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Good morning, everyone. Happy Thursday, hope you guys are starting your days off on the right

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track and having a great start. I wanted to continue the most frequently asked questions that we

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get at round tables and one people are like, I have this dying question that I need to ask you.

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And so this may be you in your business right now and you're trying to make a decision

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and you want some insight on that decision. And so the decision that I'm going to hopefully help you

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make is about that employee that you're not sure about, right? You're not sure if you

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onboarded them well because you're kind of busy. You're not sure if you set proper expectations and

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kind of the world list changed a little bit. You know, you like them, but sometimes they don't

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buy into some of the things that you've said that you want to do in terms of the vision of the

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business. And you're just not really sure what to do with them. You know what I mean? And so

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I want to hopefully give you some context for how to make these decisions because we have hired

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and fired a lot of people at gym lunch and you know, the nice thing is that we have had very,

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very, very few people quit. Like very few. I think we've had under, under eight people quit and we

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fired probably a hundred and probably 160, 180 people. And so we let people go, right? And we do

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that for a variety of reasons and I will break them down for you. So a saying to kind of set the

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tone for this. I heard from my good friend, Bart Miller. And he said, I've never fired someone

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and not found someone better. Interesting thought. So if you think about it right now, the fear is,

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well, will I find someone better? He is never, and this goes for me too. I've never fired someone

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and not someone found someone better to replace them, right? It's typically because we don't want

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to go through the cost of the time to find someone new. When in reality, the employee that we have

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is costing us more than the cost of finding the new employee, right? That would come to replace them.

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And what I have found over time is that if I think about firing someone, I always eventually fired them.

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And so the time between me thinking about firing them and actually firing them since we've had

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more experience in business has just significantly shrank, right? Because at the end of the day, like,

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now, as soon as I think into myself, I'm like, yeah, yeah, they're just not a fit, right? Like they're

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just, or they're just not good enough, right? And so this kind of reflects back to the zero tolerance

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mentality of how you need to run the business or your department or whatever it is, which is like

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how much will you tolerate, right? Like how how poor of performance will you tolerate before you

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say no, right? And like the reason Steve Jobs and some of these huge entrepreneurs were so successful

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is because they just wouldn't put up with that. And so they're like, don't bring that shit to me.

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Like they knew they set the bar so high that like people had to just do everything to measure up

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to their standards. And anyone who wasn't was cut immediately, just like that, right? And so

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one of the other things that's kind of big in terms of like making these decisions is that like

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there's a time to let someone go and there's a time to re-onboard, okay? So I'll try and parse out

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the difference. If someone questions your authority or disrespects you or disrespects you in front

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of your team or is not bought into when you want to make changes, things like that, they're not.

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Right? And the reason for that is because that's an that's an attitude thing. That's a character thing.

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That is not going to change, right? And not anytime soon. And they're costing you more in the cancer

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that they exist in the business and the doubt and the seeds they're selling in your business that

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are negative. Like seeds of doubt that they're selling in the rest of your clients, the rest of your

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employees, the whole organization, right? So if it's a character issue, boom, they should be gone

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immediately, right? Now, if it's a performance issue, there's typically three reasons why the

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performance won't get either they don't know what you want. They don't know how to do what you want.

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So they know what you want, but they don't know how to do it or they do know what you want.

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They know how to do it and they're not motivated, right? So there's really three pieces. It's the

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communication piece, it's the skill piece, and then there's the motivation, right? And so trying to

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figure out which is the missing link with them is kind of the next piece. So assuming they have the

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character traits in terms of they have, they are a cultural fit, which for a small business,

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typically the skills that you need to teach someone are not overly complex. And so when you're

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hiring for a small business, you're really just looking for personality traits, right? You're

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looking for a cultural fit. And one of the key components that looking for cultural fit is not

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saying, I'm going to find people who are just like me, because then you hire a super scattered

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trained ADD semi entrepreneurial people who can be a pain in the ass, right? And so instead,

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you don't need to find people who have personality traits that are similar to you,

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but have similar values, right? There are people who are very quiet, who are very reserved,

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who don't like selling of the same values as I do, right? And so understanding the difference

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there, because you don't want people exactly like you, because then there's two of you and one of

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you isn't needed, right? And so especially when you're bringing people on, making sure that they

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have the cultural like that they're bought into the same values as you is makes all the difference

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the world. So right now, if you haven't written down your values of what you stand for and these

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values should be the few, the five, maybe six values that you live your life with inside of work

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and outside of work, because you should never be different, right? And so if you have these values,

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you can speak them to people and people will either say like, yeah, I'm down for that or like, no,

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I'm not. And your value should be things that people disagree with, right? The more polar they are,

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the more they are your real values, right? And what happens is when you make your values polar,

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you bring people in who do actually have your beliefs, right? And then it's not the fake beliefs,

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but the real beliefs that you have. And then all of a sudden when they're presented with information,

