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Real life presents the Jack Hibbs podcast with intention and boldness to proclaim

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truth, equip the saints, and impact our culture.

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New believers are so much fun to be around. They're bouncing off the walls. They

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got books everywhere. They're witnessing to a street pole in the fire hydrant.

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They're telling everybody, I love it. But have you noticed they've that

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zeal? But not much knowledge. We don't stand back and say, hey, you're gonna sit

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in that cage over there. We're lucky up until you get all stiff and grumpy like us.

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And then we'll let you out. No, man, the body of Christ coming together, working

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together, as we all mature together in Christ Jesus is such a glorious thing.

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It's such a beautiful thing.

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You can get the outlines of this podcast by going to jackhibbs.com slash podcast.

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Today, if this podcast lifts you up and encourages you to live a more fulfilled

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life in Christ, then make sure you leave us one of those five star ratings.

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To us, that's like saying, amen or yes, then that rating will encourage others to

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listen. Now, open your hearts to what God's word has to say to you. Here is Jack Hibbs.

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John chapter 1 verse 12 says, but as many as received him, that's that word for

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as many as come alongside and have him come alongside you and you come alongside him.

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You're an agreement. To them, he gave the right to become children of God to those who believe

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in his name. The word name can also be translated authority who were born not of blood, nor

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of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God, born of God. The believer

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must be born of God. Jesus said it this way. You must be born again. He said to Nicodemus,

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the teacher of Israel, and then the word is weak. Look at the word weak. This is the one

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that we, concerning our brothers and sisters that you and I know, they are weaker in the faith.

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They're not as strong as you. How are we to deal with them? Did you know that we live in a family?

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This is a family right here. And part of being in a family is that we're all in different,

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we're different ages, we're different levels, like a family, but this is even deeper to

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spiritual family. And in a family, there's the need for us to practice these things in love,

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not out of arrogance. The word weak means feeble, sensitive, in the negative sense, sensitive.

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Not sensitive to the voice, but sensitive to your very, very thin skinned.

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You're a Christian. You're going to heaven. You love God, but you have thin skin. You're easily

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offended. The person didn't say hi to me. I don't think I'm going to go back to that church anymore.

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That's who we're talking about. You're weak. It's not an insult. It's just an assessment of

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your level of spiritual growth or not. The word means sickly or prone to feebleness of spirit or

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faith, implying a lack of spiritual freedom. That's important. And power, narrow or limited.

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What does that mean in our day? Listen, you and I need to have a grounded faith. It's a practical

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faith. And there are those who have not yet grown much along in their faith. They may have been

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Christians for a long time, but they've never been well taught. But here's the thing that they're

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easily offended by the slightest things. The truth is they haven't come to understand grace. And so

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they can't, they don't understand grace and so they can never give grace. I call them since

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sniffers and fault finders. They're in the family, but they're always calling you out. I get

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letters every time I say this and it's going to happen again. Here it comes. You ready? At least I'm

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telling you the truth. And it's this. I need the Holy Spirit to have greater control of my life

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when I see a speed limit sign. I see a speed limit sign. And I think that's a challenge.

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I need to have, I need a repent of that. I need to understand that the car can I go beyond that

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number. I'm thinking the car can't go slower than that number. I'm weak in the faith that way.

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Okay? But think about your life. Well, this, that person has makeup on. No, this is for real.

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They should be more spiritual like me. They have makeup on.

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When we begin in our weakness, when we begin to look at other brothers and sisters that do not fit

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our ranking of acceptance into the body of Christ because we've established our standards.

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And they're not God-established standards. Did God say anywhere not to put makeup on?

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Ladies, that was your moment to say... Actually, wait, us men should have said,

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yeah, that's right. A woman wrote J. Vernon McGee and said,

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I've been told that I can't wear makeup. What does the Bible say? He says that Bible doesn't say

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anything about it. And he said, ma'am, if the bar needs painting, paint it.

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I didn't say that. J. Vernon McGee said that. You can ask him and you get to heaven.

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But we set up these rules. And they're not even in the Bible.

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If it's not in the Bible, what does the Bible say about rules that are not in the Bible?

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The next word is this. Conscious, what's our conscience? Our convictions about it.

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And what about the conscience or the convictions of others about it?

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If it's not mentioned in the Bible, we always default to love.

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Think of this. And so there's the weaker that is offended by many things.

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It's the weaker one that is critical.

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The one who has these rules and regulations, listen, the weaker you are in the faith,

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the more rules and regulations and fences you're going to have to establish.

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Because you do not understand and you do not enjoy, listen, listen, this is serious,

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your freedoms that are in Christ. And boy, I say that carefully because so many people today

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abuse the freedoms and misuse that's true doctrine of God.

