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real life presents the Jack Kibs podcast with intention and boldness to proclaim

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truth equip the saints and impact our culture. Many kids many people today are

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sexually confused because of two reasons according to the scientists and

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psychiatric treatment and that is molestation as a child and or images of

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extreme pornography causes a child who becomes sexually disconnected and

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they're thinking and they're radically confused by that.

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You can get the outlines of this podcast by going to jackkibs.com slash podcast.

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Today if this podcast lifts you up and encourages you to live a more fulfilled

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life in Christ then make sure you leave us one of those five star ratings. To us

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that's like saying amen or yes then that rating will encourage others to

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listen. Now open your hearts to what God's word has to say to you. Here is Jack

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Kibs. I'm going to read something to you you're going to be shocked. Deuteronomy

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chapter 22 verse five three four thousand years ago a woman must not put on

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men's clothing and a man must not wear women's clothing. Anyone who does this

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is detestable in the sight of the Lord your God. God's not into fashion design. God

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is into protecting a person's gender that he created them to be. The Bible says

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to train up your child in the way that they should go. Do you know what that means?

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I don't think I don't think we know what that means. It means that when a boy

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and when a baby boy is born you treat that baby boy like a baby boy. You have to

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guide them and steer them. You don't leave them to themselves. The Bible says a

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child left to themselves bring reproach to their parents. When the little boy

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puts on mommy's bra you say honey you take that off sweetie that's for mommy

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and that's not for you. Here put on my cowboy boots or put on my work gloves

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pal they need to be taught that. They're not gender confused. They think it's a

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funny looking piece of clothing. It doesn't mean anything more than that. Well our

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child's born and we're not going to determine we're not going to announce

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it's gender. We're going to let we're going to let it figure it out for itself.

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That's child abuse. Ephesians five verse three let there be no sexual

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immorality impurity or greed among you such sins or have no place among

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God's people obscene stories foolish talk and coarse jokes these are not for

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you. Sounds pretty straightforward. Galatians five 19 when you follow the

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desires of your sinful nature how many of you have a sinful nature raise your

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hand. Those of you are not raised in your hand your nature is more sinful than

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those of us who are big. Every single one of us have a sin nature. The results

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are very clear sexual immorality which is by the way the word pornia where we

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get the word porn impurity lustful pleasures idolatry sorcery interesting

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word means drug use hallucinogenic drug hostility coraling jealousy outburst

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of anger selfish ambition dissension division verse 21 envy drunkenness wild

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parties or Jesus the word and other sins like these let me tell you again as I

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have before that anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of

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God why does God say this because he wants you to have a course correction and

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come to heaven this is the wonderful passage of scripture hang on everybody listen

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to the end it's glorious first Corinthians chapter six verse nine do you not

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know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God do not be deceived

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neither fornicators you know what that means okay nor idolaters nor adulterers

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nor homosexuals nor sotomites nor thieves nor covetous nor drunkards nor

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revilers nor extortioners will inherit the Kingdom of God here's verse 11

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because you know if you end at verse 10 it's like suicide time look at verse 11

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verse 11 saved my life and such were some of you oh man but you were washed but

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you were sanctified but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by

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the spirit of God wow wow God says yeah you're all that stuff or you were

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half of those are three of those that doesn't matter if you're just one of those

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things guess what you came to me and I washed you clean gave you a brand new

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life we end with this verse 32 the verdict of damnation watch this my

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catch your guardier for a moment who knowing the righteous judgment of God that

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those who practice such things are deserving of death they know it's wrong listen

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to this not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them what does

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that mean there are those who are practicing sins like the ones we just

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listed they they know it's wrong but they keep doing it but there are those who

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don't do those sins but condone the sins they're doing this is the

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the Bible Romans 1 2000 years old I'm giving you truth more relevant than what

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we can handle and yet I'm reading from a 2000 year old page okay here's where

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gets practical the pastor Jack weren't they born that way the answer is that

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they were not born that way God's word says God says I made humans male and

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female but remember Romans chapter 1 verse 25 says they decided to trade or to

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exchange or to switch the truth about God into a lie so they say God made me

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this way no he did not do that and I I refer you back to last week's messages

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many kids many people today are sexually confused because of two reasons

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according to the scientist and psychiatry this psychiatric treatment and that is

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a molestation as a child and or images of extreme pornography causes a child to

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become sexually disconnected and they're thinking and they're radically

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confused by that it doesn't mean they can't be healed and blessed and restored

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means it's gonna take love not more confusion no no no you don't get it we have

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to affirm that you're not helping them you're not helping you need to love

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them we need men to be men and to show young people what it is to be a man and

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we need women to be women to show young people what it is to be a woman by

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doing so you'll bless that child's life and you'll honor God I saw the billboard

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as you did going southbound on the 57 freeway love is love that's not true first

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of all you're gonna have to define what love means before you slap it on a