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the same information you're presented, they make the same decisions. And that's ultimately how

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you can scale service by scaling your culture, by scaling your values, right? So back to the back to

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the decision of like, should they stay or should they go, right? If they're not a cultural fit,

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they're an asshole. They undermine you. They, you know, they talk bad behind your back. They,

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you know, they go, you want to release a new program and they're whispering to the clients like,

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nah, it's not going to be that good or like they roll their eyes to meeting like, here we go again,

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like that kind of thing, gone, gone. I don't know how to say that gone, right? And you need to do that

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to set the fucking tone, right? Because like, this is your business and people need to know that,

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all right? Now that being said, it doesn't mean being a dick, right? But like, there is a tone

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that needs to be set. I am, I worked with a person for a short period of time who ran trainers

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fairly well. And I remember he's like, he's like, we need to do a trainer meeting and I was like,

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okay, cool. And it was at like, I can't remember, it was like 8 a.m. or 9 a.m. or something, whatever.

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And it was at one of the locations that was further away. And so we drove there and at 9 o'clock

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on the dot, he locked the door to the gym. And there were trainers outside, Bane, right? And

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all he did, he just went outside, he's like, all of you are fired.

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Real quick guys, if you can think about how you found this podcast, somebody probably tweeted it,

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told you about it, shared it on Instagram or something like that. The only way this grows

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is through word of mouth. And so I don't run ads. I don't do sponsorships. I don't sell anything.

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My only ask is that you continue to pay it forward. Whoever showed you or however you found out

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about this podcast that you do the exact same thing. So if it was a review, if it was a post,

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if you do that, it would mean the world to me and you'll throw some good karma out there for another

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entrepreneur. And then we went in upstairs to the meeting who everyone was on time. He's like,

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he held the meeting and the fucking tone in that room was like, oh shit, right? And it was like,

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oh my god, like this just got real, right? And so that's the point here is that like you have to

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have authority in the business. If someone is undermining your authority, they're gone, right? Now,

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if someone is not that, they are, they are our culture. So if you're in that, you're like, oh,

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they're kind of like, like just be done with it. Let me help you make the decision. It's over.

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If you consistently thinking about firing them, you're going to fire them anyway. Stop dragging

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you up. Now, if you have someone and they're, it's a performance issue. It's either because they

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don't know what you want, which honestly happens all the time because you're typically, especially

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a lot of small businesses aren't good at communicating things, our firms in general,

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tend not be good at communicating. They say one thing, they walk away, they expect someone to know it,

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right? Happens all the time. I think Layla says the biggest myth of communication,

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the biggest myth in communication is that someone thinks it occurred, right? You say something,

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you think you communicated it and they have no idea where we're talking about, right? So one,

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do they know what you want? Two, do they know how to do what you want, the way you want them to do it?

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Three, are they motivated, right? And so how do you tell them what you want them to do?

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It is telling them and it is always documenting what you want them to do in writing.

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So for us, if it's not written, it doesn't count. That's how we believe things work.

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If it's not written down, if it's not an email, if it's not a summary of a conversation that follows

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up a conversation, it didn't happen, right? And we don't even expect people to do it because we

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just know people, we know better than that, right? And so if you have a system like a sauna or

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something like that that you may not have passed in, then it would even further follow up into

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tasks that they need to be, need to be done, right? And so one, do they know what you want?

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And if they, if you communicated that to them, you say it and then you fall up in writing.

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Next, do they know how to do what you want? Do they have the skills to do what you need them to do?

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Now that could be from past experience, if you're trying to hire somebody who's a little bit higher

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level, unlikely for most people running small businesses. And so if someone's coming in, how did

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you train them, right? And typically people are under trained. They're overexpected and under

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trained. So how did you train this person? How many, like, real examples did they go through?

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Did, like, how did you teach them? If you think about it like a school class, like, did you give

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them a presentation where they're taking notes? And it's a consistent presentation. So they

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understand. And then you had them demonstrate it back to you. And then you had them do it again.

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And they had them do it again. Because if you do that, and then you walk with them with someone

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live through this experience, whether it's answering the phone, whether it's making up out calls,

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whether it's selling, whether it's coaching a class, like, they need to know what it looks like

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when it's right. Recordings are amazing for this because it takes you no time and they can absorb

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what ideal scene looks like, right? Because you can paint that for them, right? And then once they've

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seen a bunch of recordings, then you can do a ride along where they're riding with you on the hip,

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right? They're on your hip. They're walking with you, right? Doing whatever it is, whether it's

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transactions, whether it's answering phones, like I said, like, any of those things, they're riding

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with you, right? And then after that, you do a ride along, but reverse. Now it's a learner's

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permit. Like, you're driving. But now I'm in the passage. You've been like, whoa, whoa, whoa,

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don't do that. What did you do that? Right? So I can correct in real time so we can get the behaviors

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up, right? And then after that, then they have their training wheels. And now when they have their

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training wheels, that's when you still are talking them once or twice a day if they're new so that

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you can make sure that the expectation that you've set is being met. And let me be real with you.