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Let me put it to you this way. In Christ Jesus, you're not free to go do anything you want.

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Well, I'm a Christian. I can go sin. God will forgive me. Oh, no, that's not how I know.

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That's called anti-nominism. And God doesn't forgive that. The Old Testament says,

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that's sins of the high hand. Well, I'm going to go do this thing next Friday night,

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eight o'clock. We're going to go out and then oh, that's God to forgive me.

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No, no, no, he doesn't forgive that. Did you know that? He calls it sins of the high hand.

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It's premeditated sin. He says, I'm not going to forgive that.

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Isn't that amazing? That just proves that you're still not a believer.

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You may go to church. You may claim to be a Christian. But if you can premeditate an

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appointment with sin and it doesn't have a storm go off inside of you, it just proves that you're

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internally dead. And that's why the call out to that and that's why God rebukes that so strongly.

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The Bible tells us in Romans 15 verse 12, we who are strong must be considerate of those who

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are sensitive about things like this. We must not just please ourselves. We should

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help others do what is right and build them up. I love that. In the Lord come alongside them,

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build them up. And then the words dispute and doubtful, two powerful words. We shouldn't get caught

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up and get into unnecessary debates that take us nowhere. The act of passing judgment upon another

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the word disputes. It means to hold someone in a lesser state or in a low opinion, to assume a

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or superior authority that you do not have. You think you have this authority to judge other

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Christians? When they're now that you don't have that and Paul says, they cannot be us.

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We are to get real with God and man. And it starts out with us confronting the fact that God loves us.

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So should we turn and love others like he loves us? And again, Paul is writing to the family

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of God, the church, very powerful. Listen to this, St. Augustine, Augustine of Hippo wrote this.

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This is great. He says, in essentials unity, in non-essentials liberty, in all things charity.

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Isn't that beautiful? When it's in essential, we need to come together biblically and unite.

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It's right there in the Bible. We submit to the obedience of the Word of God. When it's peripheral

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things, where it's not crystal clear. You know what we'll do? We'll exercise liberty in those areas.

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What does that mean? You know what? If somebody says to me, I can't go to the beach. This is kind of

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true. Watch this. Did you know where there are those who think we Californians? Oh, California.

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I had this happen in England years ago. I taught at a church in England and after the sermon,

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I didn't know. But everybody, all right, amen. Let's go. And everybody walks out of the church

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and they walk across the park and they go to a pub. And I'm following them. I don't know where we're

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going. I'm like, and we go into a pub. And I'm okay. I'll have shepherds pie and a water

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for real. And you know what they told me? Oh, you don't drink? See, in America, people drink to get

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drunk. In Europe, because the water is filthy, all those countries drink. And they don't get drunk.

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But I couldn't have a Guinness near me. Why? Somebody might take a picture. I could be on the front page

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of the news. So I drank my water and ate my shepherds pie. And this one guy said, he made me laugh.

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He said, you know, it's funny. He said, this always happens. You guys come here and you won't touch

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the beer. But when we go to California, you guys all put on your board shorts and bikinis and jump in the

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water. And we won't go near that. We'll just stand on the beach with our clothes on. Because you think

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we're sending by doing this. And I'm thinking, well, you are. They think we're sending because we

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go to the beach or go surfing. What does the Bible say about surfing? Liberty.

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Now in England, I'm not it. Look, maybe I didn't look if the water is that bad. Maybe they're

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justified in doing it. I'll let Jesus figure that out in the end. But we can start pointing at

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different people and they can start pointing back and we're not exactly sure what we're doing.

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Because in my insecurity, I'm trying to lay a law on you that I live by and if you don't live by

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that law of mine, you make me feel uncomfortable. And this is called church. This is who we are.

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And what do we do about it? Love one another. Come alongside one another and pick each other up.

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Well, it goes on. The word doubtful things, things being reasoned about. This is so social media

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appropriate. Doubtful things. Things being reasoned about arguments, speculations to judge another man's

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thoughts, conviction, to judge what they are thinking. You can't do that. We all know you can't

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do that. But we do it. And the Bible says that would be in maturity. What do you say? I said this.

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That's what you didn't mean that. This is what you meant. We don't know that. We need to be careful.

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But this practical faith that God gives us is a faith that works. Colossians chapter 2, verse 16 says,

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so let no one judge you. Listen to this. In food or in drink or regarding a festival or a new moon

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or Sabbath, which are a shadow of things to come, but the substance is of Christ.

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So what's the rule? You'll never go wrong when love and loving your neighbors the rule.

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Very important. The complexion, think about the complexion and the

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composition of the church is remarkable. It's awe-inspiring if you ask me.

