your children's book.

1736
01:06:08.680 --> 01:06:10.221
Maybe it's time to do a children's album.

1737
01:06:10.401 --> 01:06:11.963
I'm not mad with Hazel.

1738
01:06:13.155 --> 01:06:14.495
Maybe Hazel should just do it, you know?

1739
01:06:14.816 --> 01:06:15.876
I mean, come on.

1740
01:06:15.896 --> 01:06:16.956
She's a real star of the family.

1741
01:06:17.036 --> 01:06:18.777
I'm gonna be honest with you, Hazel.

1742
01:06:18.817 --> 01:06:19.977
I'm gonna keep it real with you.

1743
01:06:20.017 --> 01:06:20.817
I'm gonna keep it real with you.

1744
01:06:20.977 --> 01:06:23.478
Hazel gonna give y'all the blues.

1745
01:06:23.558 --> 01:06:25.559
That little girl is a superstar.

1746
01:06:25.919 --> 01:06:28.580
She gonna give y'all the blues.

1747
01:06:28.920 --> 01:06:30.700
Last time I saw her, I was like, how you doing, Miss Hazel?

1748
01:06:30.720 --> 01:06:32.741
She was like, I'm fine, thank you very much.

1749
01:06:32.761 --> 01:06:36.062
I said, ooh, and like this.

1750
01:06:36.847 --> 01:06:38.169
with the blinks and walked away.

1751
01:06:38.250 --> 01:06:39.372
I said, I know that's right.

1752
01:06:39.392 --> 01:06:40.834
She's been giving me a run for it for real.

1753
01:06:40.854 --> 01:06:41.896
I was like, this is five.

1754
01:06:42.337 --> 01:06:43.098
What's 15?

1755
01:06:43.680 --> 01:06:44.381
I pray for you.

1756
01:06:44.481 --> 01:06:44.902
I don't know.

1757
01:06:45.002 --> 01:06:45.683
Keep praying.

1758
01:06:45.783 --> 01:06:46.184
Every day.

1759
01:06:46.545 --> 01:06:47.086
Every day.

1760
01:06:47.106 --> 01:06:48.669
All right, let's do this next one.

1761
01:06:52.435 --> 01:06:52.975
No scrubs?

1762
01:06:52.995 --> 01:06:55.596
I don't want no scrubs.

1763
01:06:55.816 --> 01:06:58.537
Scrubs is a kind of king getting all up from me.

1764
01:06:58.957 --> 01:07:00.458
Hanging at the passenger side.

1765
01:07:00.498 --> 01:07:01.698
Every's best friend's ride.

1766
01:07:01.958 --> 01:07:03.459
Trying to holler at me.

1767
01:07:03.959 --> 01:07:05.339
I don't know scrubs.

1768
01:07:05.359 --> 01:07:05.660
That's it?

1769
01:07:06.000 --> 01:07:07.700
Yes, thank you.

1770
01:07:08.020 --> 01:07:08.540
Ah, what?

1771
01:07:08.721 --> 01:07:09.141
What?

1772
01:07:10.281 --> 01:07:10.541
No.

1773
01:07:10.561 --> 01:07:11.221
That's real, that's real.

1774
01:07:11.261 --> 01:07:13.762
But like, that's not about to... What?

1775
01:07:14.082 --> 01:07:15.803
I got to get my head in the game.

1776
01:07:16.143 --> 01:07:16.963
I only want one.

1777
01:07:17.063 --> 01:07:17.423
Seriously.

1778
01:07:18.184 --> 01:07:18.744
Or don't win two.

1779
01:07:23.924 --> 01:07:24.444
It's two, right?

1780
01:07:24.964 --> 01:07:25.425
It's two, okay.

1781
01:07:25.845 --> 01:07:28.087
Come into the church.

1782
01:07:28.407 --> 01:07:29.148
Not the mama look.

1783
01:07:29.428 --> 01:07:31.029
Very well.

1784
01:07:31.069 --> 01:07:32.150
That is like at church.

1785
01:07:32.170 --> 01:07:34.712
You're like.

1786
01:07:34.972 --> 01:07:38.194
Did your mom ever like pinch and twist at church?

1787
01:07:38.775 --> 01:07:39.035
No.

1788
01:07:39.435 --> 01:07:41.036
My mom literally just had to look.

1789
01:07:41.277 --> 01:07:42.477
And she sometimes didn't even have to look.

1790
01:07:42.497 --> 01:07:44.179
She just had to adjust herself in the seat.

1791
01:07:46.360 --> 01:07:46.881
And it was like.

1792
01:07:48.482 --> 01:07:48.642
Fuck.