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Most people have no fucking clue what they're supposed to be doing. They have no clue. They got hired

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for this job. The boss talked them for like 30 minutes and then they just like went back to their

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desk and were like, okay, so I think he wants me to, right? You just like think about it from

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their perspective. They saw an ad, they interviewed, they got the job, and then you spent 30 minutes

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with them and said, hey, watch some of these videos, all right? And then good to go. Let me know

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if you have any questions. They don't want to bother you. They like, they don't want to bother you.

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They're like, ah, shit, I just don't want to get fired. And then, and then they just try and like,

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stay hidden because they're like, I just, I just don't know. I just don't want them to realize

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that I'm here, right? I just don't know. I just want to get paid and just like, not fuck up.

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And by not, and by wanting to not fuck up, they just don't do anything, right? And then you're like,

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and then three weeks later, you're like, what the hell? Why aren't they doing anything? Freaking

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employees, man, they just, it's free loaders. They just, you know, just suspecting get paid and

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not work, right? When it reality, they just never awkward. I didn't know what you wanted them to do,

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didn't know how to do it. A lot of them were motivated because that's why they got the job. No,

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please, don't be wrong. There's plenty of lazy people. But like, most people would like to keep

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their job. And so, like, if you just give them a clear path to win, then they will, right? So,

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big recap on this. If you have this person in your business that you are not sure about,

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if you don't know, you know, it's just like marriage. If you don't know, you know, let them go.

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If it's something that's cultural or behavior like, or personality wise, like gone, right?

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Now, the only, so now that's probably like two-thirds of the people who are thinking about

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firing someone just fucking get them out the door, all right? Be done with it, all right? You have

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my blessing, all right? Now, for the remainder, you're like, man, they're, they're bought in. Like,

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they really are bought in. They love what we do here. Like, I think they're a fit. Okay. The role

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has probably changed several times since they've been working with you because you've evolved

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as an entrepreneur, things have changed, the businesses evolved. And so you probably haven't

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re-updated them or re-onward them. And so just going through this will just massively increase

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your ROI on that human being's time, right? They're a human, which means there's another person

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who's working in your business. So you can get a lot of productivity out of someone who has

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clearly defined goals and has the skills to do the thing, right? And so one, re-onwarding

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if you're communicating with them and having it written down. In the short term, if it's a project,

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then it's going to be an email. If it's a long term thing like a huge role change, then it's

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going to be a one-page summary of their new role descriptions, etc. All right? Once they have

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a clear understanding of their role, then you have to teach them the skills. All right? That's where

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you first give them the recordings that they've been understanding. Then you, like, you present,

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you give recordings, then they do a ride along with you, then you do a ride along with them,

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and then they get training wheels where you're touching base with them every day sometimes twice

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a day. And after that, then you can decrease your cadence with them so that it's two or three times

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a week and then eventually you can get to weekly. And then it pretty much never stays beyond weekly.

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I mean, it never goes less than weekly after that. So hopefully, tactically, if you're listening

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right now and you're not sure about what to do with an employee, you can know whether you want to

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let them go or how to get them re-onboarded and back in the fray so that they can be great. And

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never be afraid to let people go because I've never let someone go and not found someone better.

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And I will say that productivity of a team typically always increases after someone is let go.

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And you also do it out of respect for what also the team. If you have three A players and there's

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a C player, that C player drags the whole team now. It is a team, not a family. And so if you're

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like, we're a family here, you need to get that out of your lexicon because you pay someone.

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You probably don't fire your kids, but you will fire someone if they don't perform. So I just

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don't think it's worth having the fake family because you're not. There's a paycheck that separates

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you. The dynamic relationship will always be one of someone who's getting paid versus paying someone

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else. And so it's like, this is a team. You had to try out to be here and you got to consistently

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play to get game time, right? Like, that's it. And then like, if you're not in the field, then like,

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I don't know, like, that's it. There's like, that's why there are teams and people get cut from

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teams. And so if you run yours like a team, actually, you know what I'm going to a little anecdote.

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Many of us in fitness played for teams. A lot of us played for high level teams and you've known

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what a good coach is like. You know what a bad coach is like, right? You're like, man, and some of you

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had the fortunate, like, a circumstance of having a bad team and then having a new coach come in

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who is a good coach and then the team turns around. So you know the, you know the feeling of what

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it's like to have a high performance team where there's expectations where you want to make the

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coach proud. There's a vibe of high performance. That is what it should feel like in the business.

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If it does not feel that way, then it means that you lack the skills to create that environment

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within your business. And so one of the first ways to do that is to get the bad players off the team

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so that you can rebuild. So anyways, hope you guys have an amazing Thursday,

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keeping awesome, lots of love, and I'll catch you guys on Thursday. Bye!