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Recently I was asked, what is the demographics? Somebody was asking me,

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there's some other in the church world business stuff. What's the demographics?

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I was at a conference. They said, what's the demographics of your church? I don't know.

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But I told them, I said, well, I know what you're asking, but we don't keep record of this stuff,

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but I can tell you this. I said, I wish I had a body cam and I could stream

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or eat service to show who is attending these services. There's black, there's white,

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there's every color in between. Listen, there are various Asian cultures. The Vietnamese are sitting

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next to the Japanese. The Japanese are shaking hands with the Chinese and the Chinese

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are shaking hands with the Indonesians. Listen, in those cultures, they don't do that.

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They don't do that in this culture, in that world that they live in. They have a very, very rigid

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division, not here, not here because Jesus trumps all his love for you, the fact that he's made you

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new, all that stuff goes out the window. And we love one another. It's remarkable. We need to be

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very, very thoughtful people that we do not live our lives like this. Well, I've been a believer for

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all these years. What are you saying? What are you saying when you say that? I assume by you saying

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that you're something. Well, you know, I've been a Christian for many decades. Oh boy,

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what are we getting into here? So you've been a Christian for many decades. What does that mean?

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Does that mean for 50 years you've been a Christian with one year experience every 50 years?

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Or have you been a Christian for 50 years with 50 years experience? That's something, but I got

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news for you. If you've been a Christian for 50 years with 50 years of Christian experience,

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the last word that's going to come out of your mouth is, well, you know, I've been a Christian for 50

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years. Are you hearing me? The young believer, the new believer, God bless them. We love them. We

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love to be around them. It's like being around a puppy. They're so great. New believers are so much

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fun to be around. They're bouncing off the walls. They got books everywhere. They're telling this.

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They're witnessing to a street pole and a fire hydrant. They're telling everybody. I love it.

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But have you noticed they've got zeal, but not much knowledge. That's where you and I come along

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and love them on the rest of the way. We don't stand back and say, hey, you're going to sit in that

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cage over there. We'll lock you up until you get all stiff and grumpy like us. And then we'll let

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you out. No, man, the body of Christ coming together, working together as we all mature together

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in Christ Jesus is such a glorious thing. It's such a beautiful thing. And I'm at a time, but I

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must mention this in the drive you crazy all week. Pastor, what was the thing about vegetarian?

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What was the thing about the vegetarian? It's this. It has nothing to do with health stuff. Look,

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you want to be a vegetarian? I think that's a great idea. It leaves more meat for me to eat.

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If you're a vegetarian, that's awesome. Is that your conviction? Yes, I feel better. Good. Great.

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But the moment you say to me, you know, you should be a vegetarian too. I don't want to. Well,

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if you get close to Jesus, you'll see that you you should only eat vegetables. No,

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I've read my Bible. And it's pretty clear. Look, if you're blessed by eating vegetables,

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I am happy for you. Literally happy for you. You should be as happy for me. I look,

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you have to take it up with God. How he ordained in an outburger? I don't know how he did it.

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But that's, you cannot say, Pastor Jack, this is the second time this week. I saw you go through

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in an outburger. You can't, the Bible says, you can't, you can't judge that.

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Those kinds of things, the world laughs at us because we have focused on minor things,

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if they're things at all, we've made them things and we've let all the greater, deeper things of God

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go along the wayside and the world looks at us and they laugh at us. They know better.

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We need to practice love above all things. And I'm not talking about

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accepting and condoning sin in the name of love. We are to never do that.

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It is not a sin to eat vegetables and it's not a sin to eat a burger.

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All things, Bible says, given for food are to be received with thanks and given to God. And

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when someone is in error, sinning, this verse doesn't apply. This study doesn't apply to that.

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We are to go to the men's say, listen, I love you. That's why I'm going to tell you,

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a good cause is our relationship. This is how much I love you. You shouldn't be doing that.

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God says this in the Bible about this thing. Look, you can read it for yourself. It's black and white.

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And I'm telling you, because I love you, don't do that. You want to go and repent before the Lord

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on that. The Bible says, if you succeed in doing that, you've gained a brother.

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But if that brother turns us, it's linear love.

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When it comes to these things about who's strong and who's weak, the reality is in church,

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some people are strong and some people are weak. But we're all growing up.

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The beautiful thing is, why don't we link arms and make sure that we all grow up together?

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Because that's exactly how a family ought to work.

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making a savvy choice. Visit progressive.com and see if you can enjoy a little extra cashback.

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Progressive casualty insurance company and affiliates. National average 12-month savings of $946

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by new customers surveyed who saved with progressive between June 2024 and May 2025.

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Potential savings will vary.