1793
01:07:48.662 --> 01:07:48.902
Fuck.

1794
01:07:49.022 --> 01:07:49.623
Fuck.

1795
01:07:50.527 --> 01:07:53.131
Remember that Bible that you're reading?

1796
01:07:53.211 --> 01:07:54.112
Yeah.

1797
01:07:55.054 --> 01:07:56.235
All the nice parts in there.

1798
01:07:56.335 --> 01:07:57.176
Yeah, right.

1799
01:07:57.196 --> 01:07:58.378
Aren't we praising him?

1800
01:07:58.478 --> 01:07:58.739
Yeah.

1801
01:07:59.359 --> 01:08:00.040
Let's praise him.

1802
01:08:00.060 --> 01:08:00.721
Praise him for now.

1803
01:08:00.841 --> 01:08:01.522
Come on, please.

1804
01:08:01.542 --> 01:08:02.263
For Jesus.

1805
01:08:02.904 --> 01:08:04.006
Okay, let's see what's the next one.

1806
01:08:10.051 --> 01:08:11.492
No, no, no, don't do it then.

1807
01:08:12.273 --> 01:08:12.773
Don't do it.

1808
01:08:13.353 --> 01:08:18.537
It's Christmas time again.

1809
01:08:18.577 --> 01:08:22.941
Christmas time again.

1810
01:08:22.961 --> 01:08:25.863
I don't know.

1811
01:08:25.923 --> 01:08:28.665
There's a big rich little girl.

1812
01:08:28.925 --> 01:08:29.766
It is.

1813
01:08:29.886 --> 01:08:32.948
Oh, oh, oh, oh.

1814
01:08:32.968 --> 01:08:33.228
Right?

1815
01:08:33.308 --> 01:08:34.449
I feel like Will Ferrell.

1816
01:08:34.669 --> 01:08:36.631
What is it?

1817
01:08:36.711 --> 01:08:37.451
Song, Mabel.

1818
01:08:37.691 --> 01:08:37.872
Is it?

1819
01:08:41.348 --> 01:08:41.908
That's not right?

1820
01:08:41.928 --> 01:08:47.592
I don't want no sleeves.

1821
01:08:48.173 --> 01:08:48.993
Right.

1822
01:08:49.774 --> 01:08:49.994
Oh!

1823
01:08:50.394 --> 01:08:50.754
Oh, oh.

1824
01:08:50.954 --> 01:08:56.218
How can I lose when I'm with you?

1825
01:08:59.140 --> 01:08:59.540
What is it?

1826
01:09:00.401 --> 01:09:01.021
How does it work?

1827
01:09:01.041 --> 01:09:01.181
Sit.

1828
01:09:01.441 --> 01:09:02.602
How does it work?

1829
01:09:02.622 --> 01:09:04.583
I just live and feel the moment.

1830
01:09:04.844 --> 01:09:06.805
Nobody, nobody like you do.

1831
01:09:06.945 --> 01:09:08.326
I can't lose.

1832
01:09:09.279 --> 01:09:11.720
When I'm with you.

1833
01:09:12.641 --> 01:09:15.942
It's so funny.

1834
01:09:15.982 --> 01:09:18.083
We have another song about sleeping.

1835
01:09:18.883 --> 01:09:21.785
Our hook is like, I slept on you so hard that I still see you in my dreams.

1836
01:09:21.805 --> 01:09:23.325
That I still see you in my dreams.

1837
01:09:23.766 --> 01:09:25.046
Is that what it is or no?

1838
01:09:25.486 --> 01:09:26.367
Damn, that's SZA.

1839
01:09:26.587 --> 01:09:35.231
The song on the album, I remember the first time I heard it, I was like, first of all, before she even comes in on the track, because what I heard, there was no even features.

1840
01:09:35.251 --> 01:09:37.432
You don't list who's on the song.

1841
01:09:37.652 --> 01:09:39.434
You just get the title.

1842
01:09:39.494 --> 01:09:42.137
So I'm listening to the song and I was like, this about to be SZA.

1843
01:09:42.558 --> 01:09:43.118
You knew that?

1844
01:09:43.198 --> 01:09:44.199
I was like, this about to be SZA.

1845
01:09:44.640 --> 01:09:46.802
And when I heard her voice, I was like, I almost broke my phone.

1846
01:09:46.943 --> 01:09:47.563
Oh shoot.

1847
01:09:47.663 --> 01:09:48.304
I was broken in half.

1848
01:09:48.324 --> 01:09:49.105
But you need that to listen.

1849
01:09:49.125 --> 01:09:50.206
I was just like, ah!