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screen what is what are you talking about you mean I can have sex with anybody

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or anything I want to is that what you mean by love no as long as we love one

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another well wait a minute this never ends this kind of humanism never stops

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because you can decide listen you cannot fault me if you're gonna apply that

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love is love love is love well in that case I think I love your wife well I

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think I think I love your husband where do you I think I look I think I love

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your your teenage daughter oh you can't say no to them love is love so where

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you gonna draw the line well that's okay that's okay but that's not okay who

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are you who were you to sufferly decide that you see it's called situational

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ethics if it's okay for me then I don't care if you have to suffer makes me feel

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good that's the nation we live in that's why God has left this country no love is

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not love according to the Bible love is when your husband or your wife is

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almost burned to death in a fire and you and you stick with them or you you

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clean up their vomit when they have the flu that's love love according to the

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Bible is Jesus is the personification of love who laid down his life to make

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sure that you have one that I have one people emailed me you got to make a

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practical I've been coming I've been listening to the series behind the

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mass make a practical and here's many of the questions where should I attend

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my relatives my gay relatives wedding listen the answer is very clear about

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this and listen take notes on this you're gonna want to take notes you would

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write them a note you would write them a letter or you'd call them up I'd

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rather write it and then call them up I'd rather do both and say listen you

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guys know where Christians right yeah and you guys know we're out on this

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right according to the Bible God says note to this because marriage was

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invented by God see people hate facts but in the words of Ben Shapiro facts don't

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care about your feelings right so the fact is God invented marriage no man can

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reinvent it God says this is marriage you can go to the court and call it a

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civil union or whatever you want to do just know this God says this is marriage

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and I accept no other combination so we're Christians and we follow God so

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listen we love you you can always come to us for prayer and to get truth we're

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gonna send you a gift but we're not coming we can't come because for us to come

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is to number one send a witness that we approve which we do not approve we

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love you we would die for you but we cannot condone what you're doing so we

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want you to know that you just remember whenever you're hurting them whenever

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you're in need you know my address you come but I cannot as a Christian send a

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message that I'm approving of this when God disapproves of it people don't

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like it it hurts I understand that I say this in a heart of love think think think

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you have a desire to appear or to be normal you have a desire to do what is

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normal but what you're living is abnormal so to make yourself feel better you

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have to borrow from normal this isn't that an isn't that an announcement to you

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that God wants you to come and to be completely renovated by him not by us not

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by any group or some some you know five step program one step program straight

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to him one step program I want to end by giving you hope Jesus said in Matthew

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chapter 5 verse 17 everybody listen please Matthew 517 do not think that I've

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come to destroy the law or the prophets I did not come to destroy but to fulfill

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that means every word of the Bible from Genesis to Revelation is pure true for

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assuredly I say to you till heaven and earth pass away one jot or one fiddle will

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by no means pass away till all to the law is all fulfilled Colossians 3 verse 5

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therefore put to death your members so what if I'm tempted in this area okay

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good world tempted in areas therefore put to death your members which are on

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the earth that means take this desire like fornication uncleaness passion evil

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desires covetousness which is idolatry because of these things the wrath of God

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is coming upon the sons of disobedience in which you yourselves once walked

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when you lived in them see Jesus changes lives Ephesians 2 1 and you he made

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alive who were dead and trespasses and sins in which you once walked according

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to the course of this world according to the prince of the power of the air

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that's the title of Satan the prince who now works in the sons of disobedience

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among whom also we all once conducted our cells in the lust of the flesh fulfilling

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the desires of the flesh and of the mind and we're by nature children of wrath just as

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others but God who is rich and mercy because he has because of his great love where

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with he loved us even when we were dead and trespasses made us alive together with Christ

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grace you have been saved epic almost done first Corinthians 10 verse 13 make it practical

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here it is no temptation has overtaken you except such as is common among men

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mankind everybody gets tempted but God is faithful who will not allow you to be tempted beyond

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what you are able but with the temptation will also make the way of escape that you may be able

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to bear it 2nd Corinthians 5 16 therefore from now on I love this we regard no one according to

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the flesh but Christ is right we Christians followers of Jesus when somebody accepts Christ today

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maybe right now today you're saying man I need to if that Bible is true I'm in trouble I need to

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make a change guess what we don't want to know about your past life and that how cool is that

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you know when you're around people who know your past okay it's pretty horrible two weeks ago

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somebody from my high school came and visited church here and I I mean I'm glad they came to church

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but I'm thinking why couldn't they have gone to some other church because they knew me before I

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knew Jesus and it was just like hi how are you see a nice day no listen we don't know one another

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anymore after the flesh look at this even though we have known Christ according to the flesh yet

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now we know him thus no longer we know him and thrown in heaven above therefore if anyone is in

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Christ he's a new creation all things have passed away behold all things have become new is that right

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