1850
01:09:50.627 --> 01:09:57.134
Tell me what it is about working with SZA that's like, yes, I need more of this, I want more of this.

1851
01:09:57.194 --> 01:09:58.796
You want something that has to happen.

1852
01:09:59.043 --> 01:10:00.304
Well, she's one of my favorites.

1853
01:10:00.604 --> 01:10:02.705
She's one of my favorites, and it's been this way for years.

1854
01:10:02.765 --> 01:10:10.930
I remember seeing her at this concert early on, a festival in LA, and I was like, this girl, she's so special, and her music is so special.

1855
01:10:10.970 --> 01:10:19.455
Her melodies feel unconventional, and her tone is so cool, and she's so cool and spiritual, and she's influential to when you feel like you want

1856
01:10:19.975 --> 01:10:25.039
to grow, I think she's like doing all of the things that would help you grow spiritually and she's so tapped in.

1857
01:10:25.600 --> 01:10:27.601
Then she's also really kind and she's fine.

1858
01:10:27.721 --> 01:10:29.022
She is so sweet.

1859
01:10:29.323 --> 01:10:32.645
It's all the things, her name is cool, everything about her is really great.

1860
01:10:32.665 --> 01:10:34.567
And don't judge me off not knowing the lyrics.

1861
01:10:34.707 --> 01:10:35.888
Baby, let me tell you something.

1862
01:10:36.088 --> 01:10:38.810
I was right there with you, because I was, did you hear what I said on Christmas song?

1863
01:10:38.830 --> 01:10:39.371
Yeah, you did.

1864
01:10:39.411 --> 01:10:40.331
You know what I'm saying?

1865
01:10:40.371 --> 01:10:42.553
I don't know why I was like, oh, they gotta be in bed before Christmas.

1866
01:10:42.633 --> 01:10:43.934
Well, you know what, that just reminds me.

1867
01:10:45.600 --> 01:10:46.461
Okay, first of all.

1868
01:10:46.521 --> 01:10:47.162
Second of all.

1869
01:10:47.382 --> 01:10:47.862
You're right.

1870
01:10:48.403 --> 01:10:48.923
You're right.

1871
01:10:49.183 --> 01:10:51.826
Give it up for me, Tara.

1872
01:10:51.906 --> 01:10:52.166
Hey!

1873
01:10:52.186 --> 01:10:52.887
Is that a boo?

1874
01:10:53.707 --> 01:10:56.070
Yeah, it was real.

1875
01:10:56.530 --> 01:10:58.872
I thought I heard a boo, but it was just a deep male.

1876
01:10:58.972 --> 01:10:59.753
Brr, brr, brr, brr.

1877
01:10:59.813 --> 01:11:01.374
Oh, oh, oh, horns, horns.

1878
01:11:01.414 --> 01:11:02.856
She was like, who was booing?

1879
01:11:02.936 --> 01:11:04.657
You saved my face.

1880
01:11:04.697 --> 01:11:05.498
Wait, was that a boo?

1881
01:11:05.538 --> 01:11:06.980
I wasn't going to do anything about it.

1882
01:11:07.240 --> 01:11:08.181
Let me hear you now.

1883
01:11:08.201 --> 01:11:08.321
Hey.

1884
01:11:12.054 --> 01:11:13.557
Oh, I tease her about it all the time.

1885
01:11:13.677 --> 01:11:14.398
It's so good.

1886
01:11:14.459 --> 01:11:15.200
It's so good.

1887
01:11:15.220 --> 01:11:16.021
It was so good to have you.

1888
01:11:16.081 --> 01:11:16.683
Truly, truly, truly.

1889
01:11:16.703 --> 01:11:17.724
Thank you for having me.

1890
01:11:17.744 --> 01:11:20.510
So excited for you in this album, this tour.

1891
01:11:20.530 --> 01:11:22.213
What do you want people to know about this tour?

1892
01:11:22.608 --> 01:11:23.288
You gotta be there.

1893
01:11:23.748 --> 01:11:24.188
Gotta be there.

1894
01:11:24.229 --> 01:11:24.929
You gotta be there.

1895
01:11:24.969 --> 01:11:29.230
Cause I feel like being where I am today is where I am today.

1896
01:11:29.850 --> 01:11:34.812
And these intimate moments, like I've, I've done it so that the tour is really close.

1897
01:11:34.832 --> 01:11:46.495
I want to be able to see people, but I love seeing artists that you feel like are going to keep expanding, but at a moment where you can see them at a smaller venue and you can see them really close and personal.

1898
01:11:46.515 --> 01:11:50.597
And like, I want to experience that with everybody who's rocking with me right now.

1899
01:11:50.617 --> 01:11:52.017
And I want to meet them and see them.

1900
01:11:52.137 --> 01:11:53.277
you better get in right now.

1901
01:11:53.297 --> 01:11:56.379
You better get in now, because the price is about to go up.

1902
01:11:56.619 --> 01:12:00.781
She's like, listen, you better get close now, because it's gonna be hard in the future.

1903
01:12:00.801 --> 01:12:08.424
Well, you know what, I am proud of making my ticket prices like really, really fair for the type of show that I bring.

1904
01:12:08.484 --> 01:12:12.805
So to be honest with you, the way that I tour, it's not a money grab.

1905
01:12:12.865 --> 01:12:16.327
I have to spend in order to go, because I've set my prices at a certain way.

1906
01:12:16.787 --> 01:12:17.747
and I have to invest.

1907
01:12:17.848 --> 01:12:24.911
So it's really a gift to myself to be able to meet my fans and also promote my music in a way that I feel like gives you the entire picture.

1908
01:12:25.271 --> 01:12:26.411
And it's not just to grab.

1909
01:12:26.792 --> 01:12:27.232
Some cash.

1910
01:12:27.572 --> 01:12:28.993
No, it never has been.

1911
01:12:29.113 --> 01:12:29.973
Right, I know that's right.

1912
01:12:29.993 --> 01:12:36.856
So like I invest in every tour, so I want people to be able to see that before everyone kind of awakens into the larger picture.

1913
01:12:36.876 --> 01:12:39.117
Like, you know, we're gonna just keep going.

1914
01:12:39.197 --> 01:12:39.858
Going up.

1915
01:12:40.038 --> 01:12:40.998
I can't, we going up.

1916
01:12:41.058 --> 01:12:42.179
We going up.

1917
01:12:42.359 --> 01:12:44.340
Give it up for Victoria Monod!

1918
01:12:46.291 --> 01:12:46.611
Yay!

1919
01:12:46.631 --> 01:12:50.994
He's saying, be clear, be clear, be clear.

1920
01:12:51.794 --> 01:12:52.335
Monet.

1921
01:12:52.655 --> 01:12:53.816
That's a Monet in the bay.

1922
01:12:54.256 --> 01:12:54.917
Is it basil?

1923
01:12:54.937 --> 01:12:55.697
Yeah, it's basil.

1924
01:12:56.017 --> 01:12:56.197
Nice.

1925
01:12:56.217 --> 01:12:56.778
Little pineapple.

1926
01:12:56.818 --> 01:12:58.619
That's my daughter's nickname, Hazel Basil.

1927
01:12:58.879 --> 01:12:59.840
Hazel Basil.

1928
01:13:00.240 --> 01:13:01.821
Was it Whitney Houston, right?

1929
01:13:01.841 --> 01:13:05.524
Remember when she went on tour with Bebe and, whoa, tried to get it in my mouth.

1930
01:13:05.544 --> 01:13:06.164
Did you see that?

1931
01:13:06.805 --> 01:13:07.325
That was crazy.

1932
01:13:07.345 --> 01:13:08.306
Yeah, give me that bite.

1933
01:13:08.826 --> 01:13:10.046
I have a little paper towel.

1934
01:13:10.086 --> 01:13:10.807
Yeah, it's right here.

1935
01:13:11.007 --> 01:13:11.667
Oh, perfect.

1936
01:13:12.047 --> 01:13:13.387
I love this tool.

1937
01:13:13.687 --> 01:13:14.468
You gotta keep it cute.

1938
01:13:14.628 --> 01:13:15.948
Is your trash can, I'm like.

1939
01:13:16.628 --> 01:13:18.069
It's gonna pop out.

1940
01:13:18.349 --> 01:13:21.750
I feel like it's gonna be a taco good, ain't it?

1941
01:13:21.770 --> 01:13:22.870
Taco real good, ain't it?

1942
01:13:23.130 --> 01:13:23.770
Ugh!

1943
01:13:24.030 --> 01:13:25.030
That's another time.

1944
01:13:25.050 --> 01:13:26.411
You know you get a shoulder shimmy.

1945
01:13:26.611 --> 01:13:27.231
Woo!

1946
01:13:27.731 --> 01:13:30.312
Oh, shit, oh, shoot.

1947
01:13:30.412 --> 01:13:32.212
Shit is fine, she's gonna have shit.

1948
01:13:32.372 --> 01:13:33.153
Okay, oh shit.

1949
01:13:33.253 --> 01:13:33.753
Ha, shit.

1950
01:13:34.133 --> 01:13:34.493
I said it.

1951
01:13:39.015 --> 01:13:40.124
is all away.